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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Always quite fancied a gangbang- what are the pros and cons??

Louise xx

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By *evonTallGuyMan
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Pros: You can have as much cock as you can handle

Cons: Finding reliable people who will actually turn up, potentially putting a dampener on the above!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Pro - its a good way to meet people

Con - you get a sore foo-foo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pro - its a good way to meet people

Con - you get a sore foo-foo."

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pro - its a good way to meet people

Con - you get a sore foo-foo."

Good point - well raised!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one con is you would have to make sure all males play by your rules

but the pros are great with as much pleasure and fun as you can have or want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try an organised one. They're the only ones I go to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to one. In the scenario where a lot of respectful men do turn up, howdoes one decide in which order to proceed?

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"Never been to one. In the scenario where a lot of respectful men do turn up, howdoes one decide in which order to proceed?"

there are parties like these which are regularly held near where you live

look in the meets section to find out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"one con is you would have to make sure all males play by your rules

but the pros are great with as much pleasure and fun as you can have or want "

Good points - thank you xx

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You are unlikely to get any decent amount of oral done to you. Or fingerwork.

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Pros - You will find lots of guys willing.

Cons - You will have to ask double the amount of guys you want for the gangbang as half you invite will not turn up. So if you want 5 guys invite 10, if you want 10 guys invite 20 etc.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Always quite fancied a gangbang- what are the pros and cons??

Louise xx"

Pros - As much fun as you can handle

Cons - Ache all over the next day and certain parts can be rather sore.

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By *ebothlovepussyCouple
over a year ago

Chatham

The fantasy sounds great but not sure that the reality would leave you feeling good about it afterwards...tho I have same dilemna,,, i want to try a gangbang but worried about feelings afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pros - You will find lots of guys willing.

Cons - You will have to ask double the amount of guys you want for the gangbang as half you invite will not turn up. So if you want 5 guys invite 10, if you want 10 guys invite 20 etc. "

But what if all 20 turn up

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Pros - You will find lots of guys willing.

Cons - You will have to ask double the amount of guys you want for the gangbang as half you invite will not turn up. So if you want 5 guys invite 10, if you want 10 guys invite 20 etc.

But what if all 20 turn up "
good question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i organized one at mine, everyone who said they were coming came, they behaved and played by the couples rules, then i think it might have been because the couple insisted on older men , but it went really well, and she went home very happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we have seen guys in this situation just be aware that some of them 'forget' to put on condoms. You need someone else to control the situation and make sure you are safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it would be just my luck they all would. But considering I'm chicken and not even had a mfm yet I've no idea lol

Good luck with it x

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside


"Pros - You will find lots of guys willing.

Cons - You will have to ask double the amount of guys you want for the gangbang as half you invite will not turn up. So if you want 5 guys invite 10, if you want 10 guys invite 20 etc.

But what if all 20 turn up "

It will never happen. From experience I know at least half will be a no show. I once went to a gangbang where 20 guys were invited 4 showed up.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Pros - You will find lots of guys willing.

Cons - You will have to ask double the amount of guys you want for the gangbang as half you invite will not turn up. So if you want 5 guys invite 10, if you want 10 guys invite 20 etc.

But what if all 20 turn up

It will never happen. From experience I know at least half will be a no show. I once went to a gangbang where 20 guys were invited 4 showed up. "

It does happen, trust me!

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By *issMidsWoman
over a year ago

North Notts

See if any local clubs hold greedy girl nights. Then you can nip down and check it out, and if you like it, join in...

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By *DAM AND EVESWoman
over a year ago

eccles

why dont you give adam n eves a try every other wed they organise gangbangs i have been and tried it and i still go back for more xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pro's - great

Cons - none

Sharon loves them xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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But what if all 20 turn up "

I live in hope. To be honest I stopped organising my own as the failure rate was so high. So now attend pre organised sessions. Or go to greedy girls night.

I wouldn't worry about sore bits because as yet it's not happened to me. But what I do find is my thighs and neck really hurt the day after.

Pros. It's just the best fun. And so empowering

Cons. It can be hard work getting the guys.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"Pro's - great

Cons - none

Sharon loves them xxx"

i am sure that she will enjoy more of them with suitable men off here

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By *antstoplaynowMan
over a year ago

uxbridge


"Pros - You will find lots of guys willing.

Cons - You will have to ask double the amount of guys you want for the gangbang as half you invite will not turn up. So if you want 5 guys invite 10, if you want 10 guys invite 20 etc.

But what if all 20 turn up

Talk to a lovely lady called bukkake queen you will find her on my veris she has organised some great gangbangs and a very sexy lady

It will never happen. From experience I know at least half will be a no show. I once went to a gangbang where 20 guys were invited 4 showed up.

It does happen, trust me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pros: variable

cons: variable

like any meet, go have fun try not to think about it too much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the pros and cons??

"

A bit like vicars and tarts- but with a criminal theme

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea

We go to a club where i can be a greedy girl but hubbie prefers now to do his own thing in a different room which i do miss him watching me .

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

When organising them I know a few ladies who after having gits of timewasters adopted a deposit system.

