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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello just here asking for tips for messaging people for the first time or what is the best message you've received from someone?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

It's really not difficult:

Read the profile.

Read the profile again.

If there's anything that you're not a match for, don't message.

Say hello, say a bit about yourself.

Comment on, or ask about, something from the profile to show you've read it.

Include an "open" question or two so the recipient can actually reply.

(Bry)

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By *gentJMan
over a year ago

East Lancashire


"It's really not difficult:

Read the profile.

Read the profile again.

If there's anything that you're not a match for, don't message.

Say hello, say a bit about yourself.

Comment on, or ask about, something from the profile to show you've read it.

Include an "open" question or two so the recipient can actually reply.

(Bry)"

All of this. Just like you would speaking in person.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Be nice, read the profile, and don’t send a photo of your penis…

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By *atermelodyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Honestly I feel like if a woman or a couple like your profile, then they like you! Regardless of how much effort you put in your first message lol.

Don't overthink it too much. Obviously don't just send "Hi" or "wanna fuck" or cock pics...unless of course they're asking for it

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Always read a profile and try to refer to something in it ,so the recipient can tell it's been read.

A bit of humour helps too.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

It's keeping up the conversation to actually get the meet I notice most men struggle with. One nice message is easy to do

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"Hello just here asking for tips for messaging people for the first time or what is the best message you've received from someone?"

Be realistic in who you message.

It's fine sending a simple compliment to a person the other end of the company as long as that's all it is.

But I have already lost count today of the number of smokers living miles away who think they'd be my ideal fwb

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Be nice, read the profile, and don’t send a photo of your penis…"

So i wont get the obligatory hi followed by 4 dick pics?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Basically just remember everyone is human so message same way you would if you met someone at the bar or at a bus stop or anywhere else. Without any expectations then see where the messages lead (be creative)

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By *4G-GBBukCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Just keep it simple. “Hi u ok doin anything” and then attached 25 pictures of your penis.

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