FabSwingers.com forum: Men pretending to be female.

By *arySen OP Man
over a year ago

Romford

Guys and gals what the hell is it with men trying to be females and not declaring it In your profiles ?

I really don’t mind what people get up to on here but I think it’s a bit low conning people.

I lived in Thailand for 5 yrs and I can spot them a mile off it’s even easier with the European versions.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

They get a thrill out of it and they like to swap sexy messages? They're probably very lonely.

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By *ikesEmBigMan
over a year ago

Herts

Tbh my clitoris isn't very convincing

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By *umagain58Man
over a year ago

London

Agree. It’s a bit like saying I have a 20 inch cock. Not true of course and when turn up for meet it’s obvious a fraud. Have waste lot of time with some here. Mind u have been some fun ones

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I'm not sure what you're actually referring to, OP.

TV/TS, or men actually lying and setting-up female profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what you're actually referring to, OP.

TV/TS, or men actually lying and setting-up female profiles?"

With the reference about Thai vs European it’s pretty clear (to me at least) what OP means

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm not sure what you're actually referring to, OP.

TV/TS, or men actually lying and setting-up female profiles?

With the reference about Thai vs European it’s pretty clear (to me at least) what OP means

Not to me it wasnt. I couldn't match the post to the thread title. Also, still not sure if he's talking about cross-dressers or trans people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what you're actually referring to, OP.

TV/TS, or men actually lying and setting-up female profiles?

With the reference about Thai vs European it’s pretty clear (to me at least) what OP means

Not to me it wasnt. I couldn't match the post to the thread title. Also, still not sure if he's talking about cross-dressers or trans people."

I could of course be entirely wrong and being overly sensitive (I acknowledge that it does happen from time to time) but somehow I doubt there’s any difference between the two for OP and that both are men in their view

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

Ok …. busted!!! …. It’s me - very sorry!!

R xx

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Ok …. busted!!! …. It’s me - very sorry!!

R xx"

Lol

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I'm not sure what you're actually referring to, OP.

TV/TS, or men actually lying and setting-up female profiles?

With the reference about Thai vs European it’s pretty clear (to me at least) what OP means

Not to me it wasnt. I couldn't match the post to the thread title. Also, still not sure if he's talking about cross-dressers or trans people."

My assumption was OP was speaking of men setting up profiles as women - but now I am confused.

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By *arkandlovelyWoman
over a year ago

South Derbyshire

"Guys and gals what the hell is it with men trying to be females and not declaring it In your profiles ?

I really don’t mind what people get up to on here but I think it’s a bit low conning people.

I lived in Thailand for 5 yrs and I can spot them a mile off it’s even easier with the European versions.

So they're saying their female on their profile because they probably think it and want to be known as a woman?

Btw only online, I get accused all the time if I'm a tranny lol....erm no"

I mean, that's *obviously* just a baguette poking out from under your skirt

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"My assumption was OP was speaking of men setting up profiles as women - but now I am confused."

Well, that's what I thought. I then got confused by the mention of Thailand.

If he's actually talking about men dressing up as women and pretending to be women, but not in any kind of CD/TV/TS way, it's not something I think I've seen here.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Guys and gals what the hell is it with men trying to be females and not declaring it In your profiles ?

I really don’t mind what people get up to on here but I think it’s a bit low conning people.

I lived in Thailand for 5 yrs and I can spot them a mile off it’s even easier with the European versions. "

They are closet bi/gays looking for cock pics to whack off to. They also set up couples profiles, but very often “the wife isn’t playing at the moment”…..

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Until fab make photo verification compulsory it will always happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP you might want to clarify exactly who you’re referring to.

If it is trans related as I think it is then you need to rethink how you word things.

“European versions”??

If you’re referring to men setting up women’s profiles they’re not rocket science to spot.

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

"I mean, that's *obviously* just a baguette poking out from under your skirt

Especially when it's dribbling some cheesy sweaty Camembert ... So tasty!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Until fab make photo verification compulsory it will always happen. "

Very true

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I read through the thread & I'm still not sure if OP was talking about men hiding behind female profiles or if there was some kind of subtext he was hinting at.

