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By *ilkchocolate87 OP   Man
over a year ago

sw london

To ask to have a phone call or video call before a meet. Your safety is paramount! Sounds simple, but there’s plenty of profiles I’ve seen which raise alarm bells. Be vigilant

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"To ask to have a phone call or video call before a meet. Your safety is paramount! Sounds simple, but there’s plenty of profiles I’ve seen which raise alarm bells. Be vigilant "

But if that concerned would it be sensible to give out the number. Why not just meet in a public place where their are plenty of people

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

in the nearly 30 years of swinging ive never ever gave my phone number out or rang anyone never used apps or emails just the sites and chats ive/we've used and it worked well very well and safety is my priority

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Or go to a club where people are there already and strike up a conversation

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I have only done a video call once on here before I met someone. And it was one of the worst meets I ever had on here. So it's doesn't guarantee anything as far as I'm concerned.

I despise video calling and I won't do that or a phone call before I meet anyone off here.So far it's never been an issue with anyone else I have met on here. People are fully within the rights to ask for one and I have every right to say no thanks. If they don't like it they can move on.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"I have only done a video call once on here before I met someone. And it was one of the worst meets I ever had on here. So it's doesn't guarantee anything as far as I'm concerned.

I despise video calling and I won't do that or a phone call before I meet anyone off here.So far it's never been an issue with anyone else I have met on here. People are fully within the rights to ask for one and I have every right to say no thanks. If they don't like it they can move on. "

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you’ve had a video call with someone and it felt ok would you then get in the back of their van the next day?

Kinda fails this basic litmus test doesn’t it?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

If someone asked for my phone number on here that would ring alarm bells.

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By *ris GrayMan
over a year ago

Dorchester


"To ask to have a phone call or video call before a meet. Your safety is paramount! Sounds simple, but there’s plenty of profiles I’ve seen which raise alarm bells. Be vigilant

But if that concerned would it be sensible to give out the number. Why not just meet in a public place where their are plenty of people "
he may have a morphine soaked handkerchief and make out his mates d*unk as he walks him back to his car

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Safety is cool and all that but it's also so dam practical. It's hard to get a true vibe or sense of chemistry over text. Hearing or hearing and seeing gives you a lot better sense. It can either save you the time, effort and expense of meeting someone you won't fancy in real life or help build the excitement of meeting them prior.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask to have a phone call or video call before a meet. Your safety is paramount! Sounds simple, but there’s plenty of profiles I’ve seen which raise alarm bells. Be vigilant "

Not sure a call or video can prove a person is safe but I agree it's helpful in deciding on attraction/their photos are genuine/whether you get along in conversation. I'd not meet anyone unwilling to talk on phone first, I have good reason and anyone not willing, that's absolutely fine but there would be no meeting. You don't have to exchange numbers either, there are apps that allow you to talk/video call.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I don't give my number out to randoms.

If I'm unsure then I ask to call on Snapchat or telegram

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I always now have a Skyp* chat before I even meet in a public place for a social. After meeting someone 20yrs older and 10 stone heavier, wearing a wedding ring when he'd said he was single different than their profile

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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago

About 3 feet away from the fence

I'm not sure a video call really helps from a safety point of view, it only helps to confirm that the person matches the pics in his/her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To ask to have a phone call or video call before a meet. Your safety is paramount! Sounds simple, but there’s plenty of profiles I’ve seen which raise alarm bells. Be vigilant "

I agree, there's some formidable women on here, always be careful

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By *rincess Peach xxCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"To ask to have a phone call or video call before a meet. Your safety is paramount! Sounds simple, but there’s plenty of profiles I’ve seen which raise alarm bells. Be vigilant "

Completely agree with this. Or meet somewhere for a drink. When we meet men I will leave Arya back at the hotel and go for a drink with them and sus things out.

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