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"Hi all, my lady friend and I, visit kesterals now and again for amongst many things a relax and chill in there great facilities, naked swimming. Hot tubs and cinema Have had a few great evenings there, it's a turn on watching others and having fun However last Monday I realised, why couples single people stop going, as a secure couple we experianced a few negative things We are very social and open will chat to others engage in the pool and friendly A few really nice polite chaps just not for us Headed to the cinema to just see. Started playing as it was empty so very into each other enjoying being naked A gentleman appeared, very polite and within etiquette asked if it was OK to join in, problem is no conversation, mute, not a conversation just wanted to cum n go, thats understandable Ive been a single guy at clubs, shoot his lot, asked named, did u enjoy nothing, all he asked is fo u want sex we go for fun inclusive fun, conversation builds trust, made my lady friend feel what's wrong with people rather than hey thst was fun and what a nice person. " This is how they bang their wives at home until the wives shut the shop..then they come and do it to us unsuspecting poly and swinging people. or...this is how they fantasize over porn.... Either way zero communication skills, emotional intelligence or social skills. The internet for sure has degraded us even more. | |||
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"Hi all, my lady friend and I, visit kesterals now and again for amongst many things a relax and chill in there great facilities, naked swimming. Hot tubs and cinema Have had a few great evenings there, it's a turn on watching others and having fun However last Monday I realised, why couples single people stop going, as a secure couple we experianced a few negative things We are very social and open will chat to others engage in the pool and friendly A few really nice polite chaps just not for us Headed to the cinema to just see. Started playing as it was empty so very into each other enjoying being naked A gentleman appeared, very polite and within etiquette asked if it was OK to join in, problem is no conversation, mute, not a conversation just wanted to cum n go, thats understandable Ive been a single guy at clubs, shoot his lot, asked named, did u enjoy nothing, all he asked is fo u want sex we go for fun inclusive fun, conversation builds trust, made my lady friend feel what's wrong with people rather than hey thst was fun and what a nice person. This is how they bang their wives at home until the wives shut the shop..then they come and do it to us unsuspecting poly and swinging people. or...this is how they fantasize over porn.... Either way zero communication skills, emotional intelligence or social skills. The internet for sure has degraded us even more." Maybe so yes, i may agree with you there, i as a social being, find it all a tad mind boggling, educated in life as I am, how do these people interact in real life? X | |||
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"Hi all, my lady friend and I, visit kesterals now and again for amongst many things a relax and chill in there great facilities, naked swimming. Hot tubs and cinema Have had a few great evenings there, it's a turn on watching others and having fun However last Monday I realised, why couples single people stop going, as a secure couple we experianced a few negative things We are very social and open will chat to others engage in the pool and friendly A few really nice polite chaps just not for us Headed to the cinema to just see. Started playing as it was empty so very into each other enjoying being naked A gentleman appeared, very polite and within etiquette asked if it was OK to join in, problem is no conversation, mute, not a conversation just wanted to cum n go, thats understandable Ive been a single guy at clubs, shoot his lot, asked named, did u enjoy nothing, all he asked is fo u want sex we go for fun inclusive fun, conversation builds trust, made my lady friend feel what's wrong with people rather than hey thst was fun and what a nice person. This is how they bang their wives at home until the wives shut the shop..then they come and do it to us unsuspecting poly and swinging people. or...this is how they fantasize over porn.... Either way zero communication skills, emotional intelligence or social skills. The internet for sure has degraded us even more. Maybe so yes, i may agree with you there, i as a social being, find it all a tad mind boggling, educated in life as I am, how do these people interact in real life? X " they don't interact in real life. I have had colleagues like this and I've been like this. I also can disconnect and dissociate from people so that could be happening too. When I'm around people intentionally without stress, I have to make a real effort to stay grounded and connected. I'm aware of it now but in the past, I wasn't. I also don't make eye contact easily so that might put some people who love eye contact during sex off. I'm more open to telling people about those sensory processing traits that I have and I learning to be more social. But my default setting is to disconnect/dissociate. | |||
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"Hi all, my lady friend and I, visit kesterals now and again for amongst many things a relax and chill in there great facilities, naked swimming. Hot tubs and cinema Have had a few great evenings there, it's a turn on watching others and having fun However last Monday I realised, why couples single people stop going, as a secure couple we experianced a few negative things We are very social and open will chat to others engage in the pool and friendly A few really nice polite chaps just not for us Headed to the cinema to just see. Started playing as it was empty so very into each other enjoying being naked A gentleman appeared, very polite and within etiquette asked if it was OK to join in, problem is no conversation, mute, not a conversation just wanted to cum n go, thats understandable Ive been a single guy at clubs, shoot his lot, asked named, did u enjoy nothing, all he asked is fo u want sex we go for fun inclusive fun, conversation builds trust, made my lady friend feel what's wrong with people rather than hey thst was fun and what a nice person. This is how they bang their wives at home until the wives shut the shop..then they come and do it to us unsuspecting poly and swinging people. or...this is how they fantasize over porn.... Either way zero communication skills, emotional intelligence or social skills. The internet for sure has degraded us even more. Maybe so yes, i may agree with you there, i as a social being, find it all a tad mind boggling, educated in life as I am, how do these people interact in real life? X they don't interact in real life. I have had colleagues like this and I've been like this. I also can disconnect and dissociate from people so that could be happening too. When I'm around people intentionally without stress, I have to make a real effort to stay grounded and connected. I'm aware of it now but in the past, I wasn't. I also don't make eye contact easily so that might put some people who love eye contact during sex off. I'm more open to telling people about those sensory processing traits that I have and I learning to be more social. But my default setting is to disconnect/dissociate." Maybe tgen you are in place you want to be. However can't establish tge reasons why you are there? 1st club I went to was all about exploring having fun with the unknown or mainstream conventional, great fun, but only with intelligent, social people x to be fare thsts were i discovered my open side x | |||
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