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changed profile but still not getting anywere any advise

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hi we have been on site for nearly an year although only for the last 4 or 5 months we have wrote a profile an put pics up but nothing then got told last week profile was to shouty as i had used capitals an wasnt that good changed it but still nothing we being to picky i dont know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile doesn't really read that well, I found it hard to read, you are only seeking single women so that's going to narrow your meets quite a bit as they are very highly sought after, perhaps a couple of pics of the male half too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

di think this aswell i always know what to say but ramble on a bit thanks for the advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and stop to take a breath - space it out a bit - to be honest i didnt bother to read it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all one big long sentence, there's no full stops so ya don't know where the sentence ends.

It also looks like it was written by a man. The language used sounds more masculine than the way I'd expect a woman to speak.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

constructive critasism thanks just gunna re rite x

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

And for all picky grammar people its 'and' not 'an' you'll be surprised how many people are put off by things like that x good luck! Looking forward to the rewrite x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let me get this straight...you are saying you are getting nothing but then say you are too picky which suggests you are getting messages.

Are you just an attention seeker?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no i aint a attention seeker what im saying is we are getting messages but off couples mostly maybe we are being picky should of said maybe we should rethink what we looking for x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thankyou sitting here now pondering how to word as i say thanks for the help xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no i aint a attention seeker what im saying is we are getting messages but off couples mostly maybe we are being picky should of said maybe we should rethink what we looking for x"

So what you are saying is that you are getting messages off couples and they are not up to your standards?

This is getting better all the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no i aint a attention seeker what im saying is we are getting messages but off couples mostly maybe we are being picky should of said maybe we should rethink what we looking for x

So what you are saying is that you are getting messages off couples and they are not up to your standards?

This is getting better all the time."

I think they were genuinely asking advice on how there profile looks as they are not attracting the right kind of people who they would like to meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't change what you are looking for just to get meets, unless you want to of course! If you are only wanting a female to join you then stick at it, just remember that single females are in high demand and get lots of messages so if contacting them you need to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are looking for a one legged, asexual, green eyed girl under 5ft tall with an interest in horticulture. We are not having any luck can people please advise what we are doing wrong and how we could change our profile.

Your sincerely,

Frustrated of Warrington.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what you are saying is that you are getting messages off couples and they are not up to your standards?

This is getting better all the time."

I think you will find they are looking to meet single females only but getting messages of couples, nothing to do with not being up to there standards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why twist thing im npt say any couple aint good enough for us im sayin we are getting emails of couples an we dont want a couple i have couples on my friends list i aint going to argue on here was only looking for a little advise x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thankyou thats waht im trying to say x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why twist thing im npt say any couple aint good enough for us im sayin we are getting emails of couples an we dont want a couple i have couples on my friends list i aint going to argue on here was only looking for a little advise x"

Erm......isn't that what the filters are for? And why not keep an open mind on what you want it is more fun that way! Constant voyage of discovery.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

From your profile, it seems to me that you want to meet a female, but for ff fun and the male half will be watching, and there won't be sex between someone you meet and the male half???

If that's the case, why would a single fem meet you rather than just meet another single fem... Just how I see it.

Good luck

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"From your profile, it seems to me that you want to meet a female, but for ff fun and the male half will be watching, and there won't be sex between someone you meet and the male half???

If that's the case, why would a single fem meet you rather than just meet another single fem... Just how I see it.

Good luck"

A single single may want to have sex with another lady while that other ladies partner watches ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thankyou thats waht im trying to say x"

No problem.

You stick to your guns though, if you only want to meet single ladies then that is your choice and should be respected.

We only meet single guys/females, if we wanted to set something up quick and nobody availible we wouldn't start meeting what we are not looking for just to get a meet.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From your profile, it seems to me that you want to meet a female, but for ff fun and the male half will be watching, and there won't be sex between someone you meet and the male half???

If that's the case, why would a single fem meet you rather than just meet another single fem... Just how I see it.

Good luck

A single single may want to have sex with another lady while that other ladies partner watches ?"

And if people believe that they will believe anything. What is the betting that at some point the woman will say 'do you mind if my partner joins in'. Either that or they won't even ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From your profile, it seems to me that you want to meet a female, but for ff fun and the male half will be watching, and there won't be sex between someone you meet and the male half???

If that's the case, why would a single fem meet you rather than just meet another single fem... Just how I see it.

