FabSwingers.com forum: Advice/opinions required, please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are both straight.

It's a fact that when looking at porn and especially looking for clips to share with L, I often look up massive white cocks ejaculating. Strangely I find them a turn on but never once though of meeting up a gay/bi curious guy.

Even stranger, today, myself and L, I'd found a couple of nice clips where the woman rubbed her pussy in her kickers, knickers off, rubbing, fingering, dildo and creamy pussy. I did this in the hope my wife masturbate even more as she often complains she can't cum. To my pleasant surprise initially I found it a turn on when I asked her if she wanted to watch more of these type videos and she said yes and that really turned me on. I masterbated and came she kept her knickers on. I asked her if she would like a massage from a woman and a pussy one that could teach her a few tricks about cuming herself - she hesitated and said no. We did not discuss further

Thinking about it, yeps I'm not bi certainly but a bit worried if L is bi-curious.

Have any ladies felt like that or couples experience what I have today?

Certainly, only L knows what is in her heart and mind but I'd love your take on it.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I don't see why it's a worry

If she is bi so what, that's for her to discover & explore in her own time

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By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Why are you worried if she is bi-curious?

Ms x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why are you worried if she is bi-curious?

Ms x"

She may want less dildo action from me and have better orgasums than when with me or other guys

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I still don't see the issue, surely you want what's best for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why are you assuming she's bi curious? Her response was no.

Is it just because she hesitated before responding?

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By *lirtymr_mrsCouple
over a year ago

Stockton-on-Tees

"Why are you worried if she is bi-curious?

Ms x

She may want less dildo action from me and have better orgasums than when with me or other guys"

Well it's normal to have that thought, but it's not how it works in reality. If she actually is bi then she is getting an entirely different need met that sits separate from the feelings and needs she has from you.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Why don't you ask her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would it bother you if she was bi curious OP?

I only ask because you seem to be slightly uncomfortable about it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks all. I am uncomfortable but I guess on the positive side I can fuck her harder with our dildo.

Thanks again, all opinions appreciated.

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By *rs mischiefWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

I would say I'm full on bisexual now. Started out straight but as my swinging journey took me and my fella places, I realised that pleasuring both men and women really turns me on. I find myself attracted to women and men equally.

I dont have any plans to leave my fella and no one knows me sexually as much as he does. It's something you are just going to let happen at its own pace.

But you have to trust each other.

Swinging has brought me and Mr Mischief even closer! Something I didn't think possible!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would say I'm full on bisexual now. Started out straight but as my swinging journey took me and my fella places, I realised that pleasuring both men and women really turns me on. I find myself attracted to women and men equally.

I dont have any plans to leave my fella and no one knows me sexually as much as he does. It's something you are just going to let happen at its own pace.

But you have to trust each other.

Swinging has brought me and Mr Mischief even closer! Something I didn't think possible!"

Many thnaks.

She has cheated in the past with a bloke and this is why we stopped. I wrongly assumed having so many big cock would have meant she had no time for cheating.

Thinking about it last night i amy ask her a bit later this monring is she wants a massage by a woman and pussy massage and build on that and in time or the first meet fucked and kissed by another lady who is wearing a strapon.

Thanks to you and others.

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"Thanks all. I am uncomfortable but I guess on the positive side I can fuck her harder with our dildo.

Thanks again, all opinions appreciated."

That’ll do it !

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Go exploring….

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

"Thanks all. I am uncomfortable but I guess on the positive side I can fuck her harder with our dildo.

Thanks again, all opinions appreciated."

So you're own insecurity is now becoming an issue and your response is you can fuck your wife harder with a dildo.

I'm unclear why you think dildo /bi have to go together

Maybe your wife hesitated because she either knows how you're reacting or

Actually hadn't considered it and your afternoon TV action surprised her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s 2 things here - she’s bi and enjoyed watching or, maybe more obviously, she’s picturing herself as the woman in the video. That’s why it’s a turn on.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Has she ever shown signs of being attracted to women op ? People seem to assume that all women are secretly bi & some of us genuinely aren't .

As the poster above said she could he imagining herself being/ doing it .

Just ask her outright if she has thought about exploring with another woman or not.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There are people consider themselves straight but have some same gender interaction, with never finding the same gender attractive. Starting bi play does sometimes help to uncover some interests. Who'd have any issues with someone understanding themselves better?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just read the new messages, thanks all digested/etc.

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Good to know thatthere are interesting people nearby!

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Why does being bi mean she needs harder dildo fucking ?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

For me it's all about communication which you guys seem to be lacking, you can't admit to liking a sexual act done together then I'm unsure how you could approach the conversation with her to be honest.

End of the day just ask her, what's the worst that can happen, she says no.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why does being bi mean she needs harder dildo fucking ?"

I’m puzzled by that too. Wheres the connection?

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

Oh dear the old agonising as to labels....

Sex is a continium of actual and potential pleasure, visual, physical and emotional. If something is mutually enjoyable indulge yourselves or if on your own,enjoy yourself.

Don't let labels constrain your pleasure.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Sorry but I find no pleasure in being fucked hard by a dildo. It can actually be quite painful.

What’s wrong with your cock OP? Let your OH explore for herself, she doesn’t need you telling her what to do. If anything, you’ll push her away. I find your attitude rather controlling.

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