FabSwingers.com forum: Advice on 3somes

By *milyJoCool OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Hi - we've joined as a couple here as we thought people here might be able to offer us some advice/help/point us in the right direction.

After some "playtalk", Hubs is interested in a M/F/F 3some. Wife is happy for him to fulfill this, but doesn't want to be part of it. We both would want this to be something that took place in a comfortable (but not familiar) environment, but neither of us have any idea how we would even start looking for participants. We wondered if this was the right place to be, and if not whether anyone here could at least point us in the right direction of who to approach and how?

Thanks!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you looking for two women to join your husband? Or you and another woman but you aren't involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi - we've joined as a couple here as we thought people here might be able to offer us some advice/help/point us in the right direction.

Thanks!"

I doubt you will find 2 X willing females on Fab to be a "present" for your male half.

It is extremely unlikely.

A club would be a better option...

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

It's hard to get one lady to join a couple let alone two to play with the male alone

Honestly if you want to fulfil this, especially as you call it a present, I think the best way to do so would be to pay for two ladies to join him

We aren't allowed to name other sites but there's a big one we're this would be relatively simple to arrange

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By *ukkakelovingwifeWoman
over a year ago

twickenham

I’m always dubious when it’s a couples profile and only looking for the male to meet

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

"I’m always dubious when it’s a couples profile and only looking for the male to meet"

MMmm, and it seems a very strange dynamic to not want to even watch, there's no way in hell a mff meet will ever happen in this scenario when it's next to impossible for genuine couples to even find an extra female to join them.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"I’m always dubious when it’s a couples profile and only looking for the male to meet

It does happen for a couple to be real but man to go off to play alone with a female and other way around with female going off to play with others without any watching. However, agreed no way in hell this scenario is going to happen. Well perhaps if been around a while, pics, veris, lots of contacts from meets, know a network of people and hope somehow the stars align.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck, you’ll need it.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"Good luck, you’ll need it. "

Deffo, most couples are after ffm and many single males too .

With no public pics at all you'll struggle to get interest & it's hard enough it appears to get one fem never mind 2.

Will the lady of the couple be there or not ? If so will she just watch .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please do correct me if I’m wrong, but what I take away from that is that it would just be your husband looking to try and meet two other women for a threesome. Just be aware that that puts his in the same pool of profiles as the many single guys here and may be a very difficult thing to organise. Perhaps a club environment might be more successful for him ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably best making a single male account imo

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Most would assume it's a fake account if only the male meeting from a couples account.

If the Mrs isn't meeting you might as well have a single guy account.

Meeting from a couples account alone will severely hinder your chances

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Also no pics means you've got absolutely no chance of this happening.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

As has already been mentioned - bite the bullet and pay for it.

Or .. play the long game and get yourselves to your local social. Go every week/fortnight/month and become regulars. Join in with everything, be sociable, get known. Eventually you'll have a circle of friends large enough to *maybe* pull this off. I'd say give it two years.

(Bry)

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

My advice is to not fall for the fallacy that fanny will lure more fanny

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

"My advice is to not fall for the fallacy that fanny will lure more fanny"

You know how to shatter dreams

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

M F F threesomes are a dream come true but M M F threesomes are more likely and just as sexy

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've lost count over the years of how many messages I've gotten from either single women's accounts or couples accounts asking me to be a "present" for their partner. And the answer is always not a bloody chance in hell.Because I rarely if ever believe it's a genuine and just think 99 per cent of the time it's a man sending the message and why would I want to be a present for man anyhow just to fulfil his fantasy. And if it's genuinely a woman posting it I think she has a cheek expecting me to fuck her guy just because she fancies him and thinks I should jump at the chance of it happening because she thinks it's a great idea.I am not on here to be others plaything. So not it's not something I would do on here. And to be fair if that's why you have a couple's account and a pretty basic one that isn't going to draw anyone in I think you are going to really struggle on here. He is better off setting up a single male account but ye are looking for the most sought after thing on here and even well veried couples and singles struggle to find this on here. Like others have said maybe a club might be be a better approach.

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By *oupleSouthEast69Couple
over a year ago

brighton

Finding a genuine woman for a FFM is challenging enough for most couples. Part of the appeal of swinging is the dynamic between couples. Playing with two people who have just met is completely different (and less fun) than playing with a couple who are really into each other. Looking for two random women to fuck your husband is like looking for the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow. This is a swinging site, not a site for p*********** without paying for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

As in your profile your account has been set up solely to arrange a threesome with two ladies for the male part. Therefore really should be a single man's profile as the lady of the couple is not looking to meet or join in.

As everyone else has said, the chances of this happening on this site are very very low.

There has been great suggestions of how to achieve it elsewhere. Good luck and I hope you find what you're looking for.

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By *milyJoCool OP Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Thanks for the replies all - just to clarify we are a genuine couple (and have been verified obviously by the admin in order to post) but it would just be my hubs who would be looking to participate. As I said in the post - this is something that he is interested in doing, but not me. Sorry if me being supportive of my hubs trying something out in our relationship came across as anything else! We were just looking for genuine advice and help so we'll take the suggestions about looking for a club and go elsewhere to find help.

To be honest - this has been scary enough for me to do without being accused of being a single male just covering as a couple to look for sex!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Thanks for the replies all - just to clarify we are a genuine couple (and have been verified obviously by the admin in order to post) but it would just be my hubs who would be looking to participate. As I said in the post - this is something that he is interested in doing, but not me. Sorry if me being supportive of my hubs trying something out in our relationship came across as anything else! We were just looking for genuine advice and help so we'll take the suggestions about looking for a club and go elsewhere to find help.

To be honest - this has been scary enough for me to do without being accused of being a single male just covering as a couple to look for sex!"

There was nothing wrong in what you posted

My husband and I have a couples and solo profiles and I also have no interest in watching him with other women I don't enjoy watching anyone have sex

The issue you have is that you want what everyone else wants but you want it x 2

Most people on here are looking for the elusive single female, couples, single guys, other single women

Men & couples outnumber women 100-1 meaning every women needs to meet twice a week for every guy to get one meet a year & your after 2 women on one night, statistically it's just not gonna happen

My husband and I have had our couples profile 6 years and never met a single lady, they don't want to be someone's plaything and rightly so

As others have said a clubs a possibility but again the odds are low, single guys in clubs are ten a penny, you husband would really need to stand out, attend regularly to get one lady interested let alone two at the same time

Hence my original comment that the easiest way to achieve this is to pay for it, I've done it when I had a fantasy in my head that I knew I wouldn't easily achieve here

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

To be honest - this has been scary enough for me to do without being accused of being a single male just covering as a couple to look for sex!"

Unfortunately though, because this is quite a common tactic, that is what a lot of people's first reaction will be.

The simple way to get round this would be to visit clubs and organised socials.

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By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn

"Most would assume it's a fake account if only the male meeting from a couples account.

If the Mrs isn't meeting you might as well have a single guy account.

Meeting from a couples account alone will severely hinder your chances "

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