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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

Reading

Hello wonderful fabbers.

Would any ladies / couples be willing to allow me to message them and give me honest feedback on my profile / introduction?

I feel like I have a reasonable amount to give, but not if my approach is off-putting.

All feedback gratefully received, I promise not to argue with it.

Either let me know on here or send me a wink and I'll give you my best.

Thanks in advance.

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By *nnCeeWoman
over a year ago

East of Eden, West of Hell

I've just had a look at your profile and, whilst concise, it doesn't send up too many red warning flags or make me want to run away. (Aside from the kiddies shampoo in the background)

I think initial emails to people, or rather how someone takes that message, will depend on the person. If someone has messaged me and all it says is "Hi" or "I wanna fuck you", or something or a similar ilk, then it makes no difference to me, I will not be interested. But that's only me and my opinion, it won't be the same across every person.

If you make an effort to personalise a message, and not make it look like you've sent the same text to 200 other recipients, you've more of a hope.

But having said that, if you don't float the other person's boat, or they're not looking for what you may have to offer at that particular time, then you'll have no responses.

Sorry I can't be more upbeat, but I hope you find what you're looking for soon!

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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"I've just had a look at your profile..."

Thank you very much for taking the time and providing your perspective. Gratefully received.

Ha ha, I didn't think of the bottles... Maybe I like my hair to smell of strawberries.

I am a single parent, so I guess that might be off-putting to some. That's fair enough.

Yeah, definitely not sending out the one liners. I usually message someone when I see something in their profile that I think means we could have a connection, and try to make that part of the message. If you feel brave enough let me know and I'll send you a message, and you can let me know your reaction.

(As this thread probably makes only too clear, I probably say too much rather than to little, ha ha... )

No, you have been very helpful. Thank you very much, and likewise I wish you happy fabbing.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Your profile is OK.

Nice pics. Maybe add 1 of your tattoo as you say you have 1 but can't see it in your pics. That can attract people.

I can see you have a beard which I like but others don't.

I can see straight away I'm not for you as I'm too old and you haven't any club specific interests in your interests, which is good as specific.

You say anything you want to have tried you will do, but you are straight so your statement isn't strictly true. Plus you have no group activity interests so i would presume if I wanted a 3some and never tried it you wouldn't want to do it.

Great that you read profiles as for me that is a great filter

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By *rre786 OP   Man
over a year ago

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"Your profile is OK.

Nice pics. "

Thank you also for taking the time to review and respond. (And thanks for the compliment on my pics ). I do get what you are saying, so although I don't have my face public I do hint at the beard as that can be an instant answer to some. I also wouldn't approach a person that stated no beards, and when I do send out introductory messages I include my face pic.

My age range isn't a hard limit, so if someone felt strongly that they were right for me I'd hope they would message me anyway (I'm always sad when I'm a year or two outside someone's age range, but think we could otherwise have a lot of fun).

I'm interested that you took that I wouldn't want to try something new from my profile. I actively enjoy trying things I've not tried before, and would welcome fun opportunities to explore new interests with others. That goes for clubs as well. More a confidence thing on my part at the moment, I guess.

I'll see if I can improve my wording.

Many thanks again for your time and feedback. Gratefully appreciated.

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