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Couples - How do feel after having played with others

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you get a bit older, into a 2nd (or more) serious relationship, I reckon the "Physical" side of getting with another person isn't quite the big problem it was when younger.

HOWEVER the heart wrenching horrible feeling that doesn't seem to get easier, is if your partner gets an emotional connection with someone else.

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester


"When you get a bit older, into a 2nd (or more) serious relationship, I reckon the "Physical" side of getting with another person isn't quite the big problem it was when younger.

HOWEVER the heart wrenching horrible feeling that doesn't seem to get easier, is if your partner gets an emotional connection with someone else."
so your partner has an emotional connection with someone you've met or she's met?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No no nope.

Nothing about what I wrote was personally relating to our current relationship.

It was basically posted as a follow-on thought from a convo thread going on atm about Cheating. Just our general opinion on this matter.. Sometimes it's cathartic for people to use these threads to share and help make sense of things in a support group. X

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

I feel more appreciative of the person I'm with.. I loaned him and he loaned me for a temporary time being so the pleasures they had from us was a fraction of what I get or he gets repeatedly. So it does not bother me at all. If there isn't trust then there isn't a partnership my past partners and I act on that commitment of trust honest communication and if things no longer fit that narrative there's no point in us being partners anymore.

If he can't tell me how he enjoyed her and I can't tell him how I enjoyed who I was with then that will lead to hidden communication and hidden trust intentions etc. Swinging is for those with mature emotions and capabilities sadly too many enter without that.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea


"When you get a bit older, into a 2nd (or more) serious relationship, I reckon the "Physical" side of getting with another person isn't quite the big problem it was when younger.

HOWEVER the heart wrenching horrible feeling that doesn't seem to get easier, is if your partner gets an emotional connection with someone else."
We always form connections as in friendships but if someone was to form a emotional connection then their has to be something not right in their relationship to begin with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us would have married the other if we were that fickle.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Personally we feel shagged out

But - unlike other relationships - neither of us have ever felt any heart-wrenching feeling that the other is going to form a romantic attachment to someone else and leave us. It’s hard to explain, but we both just feel utterly loved by the other

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