His profile only seems to add to the confusion. He states in the text he isn't after single men or TVs, yet has "cross-dressing" listed as an interest

Apparently lived in Thailand as well? Hmmm..

Smacks of a closet case imo....

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones .

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

"Guys and gals what the hell is it with men trying to be females and not declaring it In your profiles ?

I really don’t mind what people get up to on here but I think it’s a bit low conning people.

I lived in Thailand for 5 yrs and I can spot them a mile off it’s even easier with the European versions.

So they're saying their female on their profile because they probably think it and want to be known as a woman?

Btw only online, I get accused all the time if I'm a tranny lol....erm no

I mean, that's *obviously* just a baguette poking out from under your skirt

Maybe they need to go to specsavers?

No I get accused just because I'm oriental and love sex so apparently that must mean I'm a tranny lol"

I didnt think people said Oriental anymore

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones . "

Also asking for a phone chat to prove they a woman sorts the men from the er, women

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones .

Also asking for a phone chat to prove they a woman sorts the men from the er, women

But plenty of men and couples have dodgy verifications too. Photo verification isn't a magic bullet and is easy to fake using software.

The simple rule is to think with the big head rather than the little one and not assume all is as you see at first glance. A little 'homework' checking verification trails will easily identify genuine members and with no end of options available for off site video chat it's easy to arrange a 'proof of life' conversation without leaving your sofa.

Catfish have been around as long as the Internet. It would be naieve to think there were none on a free swingers/sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an unverified by the site woman on here that is my choice. Does it stop me getting meets? Probably.

However there are fake accounts on here on all sides. I have also seen photos that are not allowed by some admin but appear on others profiles. Such as kink cards, or just toys etc.

The system isn’t fool proof. I am always happy after a few messages to prove with a photo of their choice, holding anything such as a newspaper or a piece of paper with their name on it.

I will only progress with a phone and video call

So whilst I understand there are fakes trust me they are on all sides. They are also on all platforms and dating sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones . "

You should be on the admin team hun!

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones .

Also asking for a phone chat to prove they a woman sorts the men from the er, women

But plenty of men and couples have dodgy verifications too. Photo verification isn't a magic bullet and is easy to fake using software.

Catfish have been around as long as the Internet. It would be naieve to think there were none on a free swingers/sex site.

I couldn’t agree more

But if you still have doubts after doing various ‘tests’, asking for a simple, quick phonecall to reassure you that ‘she’ is an actual female, either leads to the start of a new friendship, or the convo stops dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read through the thread & I'm still not sure if OP was talking about men hiding behind female profiles or if there was some kind of subtext he was hinting at.

His profile only seems to add to the confusion. He states in the text he isn't after single men or TVs, yet has "cross-dressing" listed as an interest

Apparently lived in Thailand as well? Hmmm..

Smacks of a closet case imo....

Straight men cross dress too. Clothes have nothing to do with sexuality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones . "

Women seem better at spotting fake women profiles. The language used is often a dead give away!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones .

Women seem better at spotting fake women profiles. The language used is often a dead give away!"

Suck my steaming stump, seems to lack the eloquence you associate with women I've found.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"OP you might want to clarify exactly who you’re referring to.

If it is trans related as I think it is then you need to rethink how you word things.

“European versions”??

If you’re referring to men setting up women’s profiles they’re not rocket science to spot."

Suggesting people with trans identities are "conning" people is just a tad transphobic, perhaps?

OP you can report these profiles you spot to admin who will change the type of the account if there is a discrepancy. Also if you don't like them by all means block and move on, you're entitled to that. What you're not entitled to is have people "declare" their trans status on their profile, like any personal info it's up to them to disclose. Yes fabs is a place people may try out these expressions either to live out a fantasy or because it is a relatively safe space (online/anonymous). Why is it a problem?

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

"Straight men cross dress too. Clothes have nothing to do with sexuality. "

I know that there are crossdressers who identify as "straight", but I was looking at the whole picture, not just the CDing in isolation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh. Seems I read this post wrong with regards to my comment

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Yes but easy to spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones .

Women seem better at spotting fake women profiles. The language used is often a dead give away!

Suck my steaming stump, seems to lack the eloquence you associate with women I've found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight men cross dress too. Clothes have nothing to do with sexuality.

