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By *anchesterknight OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I recently had my first experience of being with a TS, tbh I didn’t really know what to do, I really enjoyed the experience, but we just kind of went with the flow, in hindsight we maybe should have discussed our (my) limits.

Just curious to see if anyone could give some advice

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By *uzie69xTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Going with the flow is the best way. After all TS is just another variant of the diversity of women on here.

I hate it when people say they've never been with a TS and wants me to come up with a menu of what he would enjoy...

WTF?

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By *anchesterknight OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Very true, i suppose that I felt like I wasn’t confident, I generally tend to be a little dominate, but felt like she was looking after me.

I think communication is important but really didn’t want to kill the mood.

I’m sure next time I will be more relaxed

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Welcome to non cis-het sex! Forget your scripting for a moment (basically man does things to the woman, penis goes into vagina). You did exactly what you were meant to, it's a brand new partner, what nicer thing than being open and exploring and even a little unsure on how to negotiate your pleasures. I wish more people would feel a situation out, than mindlessly go for the same practices and attitudes, say the same clichés.

Love your status update btw obviously a powerful experience for you meeting with this person, so no wonder much to cherish and/or process.

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By *anchesterknight OP   Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"Welcome to non cis-het sex! Forget your scripting for a moment (basically man does things to the woman, penis goes into vagina). You did exactly what you were meant to, it's a brand new partner, what nicer thing than being open and exploring and even a little unsure on how to negotiate your pleasures. I wish more people would feel a situation out, than mindlessly go for the same practices and attitudes, say the same clichés.

Love your status update btw obviously a powerful experience for you meeting with this person, so no wonder much to cherish and/or process."

Thanks for the comment in the thread, tbh honest it was one of the most intense encounters I have ever had, left physically and emotionally drained

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t worry about it too much. The first time I had a solo meet with another woman I felt like a complete novice.

I’m normally confident and dominant in the bedroom but I felt completely out of my depth.

Happy to say those feelings didn’t last and it’s a distant memory now.

Hope it’s the same for you OP.

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