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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey all,

Curious what people think about photos of men using sex toys ? Fleshlights, Tengas, pocket pussys etc.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I have pics and videos of fleshlight, cock ring with anal vibrator and more in my friend pics. Anybody wants a look without friending just message and I'll DM it over.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I’m not keen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not keen "

Can I ask why ? (If there's a reason).

This is what I'm curious about.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m not keen

Can I ask why ? (If there's a reason).

This is what I'm curious about."

I just don’t like them. Nothing appealing at all sorry

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By *havennaturistsCouple
over a year ago

Banff


"I’m not keen

Can I ask why ? (If there's a reason).

This is what I'm curious about.

I just don’t like them. Nothing appealing at all sorry "

Ok for women to use? Many women enjoy and use cock shaped sex toys, I don't think men feel threatened by that, do they? I muse that some women may not take that view on a 'vagina' replacement? I just don't know.

For the record, we both enjoy using sex toys both on ourselves and for each other.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m not keen

Can I ask why ? (If there's a reason).

This is what I'm curious about.

I just don’t like them. Nothing appealing at all sorry

Ok for women to use? Many women enjoy and use cock shaped sex toys, I don't think men feel threatened by that, do they? I muse that some women may not take that view on a 'vagina' replacement? I just don't know.

For the record, we both enjoy using sex toys both on ourselves and for each other."

I don’t like female pictures with a dildo up there fanny either. Sorry not appealing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m not keen

Can I ask why ? (If there's a reason).

This is what I'm curious about.

I just don’t like them. Nothing appealing at all sorry

Ok for women to use? Many women enjoy and use cock shaped sex toys, I don't think men feel threatened by that, do they? I muse that some women may not take that view on a 'vagina' replacement? I just don't know.

For the record, we both enjoy using sex toys both on ourselves and for each other."

This is kinda what I was curious about, is there a double standard when it comes to sex toy usage ?

Anecdotal but I know among a few of my peers that guys using sex toys is still a bit stigmatised where women using sex toys is empowering.

I was curious if that was just my friends or if it was the wider consensus.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I’m not keen

Can I ask why ? (If there's a reason).

This is what I'm curious about."

Feels fake but its ok in conjunction with a partner or just wana get good orgasm as they definitely do that job...but too mechanically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan either, but I honestly couldn't tell you why. I think it's the whole "men will put their dick in anything" kind of ick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a fan either, but I honestly couldn't tell you why. I think it's the whole "men will put their dick in anything" kind of ick. "

That's interesting!

How do you feel about women posting photos with toys ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not a fan either, but I honestly couldn't tell you why. I think it's the whole "men will put their dick in anything" kind of ick.

That's interesting!

How do you feel about women posting photos with toys ?"

Indifferent, it doesn't do anything for means I very rarely use them myself. Strange eh?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not a fan either, but I honestly couldn't tell you why. I think it's the whole "men will put their dick in anything" kind of ick.

That's interesting!

How do you feel about women posting photos with toys ?

Indifferent, it doesn't do anything for means I very rarely use them myself. Strange eh?"

That's cool, I was just curious given you have a video of yourself using toys.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Honestly close up genital shot's of either sex do nothing for us, toy's or not..

But each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer men using dildos/vibrators etc, I find that very hot. A man putting a vibe on his cock/perineum etc = hotttt. But I also like the idea of watching a man jerk with a toy.

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I prefer men using dildos/vibrators etc, I find that very hot. A man putting a vibe on his cock/perineum etc = hotttt. But I also like the idea of watching a man jerk with a toy. "

Dammit, 3 years too old

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

Not keen, but then photos of women using toys do nothing for me either! - Xeno

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

It’s a snapshot of an intimate, personal moment. If you share those pictures, especially if you also have pics of your dick hanging out of some anonymous snatch, or you post about needing your balls emptied, I’ll assume we have different expectations of sex and swinging and we’re not compatible?

I don’t want to be special, but i want to feel special while I’m fucking. Does that make sense?

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By *asil999Man
over a year ago

barnsley

I have several pics with dildos and fingers inserted in my bum

Performed on cam with toys,, such a turn on being instructed what do with them for the audience

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By *lwaysonmymind!Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I have my own sex toys. (Fleshlight pic on profile)

As a single guy, I don’t see what issue they are. Male sex toys are are becoming more popular on the adult industry and lots new innovations are coming through.

As a previous tester for LH I can tell you that they are some excellent toys around already. I encourage both men and women to explore masturbation as this help develop a healthier sex life with others.

In a previous relationship I actually did all the purchases for our sex toys ( not why we broke up lol) and one of the best things I bought was the wand in which we both would use it at the same time and it was explosive.

If you feel that displaying the use of sex toys on profiles is damaging to your likability then don’t display. If you don’t like seeing them then move on. No different from someone who states there into say feet and you don’t like foot play.

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