If the guys are genuine about coming there is usually no probs, by using paypal a small deposit of £10 refunded if they show up

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

Ooops

Lots of timewasters

My apologies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I biggest down side to gang bangs is they can be very one sided where the guys just want sucking and fucking and don't give anything back, I've done a few gang bangs where not a single guy has gone down on me but all expected a blow job

They can be great if you get the right mix tho, in my experience the more guys you have the less giving they seem to get

The pros are tho, I find it very hard to find guys who don't flop before I've finished so when ones had enough there's always someone else to move into

I do prefer smaller groups tho for reasons stated above, they seem to stay more personal and the guys more giving if there's not to many there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gangbangs love them

If you choose an organised group then in our experience they are likely going to be a group of guys you wouldn't normally go near.

We organised one of our own last year we invited most guys that wanted an invite thinking half would turn up and they all turned up lol

Loved it ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a guy who organised gang bangs mail me once and when I asked for pics I was told I was being unrealistic to expect a pic of everyone who's gonna to turn up so I asked what happens if I don't fancy them all and I was told if I was the kind of woman who was that's fussy I wasn't for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a guy who organised gang bangs mail me once and when I asked for pics I was told I was being unrealistic to expect a pic of everyone who's gonna to turn up so I asked what happens if I don't fancy them all and I was told if I was the kind of woman who was that's fussy I wasn't for them "

After last organised one I told OH that wouldn't do it again spent most of night trying to get them away from me..

Also had one of guys taking sneaky pics of me and putting them on his profile so that's another thing to think about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well let you know the pros and cons after monday.

holding our first one. all orally bi guys. will see what ratio show up!

jane and chris xx

ps if jane is walking like john wayne they all showed up lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love a gang bang with all bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love a gang bang with all bi guys "

looking for the guys to fluff each other before gangbanging the missus and have them all finish over her face. mrsnsa is so looking forward to it and her punishment afterwards

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


" I know a few ladies who after having gits of timewasters adopted a deposit system.

"

I suspect there will be lots of deposits...

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By *loxfordMan
over a year ago

Reading


"I'd love a gang bang with all bi guys "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had him to. Insisted on full body pic to show guys to see if they wanted 'it' not her IT. When I ask bout men age size etc he said thats not my right to question I the meat. Guess who did not get the pic of 'it' and told exactly what to do with himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had him to. Insisted on full body pic to show guys to see if they wanted 'it' not her IT. When I ask bout men age size etc he said thats not my right to question I the meat. Guess who did not get the pic of 'it' and told exactly what to do with himself

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you were right not to, when i had mine pics were swopped by everyone concerned , and all were happy so they knew what everyone looked like before hand, its a two way thing i believe

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"I had him to. Insisted on full body pic to show guys to see if they wanted 'it' not her IT. When I ask bout men age size etc he said thats not my right to question I the meat. Guess who did not get the pic of 'it' and told exactly what to do with himself

"

That is just a situation when you're a body on the bed. Sounds like you were just meant to be there to be used. Some like that; some don't. It's not for me, certainly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my cup of tea.......but each to their own!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had our gb today. 3 cancelled this morning and then a number didnt show so ended up being a mmmf!

no wonder single guys get a bad name. a message saying sorry cant make it would suffice.

those no show ups have been blocked

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

She only does GBs in clubs, preferably in the swing. Pros - for her, pleasure, feeling 'naughty' and doing something that's just a fantasy for most women, For him, it's exciting to watch and see her enjoying herself.

Cons - some guys try it without condoms, so he needs to watch. You need to have lube handy; one way is for him to join in and provide some of nature's lube! Some men don't cum very easily and need to be moved on if they're not getting there, because the purpose of a GB is quantity and variety.

It's not a regular occurrence when we go clubbing but sometimes she's in the mood and goes for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My other halfs fant is a gangbang but needless to say im alittle off put by it with all the cons, still undicided but from reading this i would only go down the club route for safety reasons

Dan x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one but yes on my wish list but i was reading men who are into this give very little oral and kissing as i love that so much and every man would have to be one i liked ... I can go for hours so may be a thing i like if with right people ,

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what are the pros and cons??

A bit like vicars and tarts- but with a criminal theme"

Made me chuckle!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pro - they feel fucking awesome!!

Con - there just isnt enough cock in the whole wide world!!

On a serious note, a club which lets in single guys worked for me, but had a buddy watching out for me making sure they all wore condoms and that i was well watered inbetween hehe x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

In all the time i did gangbangs i always had 99% to 100% turn up except on one occasion when only two turned up but that was a one off.

I did used to put effort into getting the right guys that i wanted.

Pro's loads of sex, used to make me feel sluttish which is what i wanted at the time.

Cons, its bloody hard work playing with lots of guys all at once, you only got so many hands, mouth, feet and fanny. Its very stranger sex, which is what i wanted.

In the end i got bored with having gangbangs so stopped doing them. I loved them when i was doing them eventually after a few years the novelty wore off

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I'd love a gang bang with all bi guys "

Ive done lots of bi guy gangbangs, but the funniest i think, was when i did an all tv gangbang, 6 of them all dressed up in lingerie better than mine and just little old me. I do remember at the time thinking it was a bit surreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always quite fancied a gangbang- what are the pros and cons??

Louise xx

Pros - As much fun as you can handle

Cons - Ache all over the next day and certain parts can be rather sore. "

If you're attending one - so am I god damn it

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By *arry2013Man
over a year ago

London


"Always quite fancied a gangbang- what are the pros and cons??

Louise xx"

It can be 'weird' if the guys don't bond or aren't humourous. Can be brill if they are!

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