FabSwingers.com forum: is our profile too short?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you hear of couples getting 20 or 30 more messages a day.

we dont get more than 5,we are not upset or anything.just curious to our profile.

when we have put meet at our house meets,we get hardly any interest

what do we need to change on our profile?

more info?

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Seems ok to me though perhaps a little short on detail and not easy on the eye the way you have used the spacing.

I have to say your photos are very easy on the eye

and I would have contacted you but you are not looking for me, sad but true lol.

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By *efreeMan
over a year ago

North Staffs

Looks fine to me, I don't think people read long profiles

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

The amount of people you will attract has nothing to do with the lenght of your profile

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By *efreeMan
over a year ago

North Staffs

Perhaps you should suggest meeting at neutral venue first as my ex partner would not go straight to someone's house as she felt under pressure to play

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"The amount of people you will attract has nothing to do with the lenght of your profile"

I agree, it's more about girth of profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't come across as being particularly friendly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very sexy photos, we don't read extra long profiles so no it's fine !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You don't come across as being particularly friendly!"

didnt stop a wink from you

how do we appear unfriendly?

would a 'yes we are friendly' change that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Very sexy photos, we don't read extra long profiles so no it's fine !! "

thanks x

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"The amount of people you will attract has nothing to do with the lenght of your profile

I agree, it's more about girth of profile."
ho dear me...just following the lenght or girth thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't come across as being particularly friendly!

didnt stop a wink from you

how do we appear unfriendly?

would a 'yes we are friendly' change that?"

More details, the only thing it really says is what you don't want rather than more what you want. Positive Negative.

And don't worry we will not bother you again, what an arrogant comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God Warrington !!! Chill out, even we found all your comments very negative and abrupt !!!! And we are just observing !!!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Maybe people think that Mrs is still pregnant?? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"God Warrington !!! Chill out, even we found all your comments very negative and abrupt !!!! And we are just observing !!!! "

And the OP are on here asking why people don't contact them when people do they ignore it.

We respond to everything that is sent even if no thanks. Friendly Unfriendly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people get loads of winks etc even we get a fair few, would be here all day saying yes please or no thanks, ideal world reply to all yes but not always that easy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe people think that Mrs is still pregnant?? X "

she isnt pregnant now,only put that pic up yesterday

its just a pic we liked

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Oh yeah she looks lovely in it don't get me wrong but with it being your most recent pic that could be what people think. Crossed my mind for a split second tbh x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people get loads of winks etc even we get a fair few, would be here all day saying yes please or no thanks, ideal world reply to all yes but not always that easy ? "

thank you,we agree.

maybe if people want a reply,send a message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh yeah she looks lovely in it don't get me wrong but with it being your most recent pic that could be what people think. Crossed my mind for a split second tbh x "

will delete it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people get loads of winks etc even we get a fair few, would be here all day saying yes please or no thanks, ideal world reply to all yes but not always that easy ? "

It doesn't take a minute. We get about ten winks and about 12-15 messages, if people take time to send then we feel it only polite to send something back.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"Some people get loads of winks etc even we get a fair few, would be here all day saying yes please or no thanks, ideal world reply to all yes but not always that easy ?

It doesn't take a minute. We get about ten winks and about 12-15 messages, if people take time to send then we feel it only polite to send something back."

even a quick NO THanks you is great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A wink is a bit lazy yeah, send a message and a reply is more likely.

Don't delete pregnant pic it's lovely

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Oh yeah she looks lovely in it don't get me wrong but with it being your most recent pic that could be what people think. Crossed my mind for a split second tbh x

will delete it xx"

Nooo don't delete it! It's a lovely photo. Just maybe pop a quick line in profile so people know its old photo x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks ok to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

cheers johnny

warringtons have now accused us of being sizist and totally vain.

so having a preference of the types of people you play with on here is frowned up on by them.

i think we may have offended them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people get loads of winks etc even we get a fair few, would be here all day saying yes please or no thanks, ideal world reply to all yes but not always that easy ?

