FabSwingers.com forum: Maybe foolish

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So not sure this is often done but I’m genuinely interested does my profile come across as making too many demands and not fun enough?

It’s my third time here and definitely have a better grasp on what I want but maybe it’s too “moody”?

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By *inkycarolineTV/TS
over a year ago

Kilwinning

Looks good to me. You've laid out a few ground rules and any one will be well aware of your situation. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So not sure this is often done but I’m genuinely interested does my profile come across as making too many demands and not fun enough?

It’s my third time here and definitely have a better grasp on what I want but maybe it’s too “moody”?"

The first half is grumpy and negative. The rest seems happier but I didn't read much of that as the grumps put me off.

Your target audience (who you are fed up of) won't read it.

The decent people will likely be turned off and click off before the happy stuff.

Negativity can actually attract negativity. Some people love to wind people up and you've given them examples of what will piss you off.

It's entirely up to you how you have your profile though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So not sure this is often done but I’m genuinely interested does my profile come across as making too many demands and not fun enough?

It’s my third time here and definitely have a better grasp on what I want but maybe it’s too “moody”?

The first half is grumpy and negative. The rest seems happier but I didn't read much of that as the grumps put me off.

Your target audience (who you are fed up of) won't read it.

The decent people will likely be turned off and click off before the happy stuff.

Negativity can actually attract negativity. Some people love to wind people up and you've given them examples of what will piss you off.

It's entirely up to you how you have your profile though.

Thank you and that’s a very valid point actually. I’m not actually a grumpy person!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you and changes it up a bit

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Completely off the point, but can I ask where you got the purple knickers in your photos from?

Alice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So not sure this is often done but I’m genuinely interested does my profile come across as making too many demands and not fun enough?

It’s my third time here and definitely have a better grasp on what I want but maybe it’s too “moody”?

The first half is grumpy and negative. The rest seems happier but I didn't read much of that as the grumps put me off.

Your target audience (who you are fed up of) won't read it.

The decent people will likely be turned off and click off before the happy stuff.

Negativity can actually attract negativity. Some people love to wind people up and you've given them examples of what will piss you off.

It's entirely up to you how you have your profile though.

Thank you and that’s a very valid point actually. I’m not actually a grumpy person!!"

I like the refresh. Positive.

Just one thing, if you untick Men in your Looking for list it takes you off the searches if you don't want to meet men.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So not sure this is often done but I’m genuinely interested does my profile come across as making too many demands and not fun enough?

It’s my third time here and definitely have a better grasp on what I want but maybe it’s too “moody”?

The first half is grumpy and negative. The rest seems happier but I didn't read much of that as the grumps put me off.

Your target audience (who you are fed up of) won't read it.

The decent people will likely be turned off and click off before the happy stuff.

Negativity can actually attract negativity. Some people love to wind people up and you've given them examples of what will piss you off.

It's entirely up to you how you have your profile though.

Thank you and that’s a very valid point actually. I’m not actually a grumpy person!!

I like the refresh. Positive.

Just one thing, if you untick Men in your Looking for list it takes you off the searches if you don't want to meet men.

Perfect thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Completely off the point, but can I ask where you got the purple knickers in your photos from?

Alice x"

Yes of course. I got them from what was Debenhams x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It seems very relaxed to me. It perhaps gives away more private personal details than I would be comfortable with, in your position.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"Completely off the point, but can I ask where you got the purple knickers in your photos from?

Alice x

Yes of course. I got them from what was Debenhams x"

Oh, wow. Thanks very much. I'll see if they still have any online.

Thanks again. Alice x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Completely off the point, but can I ask where you got the purple knickers in your photos from?

Alice x

Yes of course. I got them from what was Debenhams x

Oh, wow. Thanks very much. I'll see if they still have any online.

Thanks again. Alice x"

If I find the email receipt I’ll send you the name of them if that’s okay?x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems very relaxed to me. It perhaps gives away more private personal details than I would be comfortable with, in your position. "

Good point.

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