FabSwingers.com forum: New here and need advice

By *icoleDiamonds OP Woman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hello Everyone

I have recently joined Fabswingers and could do with some advice regarding the etiquette as I am feeling a bit naive.

So far, I have received over a 320 Friends Invite. The question is, can I just ignore them as I am highly unlikely to meet any of them. Does accepting send the wrong signal.

There are a lot of Winks as well. Again, do I just ignore or Wink back.

What about Private Messages? Do I politely respond by saying, thanks but no thanks or again just ignore them without sounding rude.

Are there any pitfalls that I should look out for? Any advice would be very welcome.

Nicole xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ignore them if they have come in without any conversation.... utilise all filters that are applicable to you... maybe even block all guys and search for guys that take your fancy.

welcome, have a great time... there are many great times to be had. x

and always be true to yourself, never let the attention that you will receive change you and don't believe everything you read....

all the best xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

ps: on the private message bit, I personally believe if someone has read your profile, does match exactly what you are looking for, crafts a message selling himself to you..... a no thanks is the decent thing to do if not attracted....

if it is a ' hi babe, you looking for fun'... 'fancy a 9 inch'

bin that shit without a second thought x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We would agree with what View has said.

Random friend invites with no communication have always struck us as someone either looking to see private pictures which only friends can see or random fishing hoping for a bite

We do like to use a wink to indicate interest, mainly because we don't have the time to sit down and craft a unique message time and time again when at that stage it's 50/50 wether there will be a mutual attraction and you'll get a reply. If we get a wink back we then reply with a message because to us that would indicate interest.

Message's again if they match what you have stated in your profile and have put effort into a message then yeah sure send a thanks but no thanks. To be honest we got bored with the 'why'? replies, so we are happy to except a no reply as a 'thanks but no thanks' and will sometimes use that ourselves. In our experience a lot will claim otherwise but we have had many more 'no replies' rather than a 'thanks but no thanks' and we do read profiles carefully before msging and put effort in when we choose to msg.

However we will not get anywhere bear the volume of messages you will get so just go with what you feel is right and stand by that. Ignore anything you don't like and move on.

Xxx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

bear = near lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Put filters on to narrow it down. You can filter out people outside your age range etc this helps a lot. Agree with what the other pp's have said. Good luck and welcome xx

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yup definitely use the filters saves wasting a lot of time!

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

Agree with all above, would add....... use the forum, I have only been using it for 2 weeks and have found so many helpfull tips and ideas. Its a friendly place ( mostly)

Good luck and stay safe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Everyone

I have recently joined Fabswingers and could do with some advice regarding the etiquette as I am feeling a bit naive.

So far, I have received over a 320 Friends Invite. The question is, can I just ignore them as I am highly unlikely to meet any of them. Does accepting send the wrong signal.

There are a lot of Winks as well. Again, do I just ignore or Wink back.

What about Private Messages? Do I politely respond by saying, thanks but no thanks or again just ignore them without sounding rude.

Are there any pitfalls that I should look out for? Any advice would be very welcome.

Nicole xx"

Nicole as you have got a cracking rack you can do whatever you like on here!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

My question is: Can you make 320 friends in a week in real life and all stay friends???? I dont think so. Treat this site as you would do in your everyday...No talk, no friend

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"My question is: Can you make 320 friends in a week in real life and all stay friends???? I dont think so. Treat this site as you would do in your everyday...No talk, no friend"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't accept any apart from those we are meeting

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Many of the friend requests are people wanting to perv at your private pics. Which is fine. But it's completely your choice who you allow to do that.

You can wait till people are offline and accept, perv, then delete them as a friend - if they sent an unsolicited request all bets are off!

And if you quite like someone's profile and accept you are perfectly in your rights to take them off your friends list if after seeing their pics you decide they are not for you.

Check out the hints and tips and don't be embarrassed to use the block button - it's simply a site tool and quite handy. If you block someone they will not show up in searches you do and you will not show up when they search.

As others have said the filters will help too.

Good luck and enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Everyone

I have recently joined Fabswingers and could do with some advice regarding the etiquette as I am feeling a bit naive.

So far, I have received over a 320 Friends Invite. The question is, can I just ignore them as I am highly unlikely to meet any of them. Does accepting send the wrong signal.

There are a lot of Winks as well. Again, do I just ignore or Wink back.

What about Private Messages? Do I politely respond by saying, thanks but no thanks or again just ignore them without sounding rude.

Are there any pitfalls that I should look out for? Any advice would be very welcome.

Nicole xx"

Definitely use filters!

Oh, and read our profile (1st 2 paragraphs) for advice.. it works!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello Everyone

I have recently joined Fabswingers and could do with some advice regarding the etiquette as I am feeling a bit naive.

So far, I have received over a 320 Friends Invite. The question is, can I just ignore them as I am highly unlikely to meet any of them. Does accepting send the wrong signal.

There are a lot of Winks as well. Again, do I just ignore or Wink back.

What about Private Messages? Do I politely respond by saying, thanks but no thanks or again just ignore them without sounding rude.

Are there any pitfalls that I should look out for? Any advice would be very welcome.

Nicole xx"
please don't ignore them it's taken a long time to send 321 if you count this as well

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

This is good advice.

"ignore them if they have come in without any conversation.... utilise all filters that are applicable to you... maybe even block all guys and search for guys that take your fancy.

welcome, have a great time... there are many great times to be had. x

and always be true to yourself, never let the attention that you will receive change you and don't believe everything you read....

all the best xx"

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