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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I’m more interested in serial monogamy does that mean I’m not a swinger? For me that means any fluid exchange (both PIV and oral) with only one person at a time. Happy to have kink and no fluid play with other partners at the same time just not out myself at risk on fluid front.

I just don’t know whether this is the right site for me anymore. Thanks

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

How you use this site, who you want to meet, and how you meet is totally up to you.

I am sure there will be guys looking for the same as you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re happy here then it’s the right site for you , simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I’m more interested in serial monogamy does that mean I’m not a swinger? For me that means any fluid exchange (both PIV and oral) with only one person at a time. Happy to have kink and no fluid play with other partners at the same time just not out myself at risk on fluid front.

I just don’t know whether this is the right site for me anymore. Thanks"

More interested in monogamy or only interested in monogamy? It doesn't really sound like you are a swinger but does it really matter? If you're not getting any enjoyment out of the site then I think that's your answer.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

You could still fit the definition of swinging as it is used these days.

It sounds like you are saying you would "soft swing" with other people, but only "full swing" with your partner?

You might like the word Dan Savage uses - "monogamish."

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

OP I wouldn’t get too hung up about it. Just do your thing and don’t try and put a label on it.

That said, it does sound as if you are probably looking for a relationship with a bit of kink attached. I am sure there are people on here who would want that but you might (or might not) find other sites are better suited. I am partial to a bit of kink but not that keen on the serial monogamy bit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You could still fit the definition of swinging as it is used these days.

It sounds like you are saying you would "soft swing" with other people, but only "full swing" with your partner?

You might like the word Dan Savage uses - "monogamish.""

Thanks everyone this is really helpful- especially this language.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I came on fab to find my mfm scenerio. Realised I don't feel comfortable sharing my guy and prefer 1 night stand or mono. Tried clubs and it wasn't for me. So one would ask if I should stay on fab? I still think I'm entitled as much as the next person

If you don't get anything out of fab, leave but leave on your own accord, not because other people think you don't fit the mould.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came on fab to find my mfm scenerio. Realised I don't feel comfortable sharing my guy and prefer 1 night stand or mono. Tried clubs and it wasn't for me. So one would ask if I should stay on fab? I still think I'm entitled as much as the next person

If you don't get anything out of fab, leave but leave on your own accord, not because other people think you don't fit the mould."

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"If I’m more interested in serial monogamy does that mean I’m not a swinger? For me that means any fluid exchange (both PIV and oral) with only one person at a time. Happy to have kink and no fluid play with other partners at the same time just not out myself at risk on fluid front.

I just don’t know whether this is the right site for me anymore. Thanks"

Are you still able to find playmates that are happy to be kinky with bo fluid exchange?

I found this site easier to meet people for similar meets than others, but if it’s not working for you at the moment then just hide your profile and rake a break.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Also OP, do you know about the FETish LIFEstyle site? It's kinda like f*ceb00k for kinksters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also OP, do you know about the FETish LIFEstyle site? It's kinda like f*ceb00k for kinksters."

Thanks I do, signed up (same name) then got totally lost trying to navigate it! It’s good to hear it takes all sorts on here which I knew it did.

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