FabSwingers.com forum: Help with my profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys been in here in and off for a while and I’m struggling to get any replies to my messages

I try and be authentic with each message , but maybe I’m missing something

Or could it be my pictures

If anybody has advice would be greatly sole aired by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visit clubs and go to socials is my advise. Always will be the best way to meet people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any you would recommend in London

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

I would sort your pictures out. Bathroom shots are not good

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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

You don't really say much about yourself, I can't gauge your personality or what you are looking for....other then people with little boundaries.

Maybe look at other guys profiles who are well verified and get some creative ideas.

Also clubs (look in the club part of the forum) and get verified to show you are real and won't get cold feet.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

OP: not going to write your profile for you, but our view:

Your age range is too narrow - in our experience, swinging is easier once people's kids are older.

Bathroom mirror pics always say either "lazy" or "only place he can be away from the wife and get his cock out".

Profile text - essentially nothing about you. Gives us nothing to start a conversation from.

Also....without a sample of a message, we can't tell you if you're going wrong with messaging or profile.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really appreciate that

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

"Hey guys been in here in and off for a while and I’m struggling to get any replies to my messages

I try and be authentic with each message , but maybe I’m missing something

Or could it be my pictures

If anybody has advice would be greatly sole aired by "
no woman or couple would "drop you a message" , you have to put some effort in to get replies and that starts with your profile, so good pics and good write up, good luck

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Op to many cock pictures use your imagination

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Their is plenty of helpful advice among the pile of threads from previous folk whom asked similar as yourself if you care to browse the forum Search it's a useful tool with loads of helpful advice by other users. Hopefully then you're able to create something that fits entirely around you personally and be successful in your journey

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

What tips and advice have you picked up from reviewing other posts from single guys? If so can see how well you've incorporated it, it would be a great guide for us.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You look sad with your wine glass, flexing a bicep in a pic is not a good look. You're a good looking man, but could improve your pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chances of anyone 'dropping you a message' are very slim especially with a fairly ordinary looking profile. Single guys must out number couple and single girls by about 70 to 1 on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically your profile screams of wanting and expecting it to land in your lap without any effort. Clearly that has not worked, you have been given good advice, I'm doubtful if you will act on it though.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Saying you are straight and looking for TVs will get people wondering.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Basically your profile screams of wanting and expecting it to land in your lap without any effort. Clearly that has not worked, you have been given good advice, I'm doubtful if you will act on it though. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“The fewer boundaries the better”

People with very few boundaries will no doubt be in touch shortly.

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By *ena AmourTV/TS
over a year ago

Chard

Imagine your profile as what people see when you walk into a pub.

1st you must go through the door

2nd would you be naked?

3rd when you are at the bar, how will you stand out from the 100s of others?

4th When you approach them because they have plenty of choice, how would you introduce yourself.

I know this is a different place, but subtlety can go a long way. I have struggled to realise what i want and how to put myself on display because I am very open minded and not exactly the greatest catch!

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having similar issues here, live to try a club but not a massive drinker though! Are there any clubs, events, socials without alcohol I wonder?

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Having similar issues here, live to try a club but not a massive drinker though! Are there any clubs, events, socials without alcohol I wonder? "

You don’t have to drink alcohol, I drink soft drinks at any meet I want my wits about me when I’m deciding what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good to know and wise! I’ll have to try something solo

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By *agicmarcMan
over a year ago

tonyrefail

get what your saying but if i have a drink i seem

to relax more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having similar issues here, live to try a club but not a massive drinker though! Are there any clubs, events, socials without alcohol I wonder? "

Every club sells soft drinks.

I never drink alcohol and I always have a good night.

Pleasures and Eureka in Kent and monkey business in Essex aren’t too far from you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanting to try but worried I not engage when alone! Need a club buddy

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"Hey guys been in here in and off for a while and I’m struggling to get any replies to my messages

I try and be authentic with each message , but maybe I’m missing something

Or could it be my pictures

If anybody has advice would be greatly sole aired by "

you profile is an invite to people to contact you not 'contact for more info'

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I’m always astounded by the amount of single men profiles complaining about not getting any responses.

If you’re sitting and waiting eagerly for a response to come, you might be waiting forever.

That’s how it works on Fab, I’m afraid.

I understand how it can impact your confidence at some point.

You’re in London, and fairly good looking guy so get yourself to one of many Fab organised socials and meet people organically, make yourself know, start connections.

Fab is only a platform but real people are out there if you’re willing to make some effort.

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