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"I went to verify a person earlier but couldn't because I'm not verified , the other person isn't verified so he couldn't verify me, so obviously we're still not verified, so do you stay un verified until someone you meet is verified that can verify you?" In a word Yes | |||
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"I went to verify a person earlier but couldn't because I'm not verified , the other person isn't verified so he couldn't verify me, so obviously we're still not verified, so do you stay un verified until someone you meet is verified that can verify you?" You could go on cam and get cam verified... | |||
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"Cam verification means absolutely nothing." Maybe too some but not everyone just like everyone has a different preference | |||
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"Cam verification means absolutely nothing. Maybe too some but not everyone just like everyone has a different preference " ^^^^^^^he knows his onions. T | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ?" You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. | |||
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"To _iss lovely et al, Please understand that safety and mutual respect for each other is obviously and totally utmost, however this should not require third party ‘approval’ by strangers on this site. My point was my now friend and play mate was negotiated between us and included a safe social meeting etc., however we are both still seen as alien to others because our liaison was not with someone who is verified. Why do either of us need to be ‘verified’ by some third party in order to be acceptable to others?" Get cam verified, then you can verify your new friend and then she can verify you. Happy New Year! | |||
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"OK myself and the lovely lady I met on here and with whom I have just had the best time ever, are both unverified but spent 6 hours of total extacy in bed together can't verify each other as neither verified. Who verified the first person on here? What credibility is there on a cam view?" If she's into swinging, then she will have absolutely no trouble getting verified on here. She can then verify you. | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. " How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified " Easiest way is to go to a club, we’ve all got to start somewhere. | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ?" Going to clubs…. Going to organised socials…. 2 of the more simple ways of getting yourself verified…. | |||
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"OK myself and the lovely lady I met on here and with whom I have just had the best time ever, are both unverified but spent 6 hours of total extacy in bed together can't verify each other as neither verified. Who verified the first person on here? What credibility is there on a cam view?" __ The credibility is not whether webcam or in person. I would not verify you unless I see your face and what I see matches your profile description. A webcam and a 5 minute chat is good enough for that purpose. What credibility is on your word or my own word? For all we know, you might be making it up about your six hour ecstasy encounter and being another bloke who opens two profiles to verify one another. The point of verifications is for one genuine user to verify that another user is genuinely who they say they are. It's not a TripAdvisor review of sexual prowess and performance. Meet a verified person for a social, or on webcam and they can verify you. Go to a social. Go to a club and many club owners will verify you, or people you meet there. Or don't do it. Simply be ready to show evidence to prospect play partners that you are who you say you are, if they care to ask about it. Thousands of genuine men here don't have any veris and are doing well. If you are genuine, you will be fine. | |||
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"OK myself and the lovely lady I met on here and with whom I have just had the best time ever, are both unverified but spent 6 hours of total extacy in bed together can't verify each other as neither verified. Who verified the first person on here? What credibility is there on a cam view? __ The credibility is not whether webcam or in person. I would not verify you unless I see your face and what I see matches your profile description. A webcam and a 5 minute chat is good enough for that purpose. What credibility is on your word or my own word? For all we know, you might be making it up about your six hour ecstasy encounter and being another bloke who opens two profiles to verify one another. The point of verifications is for one genuine user to verify that another user is genuinely who they say they are. It's not a TripAdvisor review of sexual prowess and performance. Meet a verified person for a social, or on webcam and they can verify you. Go to a social. Go to a club and many club owners will verify you, or people you meet there. Or don't do it. Simply be ready to show evidence to prospect play partners that you are who you say you are, if they care to ask about it. Thousands of genuine men here don't have any veris and are doing well. If you are genuine, you will be fine." Remind me not to get in an argument with you :-0 lol x | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified " __ There's verified and "Fab-verified". We would meet people that are not "Fab-verified" if we exchange proof that we are who we say we are. Video call, request-photo, etc., so many ways to prove that you are genuine without a Fab verification. Some people will still insist in Fab verifications but many don't care, as long as they feel safe and feel the profile they are talking to is not a time-waster/fake. | |||
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"OK myself and the lovely lady I met on here and with whom I have just had the best time ever, are both unverified but spent 6 hours of total extacy in bed together can't verify each other as neither verified. Who verified the first person on here? What credibility is there on a cam view? __ The credibility is not whether webcam or in person. I would not verify you unless I see your face and what I see matches your profile description. A webcam and a 5 minute chat is good enough for that purpose. What credibility is on your word or my own word? For all we know, you might be making it up about your six hour ecstasy encounter and being another bloke who opens two profiles to verify one another. The point of verifications is for one genuine user to verify that another user is genuinely who they say they are. It's not a TripAdvisor review of sexual prowess and performance. Meet a verified person for a social, or on webcam and they can verify you. Go to a social. Go to a club and many club owners will verify you, or people you meet there. Or don't do it. Simply be ready to show evidence to prospect play partners that you are who you say you are, if they care to ask about it. Thousands of genuine men here don't have any veris and are doing well. If you are genuine, you will be fine. Remind me not to get in an argument with you :-0 lol x " __ Looking at your profile and a few of your posts in the forums, I very much doubt that I would get into any argument with you. The other way around, it's possible, sometimes I am judgemental with things people say or the way they say it. I am definitely not Fab moderator material, lol   | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified " Go to a club/social. Or arrange to meet someone for a social. | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified Go to a club/social. Or arrange to meet someone for a social. " I have been hoping and trying to find soneone interested in a one on one public social for a year and a half I've been on here, but sadly it seems people are only interested in group socials or clubs. | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified Go to a club/social. Or arrange to meet someone for a social. I have been hoping and trying to find soneone interested in a one on one public social for a year and a half I've been on here, but sadly it seems people are only interested in group socials or clubs. " Hi pal You need to try and use all the options available and keep at it until | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified Go to a club/social. Or arrange to meet someone for a social. I have been hoping and trying to find soneone interested in a one on one public social for a year and a half I've been on here, but sadly it seems people are only interested in group socials or clubs. Hi pal You need to try and use all the options available and keep at it until " I do use all the options available, but sadly no luck what so ever . Happy new year mate . | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified Go to a club/social. Or arrange to meet someone for a social. I have been hoping and trying to find soneone interested in a one on one public social for a year and a half I've been on here, but sadly it seems people are only interested in group socials or clubs. Hi pal You need to try and use all the options available and keep at it until I do use all the options available, but sadly no luck what so ever . Happy new year mate . " No one at a club visit would veri you? Not even the owner/host? | |||
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"Ok the site guidance on meets is “ * Meeting new accounts without verification is more risky more likely to lead to disappointment.” So if you are a new account how the hell do you get verified I’d if the site is basically saying don’t meet anyone who isn’t verified ? You can meet who you like, it’s just more risky meeting people who haven’t been verified as no one can vouch for them. If I had the choice of meeting someone with 10 excellent veris that showed they were reliable and cool or someone who wasn’t verified I’d pick the veri’d person, it’s just how it goes here. You can easily get veri’d by meeting someone who is. It’s not impossible. Everyone was new here once. How do you meet someone ,when no one will meet unverified people. ? And I'm not new on here ,I've been a member for a year and a half, but still not meet verified Go to a club/social. Or arrange to meet someone for a social. I have been hoping and trying to find soneone interested in a one on one public social for a year and a half I've been on here, but sadly it seems people are only interested in group socials or clubs. Hi pal You need to try and use all the options available and keep at it until I do use all the options available, but sadly no luck what so ever . Happy new year mate . No one at a club visit would veri you? Not even the owner/host? " Never been to a club, its not something that appeals to me . | |||
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