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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi all, Ive been a member of this site for a few months now but only just started trying to do something with it, I’ve messaged loads of girls with a kind of intro of my name my age stating I’m new and not sure how it works etc and if they’d like to get to know me then to message back and then put in a picture of myself but not seeming to get any conversation back. What do people recommend how to go about messaging someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is lots of info on this if you search. Unf there are more men than women on here

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west

Just be you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But one photo and one line of tx just isn’t going to cut it I’m afraid. Not sure what you were expecting

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

There's no magic formula, like said already, be you, be honest and be polite. There are many forum threads regarding what the ladies hate or say they hate, use the info to help you with a first message and after recently helping a female friend set up an acount on her and seeing 100 plus messages appear withing 15 minutes just consider leaving a bit of time for them to answer and don't get upset if you don't get an answer.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth

They can see name and age from profile, saying that you're new might not do you any favours as it might give the impression you want your hand held

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There's nothing interesting about you profile to make them want to reply out of the other hundreds of messages they receive from guys daily on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What were your expectations when you signed up?

Most women and couples will check out your profile when receiving a message from you before they'll even consider opening it and, as many view in stealth mode, you'll never know about it.

If your profile doesn't appeal, they're unlikely to respond.

Think of it another way.

How many of the takeaways that post their menus through your door do you phone up to tell them you're not interested?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"message me for a meet up"

It doesn't work like that - swinging is not the golden ticket many guys like you seem to think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""message me for a meet up"

It doesn't work like that - swinging is not the golden ticket many guys like you seem to think."

^exactly this

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


""message me for a meet up"

It doesn't work like that - swinging is not the golden ticket many guys like you seem to think."

Not sure this guy fits that mould just a bit dull...

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By *moothGrooveWoman
over a year ago

Most women will open your message and have a quick look on your profile. Would you reply to your profile or would you move on to another profile which actually tells you a bit about the person?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your message would have to be something really special to overcome everything else that’s lacking.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Well that did not go well...

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Another fantasist

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