Good luck

A single single may want to have sex with another lady while that other ladies partner watches ?

And if people believe that they will believe anything. What is the betting that at some point the woman will say 'do you mind if my partner joins in'. Either that or they won't even ask."

It does happen, I'm a voyeur only and like to just watch Shaz have fun, I have been lucky enough to watch Shaz have fun with quite a few ladies as well as guys.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thing is i want him to join in an play an he wants to but just not to have sex do you think alot woman may feel i dont know a bit robbed as they aint getting to have sex i dont know x

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By *ustyBrunette35Couple
over a year ago

birmingham


"From your profile, it seems to me that you want to meet a female, but for ff fun and the male half will be watching, and there won't be sex between someone you meet and the male half???

If that's the case, why would a single fem meet you rather than just meet another single fem... Just how I see it.

Good luck

A single single may want to have sex with another lady while that other ladies partner watches ?

And if people believe that they will believe anything. What is the betting that at some point the woman will say 'do you mind if my partner joins in'. Either that or they won't even ask."

I've never asked a single lady if my partner can join in, if the single lady is told my fella won't join in then he won't even try to join in

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"thing is i want him to join in an play an he wants to but just not to have sex do you think alot woman may feel i dont know a bit robbed as they aint getting to have sex i dont know x"

Just state in your profile rewrite that the male will join for soft swing fun but there will be no full sex with other ladies x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks once again i have put that in profile just re wrote it dont think it will ever look write oh well back to drawing board x

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"And for all picky grammar people its 'and' not 'an' you'll be surprised how many people are put off by things like that x good luck! Looking forward to the rewrite x "

That

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks once again i have put that in profile just re wrote it dont think it will ever look write oh well back to drawing board x"

I think looking at this thread you need to really decide exactly what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to reading the re wrote profile

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"thing is i want him to join in an play an he wants to but just not to have sex do you think alot woman may feel i dont know a bit robbed as they aint getting to have sex i dont know x"

Everyone is different... Some women will be looking for this.. Personally if I have and ffm threesome, I only do it if everyone is equally involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"thanks once again i have put that in profile just re wrote it dont think it will ever look write oh well back to drawing board x

I think looking at this thread you need to really decide exactly what you want."

i think they know what they want they are just finding it a little difficult to put it into words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thats it not knowing what to put its all in the wording im more action speaks loader than words x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would spontaneoulsy combust if I had to sit and watch for more than about five seconds.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do meet couple for ff fun but i love cock at the end ..even on my couple profile we meet couples for ff fun but still get my hub cock at the end if there soft swap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hi we have been on site for nearly an year although only for the last 4 or 5 months we have wrote a profile an put pics up but nothing then got told last week profile was to shouty as i had used capitals an wasnt that good changed it but still nothing we being to picky i dont know x"

well no offence and i dont know what your other profile was like but i prefer some uniformity when i am reading profiles...yours seems to be all over the place tbh! try using punctuation every now and again...or maybe listing what you like in bullet points...it also reads like your other half is writing it and then it jumps back to you! very confusing...also you contradict yourself a couple of times..

and finally, speaking as one of those elusive bi-fems that every couple wants to befriend, i personally don't meet bi curious women as it is often just a male fantasy to see his wife with another woman..and thats just how your profile reads!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

profile re wrote think it looks 10 times better thanks for all the advice hope it helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"profile re wrote think it looks 10 times better thanks for all the advice hope it helps x "

100% better than the last one! hope you get a better response this time around!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thankyou x

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Not looking for single guys.....Then in the profile it is said: Singles guys we will find you if we need you. I don't think you will find them...

Good luck with your search

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

They would show up tho on a search if the OP decided that they did want to meet a single guy tho wouldn't they??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what we mean at any time people allowed to change there mind an look for something else well if we do we would come look you them single males x

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"what we mean at any time people allowed to change there mind an look for something else well if we do we would come look you them single males x"
..You won't even need to look..they will be there awaiting for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol well that i knew hehe we go on cam an get plenty men watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well that looks a lot better! Hope you find what your looking for!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanbks x

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"lol well that i knew hehe we go on cam an get plenty men watching "
...Now you see why you need to relax on this site? Forget any plan, just do what float your boat, single men , couple, ladies, gay, bi, tv-ts...Just put the fun first

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