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By *WINGStars23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northwest UK

One of my friends is in a lesbian relationship. Personally I and my other friends, don't like her partner for reasons I'm not saying here, and we don't think they make a good stable couple. But my friend wants a baby and can't afford a fertility clinic. So my friend ask me my thoughts on my partner HM getting her pregnant naturally and to ask him if he would? She's never been with a man and she is willing to have sex to get pregnant and doesn't want sperm donation and home insemination. As a couple we are okay with the idea and have discussed all of the options. But would you do the sane for a friend?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you don't like her partner I suggest not doing it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No I wouldn't under any circumstances but especially if I thought the child was going to be born into an unstable relationship.

The first consideration in any situation like this is the child.

Now I sound like Judge Judy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically a lesbian friend who has never had sex with a man, wants you HB to fuck her so she can have a baby inan unstable relationship.

Don't go there..just Don't....

It's an extremely bad idea and is unlikely to end well.

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By *WINGStars23 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Northwest UK

I did actually mean to add... That we decided that we are not going to help due to the nature of their relationship situation. But sods law my phones was interrupting me while I was typing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no!! If you don't like her partner why on earth would you help them have a child?

Have you researched the legal implications?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your HB is attracted to the idea of fucking " lesbian"...

Maybe it turns him and you on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did actually mean to add... That we decided that we are not going to help due to the nature of their relationship situation. But sods law my phones was interrupting me while I was typing."

That is not what you original post implies, you say you are okay with the idea. But obviously you are not getting the feedback you would like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did actually mean to add... That we decided that we are not going to help due to the nature of their relationship situation. But sods law my phones was interrupting me while I was typing.

That is not what you original post implies, you say you are okay with the idea. But obviously you are not getting the feedback you would like."

This. A rather weird thread

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By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn

So your husband wants a child with another person,

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

No no no

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Stay well away

It sounds like it has the potential for massive drama at a later date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically do you want to be a step mother and your husband a father to your friends baby. Plus the financial burden if things change in the future. There are so many reasons why sperm donations are anonymous.

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

And your partner then liable for child support, far too many red flags

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By *efinitely worth it...Woman
over a year ago

East Riding of Yorkshire


"I did actually mean to add... That we decided that we are not going to help due to the nature of their relationship situation. But sods law my phones was interrupting me while I was typing.

That is not what you original post implies, you say you are okay with the idea. But obviously you are not getting the feedback you would like."

My thoughts too. This is not a good idea on any level, what makes you and your partner okay with it, and if you are why say you're not doing it?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"One of my friends is in a lesbian relationship. Personally I and my other friends, don't like her partner for reasons I'm not saying here, and we don't think they make a good stable couple. But my friend wants a baby and can't afford a fertility clinic. So my friend ask me my thoughts on my partner HM getting her pregnant naturally and to ask him if he would? She's never been with a man and she is willing to have sex to get pregnant and doesn't want sperm donation and home insemination. As a couple we are okay with the idea and have discussed all of the options. But would you do the sane for a friend?"

I personally wouldn't do it because I would want to be involved in my childs life and upbringing.

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By *ayezzMan
over a year ago

Manchester/Birmingham

If the lesbian couple want a child so badly why does it have to be your mr that they get the sperm from? Why not just have a one night stand with a stranger instead if all they want is a baby daddy.

Sounds all a bit too close to home in my opinion, especially if you don't approve of them being a couple anyway.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Wouldnt your partner effectively already be a sort of father figure to the friend who wants him to father a child

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By *ust-a-GuyMan
over a year ago

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Unless through a clinic he'll be financially responsible.

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Does nobody else care that it's not our place to say yay or nay to a woman getting pregnant? Thousands of women do every year without a third party having a veto.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Does nobody else care that it's not our place to say yay or nay to a woman getting pregnant? Thousands of women do every year without a third party having a veto."

Would you get her pregnant ?

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

If I said yes, would you block it?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

This is a disaster waiting to happen, I'm glad you realise it's not a good idea.

A few months ago Mr Fox had a message from a trans male friend of his who asked if he could have his sperm essentially.... I was fucking outraged and they wouldn't have even been having sex! - Xeno

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Does nobody else care that it's not our place to say yay or nay to a woman getting pregnant? Thousands of women do every year without a third party having a veto."

Do you care that it's the potential father's choice in this situation to say yes or no also?

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By *hillenCouple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

The salient point would surely be whose sperm is used not the method of delivery. My cousin in in a lesbian married relationship and they have 2 children with a friend being the father. Didn't seem appropriate to ask how it was acchieved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're gonna test all these friend and relationship lines, you might as well just go the whole hog and arrange a couple's swing night between all 4 of you.

Get a few drinks, suck and fuck each other in every position manageable and bring the pregnancy in in style.

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Absolutely no way!! And I don't think she's a very good friend for even asking.

You're talking about a real life human being which would grow to have feelings and which your husband would in the eyes of the law have full responsibility for.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

If there are reasons that you and others have for having issues with her partner I would suggest that you politely decline the request and suggest that they find other means to get pregnant just our 2 pence

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex"

She said they can't afford the clinic?

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By *laclkguyMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

Been there and said no!!!!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex

She said they can't afford the clinic? "

You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex

She said they can't afford the clinic?

You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm"

Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that? "

My lesbian friend conceived two sons with donations in turkey basters

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart


"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex

She said they can't afford the clinic?

You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm

Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that? "

Sperm can live up to 3 days

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin


"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex

She said they can't afford the clinic?

You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm

Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that?

Sperm can live up to 3 days "

In a normal environment? Fair enough, didnt know that

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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Sperm can live up to 3 days "

I think its three days inside the body but only half an hour outside

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By *anchester27Man
over a year ago

Manchester

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"Hell no!! If you don't like her partner why on earth would you help them have a child?

Have you researched the legal implications?"

What does the CSA say about things like this?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"I can't understand why a lesbian wouldn't prefer artificial insemination to sex

She said they can't afford the clinic?

You can inseminate yourself with a turkey baster and donated sperm"

As seen on TV (Bookside)

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By *anchester27Man
over a year ago

Manchester

If she is up for other people, I would be willing to donate

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"

Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that?

My lesbian friend conceived two sons with donations in turkey basters"

would you visit them for a Christmas Dinner?

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"

Does sperm not die almost instantly once its left the body, like within seconds or something like that?

My lesbian friend conceived two sons with donations in turkey basters

would you visit them for a Christmas Dinner? "

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


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would you visit them for a Christmas Dinner?

"

Yes. They are both vegetarians

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One of my friends is in a lesbian relationship. Personally I and my other friends, don't like her partner for reasons I'm not saying here, and we don't think they make a good stable couple. But my friend wants a baby and can't afford a fertility clinic. So my friend ask me my thoughts on my partner HM getting her pregnant naturally and to ask him if he would? She's never been with a man and she is willing to have sex to get pregnant and doesn't want sperm donation and home insemination. As a couple we are okay with the idea and have discussed all of the options. But would you do the sane for a friend?"

If he doesnt want to do it I will

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