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Blocked for saying I'm Large!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I've just been blocked by a new woman for saying I'm large on my profile! Please make sure you specify you don't want large men on your profiles please ladies!

What do other people think?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

honestly don't let it bother you.

good luck for the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do u know that's why she blocked u?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Her loss Just Move on Mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't worry about, just move on, there's lots of ladies on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honestly don't let it bother you.

good luck for the future"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do u know that's why she blocked u?"

cos she did the same to my m8

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Her loss Just Move on Mate"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We wouldn't worry about, just move on, there's lots of ladies on here! "

True and you have one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha shes blocking everyone now! This site is meant to be fun! Will people ever learn!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha shes blocking everyone now! This site is meant to be fun! Will people ever learn! "

What do you mean by that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha shes blocking everyone now! This site is meant to be fun! Will people ever learn! "

Stop stalking her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha shes blocking everyone now! This site is meant to be fun! Will people ever learn! "

eventually she will run out of people to look at

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

LOLWUT?!?

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Hi I've just been blocked by a new woman for saying I'm large on my profile! Please make sure you specify you don't want large men on your profiles please ladies!

What do other people think?"

Large!!! What was she looking at to make her think that your large?

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Hi I've just been blocked by a new woman for saying I'm large on my profile! Please make sure you specify you don't want large men on your profiles please ladies!

What do other people think?

Large!!! What was she looking at to make her think that your large?"

His description on his profile says he's large.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

So she doesn't like larger men. Some of us do, some of us don't.

Do you think I start a thread every time some guy on here calls me fat? No. I shrug, block him and move on.

Get a grip guys. We all have preferences. And it's only fun when you play with the people you 100% want to. Getting bullied into saying yes to someone you don't fancy because "it's all just a bit of fun" is actually sinister and will persuade women that this site isn't for them.

A guy can meet all my preferences and still not be my type. And many use the block button so that only people who meet there preferred type show up in searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So she doesn't like larger men. Some of us do, some of us don't.

Do you think I start a thread every time some guy on here calls me fat? No. I shrug, block him and move on.

Get a grip guys. We all have preferences. And it's only fun when you play with the people you 100% want to. Getting bullied into saying yes to someone you don't fancy because "it's all just a bit of fun" is actually sinister and will persuade women that this site isn't for them.

A guy can meet all my preferences and still not be my type. And many use the block button so that only people who meet there preferred type show up in searches."

There's quite a few sinister people...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"So she doesn't like larger men. Some of us do, some of us don't.

Do you think I start a thread every time some guy on here calls me fat? No. I shrug, block him and move on.

Get a grip guys. We all have preferences. And it's only fun when you play with the people you 100% want to. Getting bullied into saying yes to someone you don't fancy because "it's all just a bit of fun" is actually sinister and will persuade women that this site isn't for them.

A guy can meet all my preferences and still not be my type. And many use the block button so that only people who meet there preferred type show up in searches."

exactly so.. we block people we see that are not within our preference saves all wasting time both sides too..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she tell you that before blocking you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So she doesn't like larger men. Some of us do, some of us don't.

Do you think I start a thread every time some guy on here calls me fat? No. I shrug, block him and move on.

Get a grip guys. We all have preferences. And it's only fun when you play with the people you 100% want to. Getting bullied into saying yes to someone you don't fancy because "it's all just a bit of fun" is actually sinister and will persuade women that this site isn't for them.

A guy can meet all my preferences and still not be my type. And many use the block button so that only people who meet there preferred type show up in searches.

There's quite a few sinister people... "

You can say that again.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

She could have blocked you for anything, from the fact you're straight but seeking tvs to your short profile - who knows and why bother yourself.

Concentrate on those that are interested in you, and move on from those that are not interested in you.

I don't know why people seem to have a problem with other peoples preferences: as someone else said - get a grip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that saying your a Big boy. mmm xx and my minds working over time here ... how could she block.

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

Well if we listed everyone who we wouldn't think of meeting our profiles would be quite extensive and extraordinarily boring!

Some has to be left up to converstaion and a lot of people don't read profiles anyway!

Have you listed everyone you won't meet? Would you meet a large lady? Would you have anyone????

It was quite unkind of her to block you though, a little extreme if that's the only reason she blocked you??????

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By *msmithWoman
over a year ago

bristol


"So she doesn't like larger men. Some of us do, some of us don't.

Do you think I start a thread every time some guy on here calls me fat? No. I shrug, block him and move on.

Get a grip guys. We all have preferences. And it's only fun when you play with the people you 100% want to. Getting bullied into saying yes to someone you don't fancy because "it's all just a bit of fun" is actually sinister and will persuade women that this site isn't for them.

A guy can meet all my preferences and still not be my type. And many use the block button so that only people who meet there preferred type show up in searches."

Totally agree with this.. Hate being 'bullied' to say yes to meet when they're not exactly my type.. Then being 'persuade' to play when the guy is not exactly my type.. My first 2 weeks in fab was like that, and it almost made me want to give up fab.. But then I met some awesome people, who set quite a high bar for the kind of meets I enjoy..

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

There really is no point analysing why people do what they do on here. However it pans out or whatever they do it just means 'no' so move on and forget it. You will never know why.

Look to those who might say 'yes' and forget the others.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some say large and really very normal. xx i find.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"She could have blocked you for anything, from the fact you're straight but seeking tvs to your short profile - who knows and why bother yourself.

Concentrate on those that are interested in you, and move on from those that are not interested in you.

