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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can you do it lol

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

You could go to a club that has a couples and singles night. Then the couples are already there and real, you don't need to worry about fakes then.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beats me

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford


"How can you do it lol"

By standing out from the other 99% of single guys. There's no magic answer but good profile text, good photos and good intro messages help.

Also....right message to the right couple at the right time.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll fare much better at a club or a party than you will on here

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By *ackbydemandMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Face to face did it for me in a club, they basically adopted me

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Make sure your profile is the best it can be, bio & images, would you choose you over the other 100 guys appearing in their inbox that week, what will make you stand out

Search for a profile you like

Read their bio, if you genuinely fit what they are looking for send them a polite message

If you've done a good job with the first & third parts they should like what they see on receiving your message & invite you for either a social or a play meet

If you've only done parts 1 & 3 half heartedly, haven't read their bio or are only partly what they are looking for, I wouldn't waste your time as your message will just get deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can you do it lol

By standing out from the other 99% of single guys. There's no magic answer but good profile text, good photos and good intro messages help.

Also....right message to the right couple at the right time.

(Bry)"

This totally

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

You can't do it, they choose you by seeing how much effort you put into your profile including write up and photos. If you're privilaged enough to be recognised then be polite, address both parties and don't be pushy, the rewards are fantastic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't ask me I'm at 100% rejection rate..... Been turned down more than a thermostat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’ll be knocking your door down any minute.

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

On here-Take time to read couple’s profiles and message if you fit in with them. Don’t send dic pics straight away have a good profile with a good profile pic. Stand out from the crowd

Club- probably easiest place, go with no expectations to play, dress smart, smell good and mingle hang around the bar etc everyone is friendly and there for a good time don’t hang around the toilets to pounce on any poor lady’s and don’t be part of the creepy ones that follow people around x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just attend a club. I have been a single guy and single guys have to message 100s of people to get anywhere.

Instead of wasting your time messaging 100s attend a club.

Always was and will be the best way to meet people

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

Plenty of couples on here do meet single guys. Just have the courtesy of reading and understanding their profile and seeing if you fit what they're looking for. Write your message to them rather than generic blurb and avoid the scattergun approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

realise that swinging is not the golden ticket to sex on tap .....

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By *un and Frolics 1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

You have got it , good profile with a face pic no willy pics will get you much further, my husband and I met single guys but they had to write a good message and has stated show a little bit extra.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple
over a year ago

Weymouth


"Don't ask me I'm at 100% rejection rate..... Been turned down more than a thermostat "

That'll be because couples won't want to drag your wife kicking and screaming into a 4some

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

I think you need more cock pics in your profile. A hundred with various angles should do it. Try also bombard them with the best cock shot with toilet on a background as opening message. Never let me down.

On a serious note - go to a club on a theme night that suits you.

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