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"I'm the male half of a couple so not your target market, but my notes: Age range: 18-99 sounds desperate and I'm sure you don't want a 99 year old. It's the little details that make a profile. There's a whole paragraph in your text that's not needed - we can see your ginger hair, your height etc is in your profile details already. The rest of it is a bit "meh". Quality over quantity cliché, etc. There's literally hundreds of guys for every single woman on here and unfortunately you just sound like all the others. Finally.....you've been here three months which is nothing at all. Set realistic expectations - most guys won't get a meet all year. All single women (and most of us couples) get so many offers that we don't need to message guys, so don't expect that to happen. Work on how you search for those that you fancy, and who you match what they are looking for, read their profiles and write intro messages that show you're interested in them and not just in sex with them. Most will go unread and deleted, but get the right message to the right person at the right time and good luck Oh....clubs and socials as well. (Bry)" Oh I wish this could be pinned. This is fantastic advice. | |||
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"Btw as others have said, "age rang to 99" lol, desperate or what As I said, you look pleasant enough and if you want an OH, dating site for you " Yet others will see it as a way to show you are not worried about people's ages. | |||
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"OP, you posted an identical thread only 24hrs ago. What happened to the advice people gave you on that one?" lol that one was Profile Review and Advice - this one is Advice and Profile Review | |||
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" lol that one was Profile Review and Advice - this one is Advice and Profile Review " you’re quite right. Similar, not identical! | |||
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"I'm the male half of a couple so not your target market, but my notes: Age range: 18-99 sounds desperate and I'm sure you don't want a 99 year old. It's the little details that make a profile. There's a whole paragraph in your text that's not needed - we can see your ginger hair, your height etc is in your profile details already. The rest of it is a bit "meh". Quality over quantity cliché, etc. There's literally hundreds of guys for every single woman on here and unfortunately you just sound like all the others. Finally.....you've been here three months which is nothing at all. Set realistic expectations - most guys won't get a meet all year. All single women (and most of us couples) get so many offers that we don't need to message guys, so don't expect that to happen. Work on how you search for those that you fancy, and who you match what they are looking for, read their profiles and write intro messages that show you're interested in them and not just in sex with them. Most will go unread and deleted, but get the right message to the right person at the right time and good luck Oh....clubs and socials as well. (Bry)" wow!!! This helps me too. Thank you | |||
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"Appreciate views on mine, lady friend revamped it" Bad form to jump on someone's thread as people start to confuse who advice is for. Best to start your own. (Bry) | |||
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"I'm the male half of a couple so not your target market, but my notes: Age range: 18-99 sounds desperate and I'm sure you don't want a 99 year old. It's the little details that make a profile. There's a whole paragraph in your text that's not needed - we can see your ginger hair, your height etc is in your profile details already. The rest of it is a bit "meh". Quality over quantity cliché, etc. There's literally hundreds of guys for every single woman on here and unfortunately you just sound like all the others. Finally.....you've been here three months which is nothing at all. Set realistic expectations - most guys won't get a meet all year. All single women (and most of us couples) get so many offers that we don't need to message guys, so don't expect that to happen. Work on how you search for those that you fancy, and who you match what they are looking for, read their profiles and write intro messages that show you're interested in them and not just in sex with them. Most will go unread and deleted, but get the right message to the right person at the right time and good luck Oh....clubs and socials as well. (Bry)" Good advice, I'm in a similar situation. Get absolutely no messages or responses. | |||
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" Good advice, I'm in a similar situation. Get absolutely no messages or responses. " FWIW decent profile and reckon you will get somewhere but just takes time and you've only been here 7 weeks. Best of luck. | |||
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" Good advice, I'm in a similar situation. Get absolutely no messages or responses. FWIW decent profile and reckon you will get somewhere but just takes time and you've only been here 7 weeks. Best of luck. " The thing is, I don't know what is a 'decent' profile. | |||
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" Good advice, I'm in a similar situation. Get absolutely no messages or responses. FWIW decent profile and reckon you will get somewhere but just takes time and you've only been here 7 weeks. Best of luck. The thing is, I don't know what is a 'decent' profile. " I mean that your's is a decent profile for somebody new to the site | |||
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"Good advice, I'm in a similar situation. Get absolutely no messages or responses. " Photos. (Bry) | |||
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"Good advice, I'm in a similar situation. Get absolutely no messages or responses. Photos. (Bry)" Have added before but to no avail. Maybe it's just a waiting game. | |||
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"Have added before but to no avail. Maybe it's just a waiting game. " As people have said - women and couples don't need to message (some will, most pick from their inbox) so waiting isn't an answer. (Bry) | |||
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"Have added before but to no avail. Maybe it's just a waiting game. As people have said - women and couples don't need to message (some will, most pick from their inbox) so waiting isn't an answer. (Bry)" I'm stumped then | |||
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"Get real! Thousands of guys…..hundreds of women! What do you expect????" No real expectation, relax. | |||
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"Good advice, I'm in a similar situation. Get absolutely no messages or responses. " There's nothing wrong with your profile. I'd remove the mirror pics (samey, not good quality, don't add anything). Read people's profiles and send a good first message. Ultimately you a small fish is a very big pond. You can't just sit and wait, you have you get out there and stand out. | |||
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"Hi all, I’ve been on this site quite a long time, yet to get my first meet, hardly get any messages. can I ask can you all check my profile out and see give me some much needed advice to get more success off here." I would avoid having age and height on the blurb.. you have to constantly update it whereas the other section updates age automatically. Add some interests.. otherwise no idea what common vibes you are going to connect on | |||
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