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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else laugh at the hypocrisy of 'single' guys, (who after a bit of chatting reveal that they aren't actually single), expecting some kind of exclusivity!!

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

They have a one track mind and that track is a shag at any and all costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes it harder for us that are single

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By *oft_SensualTV/TS
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I don't think I've actually spoken to any who, after some questioning, are actually single. Excuses, lies- never mind those impersonating women and couples!!

Chance to be in a relationship would be a fine thing and demanding exclusivity whilst playing the field is a sign of insecurity IMHO, amongst other things....

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By *otBrunetteHimCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

Had similar with single women lately, exchange a few messages then the “me and my partner are looking to meet couples” message arrives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had similar with single women lately, exchange a few messages then the “me and my partner are looking to meet couples” message arrives. "

Hmmm, difficult one that one... I have a solo lady profile. But I can't accomadate due to family here (not a partner). But I've had messages off couples who can't accomadate either. In which case I've aired the suggestion that I've a fwb who does as another option

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By *otBrunetteHimCouple
over a year ago

birmingham


"Had similar with single women lately, exchange a few messages then the “me and my partner are looking to meet couples” message arrives.

Hmmm, difficult one that one... I have a solo lady profile. But I can't accomadate due to family here (not a partner). But I've had messages of couples who can't accomadate either. In which case I've aired the suggestion that I've a fwb who does as another option "

Yeah this gets pitched well before talk of a meeting place. We can accommodate but also if they aren’t local we’re happy to book a hotel for a night away. We’ve messaged them as a single as there is no mention of a partner or couples accounton the profile. Just a different point of view to the men having partners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes it harder for us that are single "

Amen to that

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

I don't think we have had any msgs or contact from men who are not married/attached in the 3 years we have been on here. What they don't realise though is that we know..we can tell..unfortunately we live in quite a small area compared to some places down south and like I said the majority of men arw not swingers at all..they just want sex because they can't get it at home..its very frustrating.

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By *inx_xxWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

It's the "couples" profiles that turn out to be single guys that gives me the creeps.

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By *offee3SweetnersMan
over a year ago

Kettering

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By *offee3SweetnersMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I have a singles profile but I also have a couples.profile with my wife.

I have never understood why anyone would lie and deceive their partners or seek to forge new relationships in this way.

Not understanding does not imply judgement though as I have noticed I am often passed by on here because I am open about being married and having a partner and that they are not looking for married men.

Sometimes those same people will also state on the forums that this is a swingers site and not a dating site pmsl. 

Just don't get hung up on duds and have fun with good people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These lads have, for obvious reasons, made it much, much harder for the rest of us. A pox on em’.

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By *ockyroad666Man
over a year ago

Maesteg

Come on Team Single, we can do better than this, Team Unicorn are kicking are asses lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it anymore hypothetical than married couples on here who like to play the moral high ground

what about the vow in the marriage vows forsaking all others?

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By *astYorksCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Is it anymore hypothetical than married couples on here who like to play the moral high ground

what about the vow in the marriage vows forsaking all others? "

And there goes the one of many single guys who just don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it anymore hypothetical than married couples on here who like to play the moral high ground

what about the vow in the marriage vows forsaking all others?

And there goes the one of many single guys who just don't get it."

I suspect 'single' might be stretching it

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch


"Is it anymore hypothetical than married couples on here who like to play the moral high ground

what about the vow in the marriage vows forsaking all others? "

If we're going to be following religious rules, no fornicating outside of marriage is pretty bad for the single folk...

And it would be nice if people could have both a single profile and a joint profile which were linked.

Stop all the 'couples' where only the male is currently playing (and bypassing filters).

I appreciate that many fabsters do this, which prevents a surprise later when a single woman suddenly mentioned a partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just love winding people up when I’m bored

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By *astYorksCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire


"Just love winding people up when I’m bored "

Still doesn't stop you showing yourself up though ??

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"It makes it harder for us that are single "

I feel sorry for the genuine guys on here. Only takes a few to mess it up for them.

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By *ADY VOLUPTUOUS OF KENTWoman
over a year ago

TONBRIDGE ROUNDABOUTS

I'd like a single one

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset


"It makes it harder for us that are single "

how ?? how does someone else's actions affect you ? ill tell you how .. it dont

if your not getting meets its down to you nobody else ...all your doing is finding an excuse to blaming someone else for getting no where ... everubody is reponible for themselves

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By *lackshadow7Man
over a year ago

Toronto


"It makes it harder for us that are single "

Not really, no

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I make it clear from the start that I’m married playing on here and it’s on my profile

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By *issy_sub_rTV/TS
over a year ago

Near Thatcham

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By *issy_sub_rTV/TS
over a year ago

Near Thatcham


"I make it clear from the start that I’m married playing on here and it’s on my profile"

Yes, same here. All very open and clear about the situation (although mine is different to yours). But fully agree that there are too many who aren't open about things, causing problems for those of us who are.

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