FabSwingers.com forum: Describing situations?

By *imher8587 OP Couple
over a year ago

Kingswinford

Hi all, we're fairly new to this, but we're a little confused as to what means what, if there's a correct way or incorrect way to describe a meet? We're a straight MF couple, but in what order does what mean or doesn't it matter? If we're after a single straight male, is it MFM, MMF FMM, & same of we ask for a straight couple, is it MFMF, FMFM, FFMM, MMFF?!? does the order matter or is ot all the same?!? We don't want to waste anyone's time but we're wondering what's straight/bi etc.. TIA fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure it matters but MMF should work?

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By *imher8587 OP Couple
over a year ago

Kingswinford

"Not sure it matters but MMF should work?

Thanks, but would the MMF suggest a bi male as the two 'M's are next to eachother?! Rather than it being a MFM meaning straight?! I've heard different things & we're now not sure!

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

There's straight, and there's Fab straight, just to make it more complex. But don't pigeonhole yourself or get too bogged down in the mechanics. Any potential meet will see bi-her, straight-him and if the meet is straight then no problem, if they are bi they should respect that like any other level of consent. I am bi but if I joined a couple where Mr was straight I would behave myself and focus on Miss. Anyone with good manners and respect should observe this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think as long as you’re clear in what you’re after it should be ok any way you wrote it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I always understood that the order mattered but was recently told that it doesn't. It's probably best to make it clear in actual words to avoid confusion

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By *imher8587 OP Couple
over a year ago

Kingswinford

"I always understood that the order mattered but was recently told that it doesn't. It's probably best to make it clear in actual words to avoid confusion

Thanks!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

As I understand mmf (male bi play + female)

Mfm (attention on the female from two males)

And same for ffm/fmf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We go for MFM as it kind of depicts the female in the middle and we’re looking for straight males.

Don’t think it really matters much though as you wouldn’t just meet anyone based entirely upon the order some letters were written down

Communication is key in having a good time.

Good luck.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I always understood that the order mattered but was recently told that it doesn't. It's probably best to make it clear in actual words to avoid confusion

This. Some will say that MFM means the men only interact with the woman, where as MMF or FMM means the men interact with each other.

Its really just nonsense, as you should be discussing and agreeing what you want to happen anyway before meeting to avoid any awkwardness.

It’s alin to suggesting an upside down pineapple means you are swingers.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

"Not sure it matters but MMF should work?

Thanks, but would the MMF suggest a bi male as the two 'M's are next to eachother?! Rather than it being a MFM meaning straight?! I've heard different things & we're now not sure!"

I think you are right MMF = bi males. MFM = straight males.

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