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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, early days here for me. So just looking for some advice on where to meet people? As I know this doesn't go down well with most but my home is a no go as I have a partner who doesn't know I'm here. Not here to be judged it is what it is. Anyway so guess I mean if the bloke is spoken for too. Is anyone aware of anywhere to go apart from a hotel or car park? Thanks ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Clubs?

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By *roxibear70Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Dayuse app for hotels

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I'm sure you'll get plenty of hotel offers from fellow dishonest people. You won't have a problem finding any!

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Dogging, obviously when you feel safe. It's a kink for some regardless of the weather

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By *astYorksCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

We find clubs are the easiest way. It gives you the chance to meet the person (people) and gives you one last chance to say no.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Day use hotels or over night hotels

Clubs or spas that are open during the day or at night

Some adult cinemas allow public play to take place

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Nearest club to Neath is Chameleons in Newport, it's a good 50 miles so suggest getting a hotel too, unless you like a long drive after getting rogered senseless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi all, early days here for me. So just looking for some advice on where to meet people? As I know this doesn't go down well with most but my home is a no go as I have a partner who doesn't know I'm here. Not here to be judged it is what it is. Anyway so guess I mean if the bloke is spoken for too. Is anyone aware of anywhere to go apart from a hotel or car park? Thanks ?? "

I would say clubs are probably the safest, but please please let people know that you are there to cheat and give them the choice if they want to participate or not, it might close some doors to you but there will always be someone who doesn't care,

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

weybridge

Only one judgy reply out of 8, not bad.

Swingers Clubs or spas and hotels seem to be the best bet and the usual MO for people who don’t want to meet at homes for whatever reason.

Outside and dogging as well as out of season are more difficult to control

Best of luck and take care x

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Hi all, early days here for me. So just looking for some advice on where to meet people? As I know this doesn't go down well with most but my home is a no go as I have a partner who doesn't know I'm here. Not here to be judged it is what it is. Anyway so guess I mean if the bloke is spoken for too. Is anyone aware of anywhere to go apart from a hotel or car park? Thanks ?? "

Never meet in a private place such as his home, quiet park, etc.

Spend time getting to know a potential meet online before you meet them. This will hopefully get rid of the fakes, the disrespectful guys, the guys looking for a quick fuck, the guys looking for another notch on the bedpost, etc.

Make the first meet a social in a very public place such as a coffee shop, pub, cafe, etc. This will get rid of the fake photo guys.

After that, I would meet in a hotel with the guy booking in his name.

After a few meets if you feel safe meet at his place.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Personally I would go for clubs even for purely social intent. They are safe spaces and a totally separate space to avoid any risk of the lifestyle mixing with the real world or your outside life. And there a little bit of extra security in knowing someone will go to the extent to meeting you in the safety of a club.

Also as an added bonus for both parties if the chemistry turns out not to be there you can both part and explore other people. So maybe not a wasted trip.

Plus you have an option of if it works out really well and you feel like taking to the next level then and there. Which can be very handy for all us busy people and single parents.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Up a mountain in the Brecon Beacons…

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling


"Hi all, early days here for me. So just looking for some advice on where to meet people? As I know this doesn't go down well with most but my home is a no go as I have a partner who doesn't know I'm here. Not here to be judged it is what it is. Anyway so guess I mean if the bloke is spoken for too. Is anyone aware of anywhere to go apart from a hotel or car park? Thanks ??

I would say clubs are probably the safest, but please please let people know that you are there to cheat and give them the choice if they want to participate or not, it might close some doors to you but there will always be someone who doesn't care, "

I second this. Club would be the safest place. And please please be honest about your relationship status if asked.

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