FabSwingers.com forum: Douche,... And how to.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Serious question for more experienced folks from the female half ..we recently began to enjoy anal sex, ( something we keep just for us and not part of the swinging side), but having looked at posts on the subject my question is this; Although I enjoy it immensely I'm also mindful of the hygiene side of things so I purchased a bulb type douche to avoid potential embarrassing things happening when he is giving my anal pleasure, so users of such things, Where is the best place/way to use it? In the shower or over the toilet?? Serious advice is welcome before the usual sarcastic comments follow please?? xxx

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By *ungry guy 2021Man
over a year ago

Ambleside

Not female obviously but as a bi male I fill it in the sink then clean myself in the shower and repeat until completely clean

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I would fill it then . Empty in the toilet then repeat till clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can buy shower douche/enema kits on Amazon that fit onto your shower hose, and divert some water to a separate nozzle to use internally. It has a valve to control the flow, just make sure you keep the water temperature below 38 degrees (that's warm, not hot)

You can then release the shower which is easy to clean up

If I'm not breaking any rules, I can recommend this one: Shower Enema Nozzle System,Portable Bathroom Bidet Shower Head/Bag Cleaning System with 2 nozzles with 59 inches Shower Hose with Water Flow Control Valve https://amzn.eu/d/8SL0syX

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Don't you end up doing the waffle stomp if you use an anal douche in the shower?

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By *ippa 63TV/TS
over a year ago

St Helens

I have a bulb. But i find it better if i put the shower on jet. Relax my bum hole with finger and soap. Then squat down and have the shower head close to. The warm water goes up my bum and you can feel it fill up with warm water. When you feel it is full go to the toilet and release. Usually takes 3 goes to clean the area.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the useful replies so far x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't you end up doing the waffle stomp if you use an anal douche in the shower?"

Burst out laughing at that

Personally no, but then I would use the regular toilet beforehand

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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago

nottingham/ derby

Easy peasy, I always douche in case of anal play, which I enjoy if in mood, I have a bathroom with a bath sink and loo together.

What many will forget to tell you is know your habits well and think about what you eat and when. This makes a huge difference. I get in the bath do all my essentials wash everywhere, then I will step out the bath and use a small bulb, warm water, sometimes with sea salt, a tiny but of soap on nozzle in, release, do a little Irish jig and release. 99% of time if I do three little ones I'm spotless, but does depend on time of day, and your diet ans if your habits are normal and regular.

Once done I hop back in Bath finish washing, I like to use a salt and coconut scrub on these areas anyway, and voila.

Never had a poop accident, even with full on play, always is spotless and fresh no matter what occurs, I would suggest practice because figure your timings out, u need to ideally do it a few hours before play, as that area is designed to absorb water, hence why water based lube crap for anal.

If you dive in to soon pardon the pun, you can still be a little water squishy.

The key is get to know your body and you will know when your clean.

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By *ontWannaMissASwingCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I've recently got a rechargeable auto spray douche from bondara. Using the button to turn of/off can be a little fiddly but I find it a lot easier than the bulb ones for getting the water in. I find the end a lot more comfortable as well.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I use a shower attachment, then empty out in the toilet, it's only two steps away.

I do try and plan what I eat through the day if there is a chance of sex later but it can be difficult.

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

Can highly recommend relaxxx anal shower douche.

Ebay item number 275048337551 (type into ebay search)

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

I use a bulb enema.

Warm water in the sink, use until everything runs clear then clean up & shower.

I wear a butt plug whilst doing my makeup, then have another round with the bulb just to make sure, before washing myself again & getting dressed up.

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By *achel SmythTV/TS
over a year ago

Farnborough

"I use a bulb enema.

Warm water in the sink, use until everything runs clear then clean up & shower.

I wear a butt plug whilst doing my makeup, then have another round with the bulb just to make sure, before washing myself again & getting dressed up."

This is what I do too, although never tried the butt plug and douche again. I like to shower after I’ve douched, but that would clearly ruin my make up second time - lol

Whilst I have occasionally had a bit of a ‘problem’ when playing on my own, I don’t generally douche then. But if going on a night out / date, I always do, and (touch wood), have never had an issue! Xx

I have thought about getting a shower head, and using whilst in the shower, but I do worry if there is anything that ‘comes out’ when you’re in the shower … how do you get it down the plug hole … or am I being a bit thick here!!

R xx

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale

"I use a bulb enema.

Warm water in the sink, use until everything runs clear then clean up & shower.

I wear a butt plug whilst doing my makeup, then have another round with the bulb just to make sure, before washing myself again & getting dressed up.

This is what I do too, although never tried the butt plug and douche again. I like to shower after I’ve douched, but that would clearly ruin my make up second time - lol

R xx

I just don't like the idea of any mess in the shower!

Do like the idea of a shower head enema, I'd find it a lovely feeling.

I wear a plug to get me ready for fun, sometimes my meets like to remove it themselves.

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By *9 Love-To-TryCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

We use bulbs to douche and control diet

Love the clean feeling then the fun that follows

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Serious question for more experienced folks from the female half ..we recently began to enjoy anal sex, ( something we keep just for us and not part of the swinging side), but having looked at posts on the subject my question is this; Although I enjoy it immensely I'm also mindful of the hygiene side of things so I purchased a bulb type douche to avoid potential embarrassing things happening when he is giving my anal pleasure, so users of such things, Where is the best place/way to use it? In the shower or over the toilet?? Serious advice is welcome before the usual sarcastic comments follow please?? xxx"

We bought a shower attachment and a 3 way valve. Turn temp low, reduce flow, squat and then insert and if you get it right you can have a constant stream going in and out, then fill up, stand up, give yourself a jiggle (seriously it helps) then push it out standing up.

