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By *arried Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newark

How far in advance do you like to put meets in the diary? Particularly if for the first time?

Mrs doesn't always appreciate getting home from work to a quick turn around, she'd rather know by lunchtime at least.

Any thoughts?

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We can't do more than three weeks ahead because I only get my work rotas that far, but we try and aim for a week ahead as that gives Char time to schedule in rest time before and after a meet.

(Bry)

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We have to try a book it in a good 2 months in advance at least as our choice of hotel has cottoned on to what's happening nearby and they've started to jack the prices up.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’ve got a meet pencilled in for 2024

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

For us a good couple of days notice at least, the more the better. On the other hand we have been let down many times so same night would have been good lol

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

It depends if I'm recently showered, hair done etc I could meet within half an hour

But usually I probably plan them in the afternoon for that evening

I find anything more they tend to mess you about, change the time half a dozen times or want entertaining with wank chat & I'd rather be meeting than messaging

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"It depends if I'm recently showered, hair done etc I could meet within half an hour

But usually I probably plan them in the afternoon for that evening

I find anything more they tend to mess you about, change the time half a dozen times or want entertaining with wank chat & I'd rather be meeting than messaging "

My experiences are similar.

I'm happy to provisionally pencil something in but often it's s hassle.

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By *uddlesXXXCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield area

Had a meet planned for around 3 weeks or so, it happened, fantastic evening. Can't plan anything much sooner than a week or 2 in advance, we have a young family and have to arrange childcare, and grandparents will start asking questions if suddenly we need childcare every weekend

Second meet we'd been chatting for a few weeks, and had planned a social a week in advance. Be a few more weeks before things can progress, but the tension. Is unreal and will be well worth the wait when the time comes!!

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By *oe n JayCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Up to 5 weeks. something to look forward to

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By *arleycplCouple
over a year ago

Leyburn

a couple of days, unless I (Marie) is feeling very horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

minutes - if we have had a glass or two, I put a message on our status and try to get it all done within an hour or two

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By *arried Explorers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newark

Thanks folks, some interesting perspectives and varied experiences.

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

never plan over aweek ahead unless planning for a club ... and most meets are plucked out of the air or spontaneous .. havent dont long term meets in years as they were always the let down ..

easy for me as most are regular fun

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Had a meet planned for around 3 weeks or so, it happened, fantastic evening. Can't plan anything much sooner than a week or 2 in advance, we have a young family and have to arrange childcare, and grandparents will start asking questions if suddenly we need childcare every weekend

Second meet we'd been chatting for a few weeks, and had planned a social a week in advance. Be a few more weeks before things can progress, but the tension. Is unreal and will be well worth the wait when the time comes!! "

Childcare is our problem. As you we cannot ask to often otherwise grandparents will be asking to many questions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We plan a date well in advance but usually leave arranging the actual meet until 45 days before. We find the longer between arranging and the actual meet the less likely it is to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We plan a date well in advance but usually leave arranging the actual meet until 45 days before. We find the longer between arranging and the actual meet the less likely it is to happen."

4-5 days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve found that planning more than a few days in advance generally leads to a loss of interest from a lot of single guys.

Set up a social for in a day or two and then a hotel meet a day or two after that.

Different strokes and all though.

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