It doesn't take a minute. We get about ten winks and about 12-15 messages, if people take time to send then we feel it only polite to send something back.

even a quick NO THanks you is great"

Indeed. Then again we have some class.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers johnny

warringtons have now accused us of being sizist and totally vain.

so having a preference of the types of people you play with on here is frowned up on by them.

i think we may have offended them."

Where do we say you are 'sizist'(sic) and vain? We called you arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry.got confused,someone else messaged due to this thread saying we sizeist and vain.my mistake sorry

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

some people like black and some like white .. some like short and some like tall .. some like fat and some like thin ... thats life !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at Warringtons update on their profile ........... People who arnt happy, I wouldn't bother arguing, they sent you a wink too ???? Lol !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope looks just fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you will never please all - your pics and verifications say plenty

S xxx

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

The content is mainly information which is cool, but you rprofile is what sparks people's interest and makes them wink or massage you and it's just a little dry.

Put a little personality in it, let us know what nice, fun poeple you are to get to know and play with.

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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago

Northwood

"The content is mainly information which is cool, but you rprofile is what sparks people's interest and makes them wink or massage you and it's just a little dry.

Put a little personality in it, let us know what nice, fun poeple you are to get to know and play with.

Yeah massage you ... or even message you .... damn these false nails

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have typing problems but mine is down to touchscreen phone rather than fake nails ha.

Cheers for the feed back on profile (those who were not bitter anyway) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like your profile guys, and the pregnant pic is stunning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty bland so wouldnt make me want to message personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Look at Warringtons update on their profile ........... People who arnt happy, I wouldn't bother arguing, they sent you a wink too ???? Lol !!! "

We send a lot of winks to new people especially since we have come back on here.

There are a lot of liars, wannabes,fakes and freeloaders on this site. Especially those with any form of verification.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We perv'd your profile recently guys and did come to the conclusion that Mrs Niknak was pregnant as others have mentioned.

Like others we actually thought it was a really good picture!

The rest of your profile is pretty much what we look for in a profile

Don't think it's you or your profile just this site in general lately....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

5 mails a day is pretty good

We average 1 a day (from new people) yet we have a long profile. lol

We tend to go searching now rather than waiting to see who contacts us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's about one line too short.

Something about loving guys in Suit/DJ pics should fill the gap perfectly!

After that - you'll be fighting them off with a stick!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's about one line too short.

Something about loving guys in Suit/DJ pics should fill the gap perfectly!

After that - you'll be fighting them off with a stick!

Haha

I actually bought my first suit this week and I'm 38

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we also have this problem although just been told looks like we are shouting so may change it are messages are very few an far between yet to meet anyone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's about one line too short.

Something about loving guys in Suit/DJ pics should fill the gap perfectly!

After that - you'll be fighting them off with a stick!

Haha

I actually bought my first suit this week and I'm 38 "

Chicks dig suits. Fact!

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By *uriousBristolCplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Looks fine to me, I don't think people read long profiles "

That's us screwed then!! Or not more to the point

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"hi

you hear of couples getting 20 or 30 more messages a day.

we dont get more than 5,we are not upset or anything.just curious to our profile.

when we have put meet at our house meets,we get hardly any interest

what do we need to change on our profile?

more info?"

if it works for you then it works for you.... only use can answer for you

my rule of thumb is this... if it can be perceived that you have put more thought into a post, then it can be said of your profile... then i think there is an issue...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys - your profile is fine as it is , pics are great too but more importantly the verifications speak volumes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"hi

you hear of couples getting 20 or 30 more messages a day.

we dont get more than 5,we are not upset or anything.just curious to our profile.

when we have put meet at our house meets,we get hardly any interest

what do we need to change on our profile?

more info?"

You don't have a great deal on there - a little more would be nice.

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