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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know guys, it's on here a million times HOWEVER when I read some of these guys profiles who ask this question, I just laugh. Granted, mine is light with not much substance however I like to talk and communicate! Not write about myself!!

Some messages I have sent have been poor I accept that, but I have sent some that are for sure thought provoking and funny, some times based around a profile or status, and they just get deleted! Help! I don't have this issue in person and I can make conversation with anyone!

If I could have some feedback on how to get replies or interactions that would be great. And be nice! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I'd be put off by the photo.

Your profile doesn't say anything about your likes or what you can offer.

Experimental how? Try what new things? So vague.

You don't stand out at all and that's what you need to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also your status asking for a veri would put me off.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich (just for Sat)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also your status asking for a veri would put me off. "

Absolutely. That's a massive 'no no'.

People will think you're only interested in meeting them to get your green tick - it's a huge red flag

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich (just for Sat)

You may as well have no pictures. Not sure how that's bypassed admin.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You aren't in your profile pic. That is against site rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me I'd be put off by the photo."

That picture doesn't even conform to site rules. Surprised it even got approved. Pictures are supposed to feature the person whose profile it's on

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I think he is in the picture, he's in the drivers seat of the van

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence but dam you must be able to put a little bit more effort into your profile, if you can't even do that why should people think that you would put in the effort to meet them, and you may as well have no pictures then the one you have now, get some body shots or something like that at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Removed status, was really aimed at people who I have spoken too to see if I could get the green tick to help with replies! I think it's the second status I've ever posted.

Will address the profile picture soon, wasn't aware it was such a put off having something like that! I picked that one due to not wanting to post myself publicly at this stage and that been really inoffensive, body conscious unfortunately!

I guess I'll focus more on the profile and less so on the first message! I thought message content would be more important but maybe not!

Thanks for the feedback guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Removed status, was really aimed at people who I have spoken too to see if I could get the green tick to help with replies! I think it's the second status I've ever posted.

Will address the profile picture soon, wasn't aware it was such a put off having something like that! I picked that one due to not wanting to post myself publicly at this stage and that been really inoffensive, body conscious unfortunately!

I guess I'll focus more on the profile and less so on the first message! I thought message content would be more important but maybe not!

Thanks for the feedback guys "

A lot of people are body conscious so don't panic there have a look at other guys profiles see if there are some pics that stick out and have a go at doing a similar picture yourself

yes you need to put effort into your messages still but anyone who receives them will most likely check out your profile before replying and if there isn't anything interesting that catches their eye there likely to just skip on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Removed status, was really aimed at people who I have spoken too to see if I could get the green tick to help with replies! I think it's the second status I've ever posted.

Will address the profile picture soon, wasn't aware it was such a put off having something like that! I picked that one due to not wanting to post myself publicly at this stage and that been really inoffensive, body conscious unfortunately!

I guess I'll focus more on the profile and less so on the first message! I thought message content would be more important but maybe not!

Thanks for the feedback guys "

They are both important.

I get the body conscious thing, many people are but there's photos you can add that aren't exposing or revealing. Even upper or full body clothed with blurred face is better

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