I don't know why people seem to have a problem with other peoples preferences: as someone else said - get a grip! "

i read this and went to check op's profile but couldn't ... Oops seem to gave blocked him... so unblocked to check.. Okay you say large. So not for us and Straight wanting to meet TV/TS. plus this thread sounds a bit needy.. so we blocked.. you have not contacted us but those are the reasons we blocked you if its any help towards why others might i don't know.. forget about it and concentrate as others have said on people that do want to meet you . Why people get so hung up on the ones that don't is beyond me..its not like fab only has 10 members is it !

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Hi I've just been blocked by a new woman for saying I'm large on my profile! Please make sure you specify you don't want large men on your profiles please ladies!

What do other people think?"

my feeling.... if something as mundane as this has caused you into this kind of rant, i fear for your health when the big stuff comes along, and I wonder if swinging is really for you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would block you because you admit to discussing women on this site with your mate who is also on this site

I haven't looked at your profile but hope that the usual discreet quote is not on there !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would block you because you admit to discussing women on this site with your mate who is also on this site

I haven't looked at your profile but hope that the usual discreet quote is not on there !"

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"I would block you because you admit to discussing women on this site with your mate who is also on this site

I haven't looked at your profile but hope that the usual discreet quote is not on there !"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather be blocked for being large than being small

Its no big deal if someone don't want so speak to you find someone else who does.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"I would block you because you admit to discussing women on this site with your mate who is also on this site

I haven't looked at your profile but hope that the usual discreet quote is not on there !"

to be a fair women do that and it is referenced as 'the sisterhood' and looking out for each other.

people even discuss their meets in the forum and what they did

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oops, some*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a cursory look at your OP and profile gives me a very quickly put together list of 10 reasons why we would block you..... and being 'large' isn't one of them.... strangely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right, let's assume that the lady did block the OP for being large.

The bit that gets me here - and I say this as a fat guy myself - is how many guys are surprised at being knocked back for being fat / big / large etc.

Fat men in general are not physically attractive to most women - should that be any different on here ?

If anything, the ladies of Fab can be (and often are) even more selective than their vanilla counterparts and look for different things in the men they seek on here and the men they may wish to settle down with.

Physical attraction matters - to a lesser degree for some than others, but it does matter !

I don't think there is any great surprise in that.

Blocking is many peoples way of saying they aren't interested. It's not rude nor ignorant, it is an effective use of the resources made available to ALL users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right, let's assume that the lady did block the OP for being large.

The bit that gets me here - and I say this as a fat guy myself - is how many guys are surprised at being knocked back for being fat / big / large etc.

Fat men in general are not physically attractive to most women - should that be any different on here ?

If anything, the ladies of Fab can be (and often are) even more selective than their vanilla counterparts and look for different things in the men they seek on here and the men they may wish to settle down with.

Physical attraction matters - to a lesser degree for some than others, but it does matter !

I don't think there is any great surprise in that.

Blocking is many peoples way of saying they aren't interested. It's not rude nor ignorant, it is an effective use of the resources made available to ALL users. "

Exactly. As with all fabbers We have guys message us that are not what we're looking for. To save receiving constant messages from them we block. Same as we do if someone isn't attractive to us. Why let someone perve over your profile if you don't wanna meet them? End of the day this is a SEX SITE. nothing more. And in order to have sex with someone there has to be a mutual attraction or alcohol involved. So unless the other person has a bottle of jd at the other end of their laptop you pretty much have to go by sexual preferences. If they don't like skinny they won't meet skinny. Don't want muscely won't meet muscley. Don't want large won't meet large.

Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just checked the label in my shirt and it says XL.

Oh dear I must be like Jabba The Hutt.

M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just checked the label in my shirt and it says XL.

Oh dear I must be like Jabba The Hutt.

M"

looks like we better delete you off our friends list and block you then hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what? She wouldn't be interested in meeting you so she blocked you. There are men that don't take no for an answer so what better way to avoid that than block. That could be one reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not being funny to the o p but this week they are funerals for the children murdered. in usa and you are bothered about being blocked.

Come on fella reality check.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what? She wouldn't be interested in meeting you so she blocked you. There are men that don't take no for an answer so what better way to avoid that than block. That could be one reason. "

We block anyone we are not interested in meeting as it saves a lot of unwanted mail & a lot of repeated messages from single straight guys pretending to be straight when all they message us is they want to suck hubby's cock & saying they are really bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're lucky they gave you a reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha shes blocking everyone now! This site is meant to be fun! Will people ever learn! "

You say your average in your profile

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"So she doesn't like larger men. Some of us do, some of us don't.

Do you think I start a thread every time some guy on here calls me fat? No. I shrug, block him and move on.

Get a grip guys. We all have preferences. And it's only fun when you play with the people you 100% want to. Getting bullied into saying yes to someone you don't fancy because "it's all just a bit of fun" is actually sinister and will persuade women that this site isn't for them.

A guy can meet all my preferences and still not be my type. And many use the block button so that only people who meet there preferred type show up in searches."

That's a very good post - well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have just checked the label in my shirt and it says XL.

Oh dear I must be like Jabba The Hutt.

M

looks like we better delete you off our friends list and block you then hehe x"

God I know. I feel so fat on this site

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Haha shes blocking everyone now! This site is meant to be fun! Will people ever learn!

You say your average in your profile"

Then he must have changed it as it did say large...

Which is fine and his right. Just as it's my right to block someone for poor syntax or messy rooms in the background of pics or I don't like their choice of username or shirt or, well, anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha shes blocking everyone now! This site is meant to be fun! Will people ever learn!

You say your average in your profile

Then he must have changed it as it did say large...

Which is fine and his right. Just as it's my right to block someone for poor syntax or messy rooms in the background of pics or I don't like their choice of username or shirt or, well, anything."

I thought it was just us who judged people by their decor and untidiness on their pictures!

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By *igblackdomTV/TS
over a year ago

West Midlands


"Haha shes blocking everyone now! "

.

How do you know this?

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