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"Do you think you're in the best place mentally to consider this? You sound doubtful..why risk any fallout " I agree is it the right time? | |||
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"When some people are depressed they subconsciously or sometimes even deliberately set up situations which will add to their misery in a kind of hopeless “I told you so” kind of way. If you’re miserable why go to a club at all? Have a night off and look after yourself. " Yeah, I’m not that kind of person. I’m a functioning miserable bastard ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I hope your Mrs enjoys herself at the club if you have decided to feel miserable I am Shure you will but can anyone else help? " Excuse me?! “decided to feel miserable”?! Chronic depression isn’t a choice. | |||
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"So… I (Mr) am going through a really rough time mentally at the moment. I’m in a really bad place. But I’m used to it as I suffer from persistent depressive disorder. I’m also suffering with really bad heel pain at the moment, and sometimes struggling to walk. We’re off out to a club tomorrow, and I’m expecting to be utterly not up for playing (or physically be able to either.) So I’ve said to Mrs that, although it’s usually beyond our boundaries, if she wants to play with anybody I’m happy to support her decision although I probably won’t be involved. The exceptional circumstances are the reason we’ve discussed this. She hasn’t expressed an opinion either way (though knowing her she’ll be off enjoying herself as soon as the opportunity presents ![]() DONT DO THIS. THIS IS THE WRONG TIME FOR YOU. Lots of people plat separately but doing in your current state can only lead to an even worse place for you full of pain..... | |||
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"I absolutely get where you’re all coming from, but honestly I’m fine. We’ve sort of played separately before (adjoining rooms in the club with an open doorway) and that went pretty good ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I literally just watched something on YT similar to this. Relationships are built on more than just sex and I'm 100% sure that your F sees your relationship as more than that. You not being upto sexy time isn't 'unfair' on her, you have every right to have on/off times the same as everyone else. I think you should wait until you feel 100% cause since you're doubtful there's a risk that this could make you feel worse x | |||
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"I hope your Mrs enjoys herself at the club if you have decided to feel miserable I am Shure you will but can anyone else help? " Do you really think depression is equal to 'deciding to feel miserable' ??? | |||
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