I know that there are crossdressers who identify as "straight", but I was looking at the whole picture, not just the CDing in isolation. "

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Guys and gals what the hell is it with men trying to be females and not declaring it In your profiles ?

I really don’t mind what people get up to on here but I think it’s a bit low conning people.

I lived in Thailand for 5 yrs and I can spot them a mile off it’s even easier with the European versions. "

Men also pose, as cpls so they bypass filters.

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By *urhamdebbiecdTV/TS
over a year ago

bishop auckland

I have TV on my profile but still get straight men asking to meet and they obviously haven’t read my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and gals what the hell is it with men trying to be females and not declaring it In your profiles ?

I really don’t mind what people get up to on here but I think it’s a bit low conning people.

I lived in Thailand for 5 yrs and I can spot them a mile off it’s even easier with the European versions. "

Am glad you specified you'd been to Thailand. Otherwise I would have doubted your ability to spot a man in a dress.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones .

Also asking for a phone chat to prove they a woman sorts the men from the er, women

I'm not sure it does, if someone asked me to have a phone chat to prove I'm a woman I'd probably to tell them to fuck off, and I ain't a dude.

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By *hubby CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"This site unfortunately is rife with fakes, especially men posing as women. Genuine women behave and speak in a certain way. You can spot them. They often have no verifications or fake ones .

Also asking for a phone chat to prove they a woman sorts the men from the er, women

I'm not sure it does, if someone asked me to have a phone chat to prove I'm a woman I'd probably to tell them to fuck off, and I ain't a dude."

That’s exactly what a dude who was pretending to be a women say

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I don't know about the phone call thing I regularly get mistook for a woman on the phone

Guess I'm well set up for a fake profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once chatted to a stunning female 24 yrs old with a body to die for . Me and wife jumped in car n off we went to meet her , ended up at pontefract train station and parked up .. both giggling thinking she carnt be true ... fuck me was we correct ...out of bushes popped this guy with a long coat on .. big chisel chin .. he kept walking past our car .. we're in creases laffing at the cunt ... but deep down in frothing at mouth thinking we just drove 30 miles for this old perv ..

Any how back home and received a message from a guy ... he fit the description of the perv walking up n down the cobbles near railway stn . A month later we set a new profile up and hit chatting to him and invited him over to ours in Skipton promising to pay his travel expenses . Bus . Train .walked he arrived at ours in Skipton only to find we didn't live at the nu12 abc street

.. he wasn't amused let's Say . So daddy after we received a messages from fab admin saying we'd been reported for a not showing up . We come clean with em . Told em last week big chin was a stunning 24 yr old female and explained every thing .. thinking we'd get banned .. nothing at all .. no ban . No time out

.. #KARMA XX

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Or them pretending to be a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guys and gals what the hell is it with men trying to be females and not declaring it In your profiles ?

I really don’t mind what people get up to on here but I think it’s a bit low conning people.

I lived in Thailand for 5 yrs and I can spot them a mile off it’s even easier with the European versions.

Am glad you specified you'd been to Thailand. Otherwise I would have doubted your ability to spot a man in a dress. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly it's sad married blokes. setting up couple profiles when their wife/gf doesn't have a clue.

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'll admit it. I'm a man with fake boobs lol

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By *ubeeStarrXoXTV/TS
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not sure what you're actually referring to, OP.

TV/TS, or men actually lying and setting-up female profiles?

With the reference about Thai vs European it’s pretty clear (to me at least) what OP means

Exactly what I thought too

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

And pretending to be couples

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Guys and gals what the hell is it with men trying to be females and not declaring it In your profiles ?

I really don’t mind what people get up to on here but I think it’s a bit low conning people.

I lived in Thailand for 5 yrs and I can spot them a mile off it’s even easier with the European versions. "

I think men do it so they can bypass a cpls blocking filters. I cannot see a ts/tv generating a female profile as most cpls have filters to block or allow them and to be honest a fully transitioned ts is a lady anyway so why would she bother to? Guys also generate couples profiles to again contact couples or women who have single guys blocked.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Op i might have read your post wrong. Do you mean guys generating a female profile to wind/mislead other guys up when they message said guys? Jo.

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