FabSwingers.com forum: Why do I never get replys?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me I'm a genuine normal guy just looking for nsa fun? Any feedback will be appreciated thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's because you have a Braille profile

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Given that you’re verified by meeting, that’s a lot more than many achieve.

Just exercise a little patience and accept that you can’t appeal to everyone. Women get inundated with messages as soon as they set up their profiles so getting yourself noticed is a bit of a lottery.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Discretion is a must" and "can't accommodate" are warning signs of an attached person which a lot of swingers avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get used to it. Many messages are not even read let alone replied to which considering the levels of complaints from women on here getting abuse or aggressive messages from men is not surprising but a tad frustrating for the decent well mannered chaps who have small egos and big esteem. Keep plugging and don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get used to it. Many messages are not even read let alone replied to which considering the levels of complaints from women on here getting abuse or aggressive messages from men is not surprising but a tad frustrating for the decent well mannered chaps who have small egos and big esteem.

Keep plugging and don't worry."

Most people read your profile first when you send messages. If your profile doesn't grab their attention your message is not getting read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh it comes across like you thought you’d join the site and find instant sex.

Rarely happens.

You’re one of thousands on here.

Maybe start with your profile and pics.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me I'm a genuine normal guy just looking for nsa fun? Any feedback will be appreciated thankyou"

You and thousands of others. Sounds like your attached which will put most women off.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me "

Maybe change your profile pic to one without an emoji

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You're experiencing the fuss your friend told you about!

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

Without an example of a message you've sent, how can we offer any advice on getting replies? The recipient might not even be getting as far as looking at your profile for all we know.

(Bry)

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

If it helps I’ve opened and read this thread!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it helps I’ve opened and read this thread!

Savage

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"If it helps I’ve opened and read this thread!

Savage

Only joshing!

Good luck OP, keep at it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be the algorithms... Lol

Certainly tinder is fixed, they delay or delete matches and messages from you to encourage you to pay for gold or boost or some shit. It is absolutely loaded with fake profiles, instawanabe models 'influencers', absolutely stunning girls, all of which have boyfriends taking the pictures with zero intention of any chat with you, but encourage you to 'follow' them on some other app for money or ad revenue etc etc .. but zero chat or engagement.. modern life #fakeasfxck

Makes folk like me cynical as fxck

Lol .. but what do you expect ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh sorry .. do you mean replies on here ?? Does that actually happen ??

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

You're not alone

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

Your photos are not appealing in the slightest.

You say you’re looking for “fun” so many women (me included) find that little word a turnoff.

Like a previous poster said, it seemed like you’re looking for instant sex on here and it is not that easy….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it helps I’ve opened and read this thread!

Savage

Only joshing!

I know, so was I

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By *arrah Corset Jane FondleCouple
over a year ago

worcester

"Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me I'm a genuine normal guy just looking for nsa fun? Any feedback will be appreciated thankyou"

You wear your socks with sliders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me I'm a genuine normal guy just looking for nsa fun? Any feedback will be appreciated thankyou"

Because your a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know where I'm going wrong? Someone help me I'm a genuine normal guy just looking for nsa fun? Any feedback will be appreciated thankyou"

It's your choice, but if you feel up to it, I'd personally show your face on the normal pics.

Maybe try it for a few days and see how you feel

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