Do that a few times and you're sorted.

We're quite heavily into anal play, not just sex, and I can assure you this is far far better than any bulb we've tried.

It's slightly more dirty than over a toilet but it's very effective.

I think I got mine from lovehoney.

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By *ungry guy 2021Man
over a year ago

Ambleside

Do that a few times and you're sorted.

We're quite heavily into anal play, not just sex, and I can assure you this is far far better than any bulb we've tried.

It's slightly more dirty than over a toilet but it's very effective.

I think I got mine from lovehoney. "
might have a look at this method I use a bulb at the moment and as you say a jiggle and wiggle helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bulb douche, a syringe type and shower attachment. I use the shower attachment with an extension hose as that allows it to reach to the toilet, no messing about going to and fro. I also have a number of different douche heads for the shower attachment and the bulb douche.

The syringe has a tube attached and I use this if I can't use the other options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of getting the massively overpriced £60 shower douche from LH, you could use my link from earlier in this thread and get one for under £25...

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By *riendly BiMan
over a year ago

I bought one that you can attach to your shower head. It nearly blew my insides out!

I’m sticking to the old fashioned bulb method from now on

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Wonderful replies!

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

Some very useful tips here ..thanks.

Regarding diet and what you eat etc..

What should you eat and what should you avoid? Is this over a 24 hour period??

Oh the joys of bum fucking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I bought one that you can attach to your shower head. It nearly blew my insides out!

I’m sticking to the old fashioned bulb method from now on "

That's why it's essential you buy one with the inline valve to control the flow rate. Uncontrolled mains pressure could do real damage to your insides

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By *obbi_sutherlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Dornoch

Used bulb for quite a few years.

Simple and easy to operate with an excellent success rate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some really helpful advice so far, thank you all xx

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By *reampie_loverMan
over a year ago

Tbh, if a guy wants to do anal, he should expect to get a dirty dick. Part of the territory!

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By *inkForLifeCouple
over a year ago

North Shields

"Some very useful tips here ..thanks.

Regarding diet and what you eat etc..

What should you eat and what should you avoid? Is this over a 24 hour period??

Oh the joys of bum fucking lol"

Avoid red meat, anything fatty like pizza etc.

I find what you don't eat is more important than what you do eat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using a shower attachment...don't have too much water pressure I find best. Also make sure you empty your howels before douching!!!.

Watch out for trapped water afterwards too, can be embarrassing.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"Some very useful tips here ..thanks.

Regarding diet and what you eat etc..

What should you eat and what should you avoid? Is this over a 24 hour period??

Oh the joys of bum fucking lol

Avoid red meat, anything fatty like pizza etc.

I find what you don't eat is more important than what you do eat. "

Think I will stick to sucking....the prep for anal can be a bit of a faff!

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By *ambridgeCouple20Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

True, it can indeed be a faff.

But, the rewards for anal are amazing!

Personally, I have a bulb type,which I use in the shower after going to the toilet.

I insert, squirt warm water in myself three or 4 times using a shower gel as 'lube', then enuresis that the shower is fully hygenic, afterwards.

I lastly, use the bull to put a bit of air into myself so that it gets rid of that last bit of water inside you, otherwise, a hour later, you can get a egg cup full when you least expect it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"True, it can indeed be a faff.

But, the rewards for anal are amazing!

Personally, I have a bulb type,which I use in the shower after going to the toilet.

I insert, squirt warm water in myself three or 4 times using a shower gel as 'lube', then enuresis that the shower is fully hygenic, afterwards.

I lastly, use the bull to put a bit of air into myself so that it gets rid of that last bit of water inside you, otherwise, a hour later, you can get a egg cup full when you least expect it!!"

Any recommendations on where to get a suitable egg cup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn’t mean to kill the thread, just my wee joke. Please continue as I was enjoying the advice. Particularly interested in what to eat and not eat in the 24hours before action x

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By *ambridgeCouple20Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

No nuts or seeds!!

Drink less, as the less hydrated you are the more, um, 'solid' the movement will be the next day and easier to deal with!!

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I would struggle with this 24 hour thing...I really like spontaneous sex ..

By the time I avoided nuts and ate pineapples., flushed my mangina 10 times the appeal of having my bum fucked would have long passed...lol

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

A small tip if you have accidents even after douching, use Loperamide the day, or at least several hours prior. This acts to firm up ones poo so less chance of sneaky remnants slipping through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use a bulb enema.

Warm water in the sink, use until everything runs clear then clean up & shower.

I wear a butt plug whilst doing my makeup, then have another round with the bulb just to make sure, before washing myself again & getting dressed up."

Omg this is my exact routine too! Down to a fine art!

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

portchester

Calpol syringe

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

"I use a bulb enema.

Warm water in the sink, use until everything runs clear then clean up & shower.

I wear a butt plug whilst doing my makeup, then have another round with the bulb just to make sure, before washing myself again & getting dressed up.

Omg this is my exact routine too! Down to a fine art! "

I really admire the effort you put in and the lengths you go too..real dedication..but too much for me.

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By *1harrogateMan
over a year ago

harrogate

If you eat weetabix, instead of 2 have 3 it makes poo more solid. I also find the bulb works best as shower attachments can send water too far up then it takes ages and gets trapped, comes out during or just after sex and is quite embarrassing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Small device over toilet but I sometimes take shower head off and press end towards my hole, you would be surprised how much water you can squirt up there

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By *olly_AmberTV/TS
over a year ago

Live Sussex, Work London

"I would fill it then . Empty in the toilet then repeat till clean "

This

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