FabSwingers.com forum: Couples but not a couple club entry help

By *tan38 OP Man
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Suggestions please

I have a female friend who is an open marriage and has asked me to take her to a club that we’ve both not been to before. She’s only been to one club once xtasia and I’ve been to Clubplay, evolution, amigos and club 29 all of which have pretty standard entry requirements for a single guy or a couple and some of the clubs we have looked at require a bit more form filling out…

Normally that would be fine but we’re aren’t actually a couple and don’t want to register as one in the off chance she ever goes back with her husband…

Anyways any suggestions please as to clubs where I can just rock up with a female partner or at least give them a call with a name to go on the door or even on fab ??

Any help gratefully received

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

I go with a girl whos a workmate.. we just go clubs as a couple.. nobody asks any questions so go for it..

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By *tan38 OP Man
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Ah ok so it’s case of overthinking I reckon then from both of us I’m guessing

Which clubs have you attended your female friend?

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

"Ah ok so it’s case of overthinking I reckon then from both of us I’m guessing

Which clubs have you attended your female friend?"

We are in the north west and regularly attend No3 in Chorley and visited Partners in Bury

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By *tan38 OP Man
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

Thanks

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By *en_Dover79Man
over a year ago

Oswaldtwistle

"Thanks"

good luck.. I am sure you will both enjoy a fun night whenever you go

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Why not just each register as singles, then she could always go with her husband at a later date if she wishes

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why not just each register as singles, then she could always go with her husband at a later date if she wishes "

Some clubs require couples membership. But there's usually nothing wrong with two singles registering as a couple so long as they behave as one when in the club.

The simple answer is to contact the club you're thinking of visiting and asking the question as they'll have their own policy.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Why not just each register as singles, then she could always go with her husband at a later date if she wishes

Some clubs require couples membership. But there's usually nothing wrong with two singles registering as a couple so long as they behave as one when in the club.

The simple answer is to contact the club you're thinking of visiting and asking the question as they'll have their own policy.

I know every club will have different rules but I thought that was often only to obtain couples entry and stop people going in with different partners each week

If it's not something they intend to do regularly they could enter as singles presuming of course single guys are allowed in on the nights they want to attend

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Depends which clubs you go to.

Some you can couple up with anyone, club play, Cupids, attic.

Others you have to be a member and your “partner” is now your official latter as such- Townhouse and chams (I believe).

Just message the hosts or club sites and find out which is their policy

If you enjoy a club which is a little stricter it’s worth being sure of their rules to not chance your membership. Xx

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why not just each register as singles, then she could always go with her husband at a later date if she wishes

Some clubs require couples membership. But there's usually nothing wrong with two singles registering as a couple so long as they behave as one when in the club.

The simple answer is to contact the club you're thinking of visiting and asking the question as they'll have their own policy.

I know every club will have different rules but I thought that was often only to obtain couples entry and stop people going in with different partners each week

If it's not something they intend to do regularly they could enter as singles presuming of course single guys are allowed in on the nights they want to attend "

Yep. That would work for mixed nights. But couples night at some clubs require membership and you join as a couple, whether you are or not, and yes, it's largely to stop people going with different people each week and using couples entry to get in for a reduced cost to a single male and female.

I know plenty of 'non-couples' that go to clubs. They either visit on unrestricted mixed nights as singles or set up a specific couples profile. Many clubs have lifetime membership for couples for anything from £5-20 so it's hardly a huge expense.

I'm always wary of clubs that don't require proof of ID and membership as that's a good policy in terms of member safety and security.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Suggestions please

Normally that would be fine but we’re aren’t actually a couple and don’t want to register as one in the off chance she ever goes back with her husband…

Anyways any suggestions please as to clubs where I can just rock up with a female partner or at least give them a call with a name to go on the door or even on fab ??

Any help gratefully received "

If she's in an open marriage then surely hubby wouldn't mind?

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

You can have multiple couples memberships at clubs that require couples to be members for the couples only nights , well you can at chams anyway ...they won't mind if the lady has another couples membership with her husband ..

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By *bwlady123Woman
over a year ago

private

Could always try going on an event night where you don’t need a membership or some clubs will let you go in once on a guess list without membership

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

“Hi club. I want to attend with a partner of mine, however, we’re not a monogamous couple and she’s married to someone else (that she might attend with in the future,) Is it easier for you if we get a couples membership or come as two singles? Can someone have more than one couple membership?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

The Attic in Derby is not far from you. No membership required, just turn up as a couple, pay and walk in.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

"Could always try going on an event night where you don’t need a membership or some clubs will let you go in once on a guess list without membership "

This

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

"“Hi club. I want to attend with a partner of mine, however, we’re not a monogamous couple and she’s married to someone else (that she might attend with in the future,) Is it easier for you if we get a couples membership or come as two singles? Can someone have more than one couple membership?"

Yes...I have several at chams

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not just each register as singles, then she could always go with her husband at a later date if she wishes

Some clubs require couples membership. But there's usually nothing wrong with two singles registering as a couple so long as they behave as one when in the club.

The simple answer is to contact the club you're thinking of visiting and asking the question as they'll have their own policy.

Out of interest how are you supposed to behave as a couple in a club? I go with my wife as well as on my own but I always behave the same way whether my wife is there or not

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Why not just each register as singles, then she could always go with her husband at a later date if she wishes

Some clubs require couples membership. But there's usually nothing wrong with two singles registering as a couple so long as they behave as one when in the club.

The simple answer is to contact the club you're thinking of visiting and asking the question as they'll have their own policy.

Out of interest how are you supposed to behave as a couple in a club? I go with my wife as well as on my own but I always behave the same way whether my wife is there or not"

It's not unknown for two singles to 'couple upto get in and then separate for the night, essentially meaning a single guy could attend on a couples only night.

Of course in theory it's not impossible for a married couple to do the same, but it's rare that they'd spend the whole night apart.

But that's usually the logic.

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