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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews

Hi everyone,

We're trying to organise a small group for next week.

We have an apartment booked, and I'm wondering what sort of things I need to keep in mind.

I've already said it's BYOB, and that condoms & lube will be provided. What else do I need to keep in mind?

Thanks!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

that people respect the property that you have rented and likely paid a deposit against.

Have a great time, I am sure it will be success.

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews

Hope so, and thanks.

Is there anything else I should provide?

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"Hope so, and thanks.

Is there anything else I should provide? "

are you sleeping there, if so maybe keep a room that is yours and not for play to allow you to sleep in a fresh bed or ask for extra bedding..

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

and maybe let people know where they can play or not.

open rooms and closed rooms

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Soft drinks (aldi and lidl are great for individual bottles of water and pop).

Mints - just in case.

Wet wipes/tissues.

Towels - if the apartment sleeps 4 they will supply 4, if some people come from work or from places other than directly from home they will probably want a shower.

Don't forget shower gel and a can of deodorant - most people prefer to be fresh for you and if you supply it will use it. It's also handy for between sessions.

If you like a cup of tea or coffee then take a pint ofmilk! The apartment will probably have a tea tray like hotels do, but like hotels there will only be 4 pots of uht milk.

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews

Those are all great, thanks guys

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By *insfordcoupleCouple
over a year ago

winsford cheshire

Chewing gum or mints.

extra glasses for booze,

camera and extra batteries for toys x

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews

Jeebus, I'm going to need a truck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus remember not everyone will turn up as they say so over invite or you may end up not having enough people

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews


"Plus remember not everyone will turn up as they say so over invite or you may end up not having enough people"

I'd had that thought too. At the moment it's mainly single blokes that are replying, and we really want some ladies too. Bit concerned I'll end up being the only female!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus remember not everyone will turn up as they say so over invite or you may end up not having enough people

I'd had that thought too. At the moment it's mainly single blokes that are replying, and we really want some ladies too. Bit concerned I'll end up being the only female!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus remember not everyone will turn up as they say so over invite or you may end up not having enough people

I'd had that thought too. At the moment it's mainly single blokes that are replying, and we really want some ladies too. Bit concerned I'll end up being the only female!"

try inviting some couples, single ladies are unlikely to go if they dont know who they are meeting

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews


"Plus remember not everyone will turn up as they say so over invite or you may end up not having enough people

I'd had that thought too. At the moment it's mainly single blokes that are replying, and we really want some ladies too. Bit concerned I'll end up being the only female!

try inviting some couples, single ladies are unlikely to go if they dont know who they are meeting"

I have, only had a couple maybes, nothing concrete yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't assume the hotel will by default furnish the basic hospitality essentials (towels, tea coffee, soaps, hairdryer etc...) as they might be out of stock/in laundry or completely broken by the last room occupants that day and the hotel could leave you high and dry without them. We had this with one hotel in Notts a few years back and were seething by the time we left, vowing never to return!!!!

Allow for Murphy and you'll be fine

Have a good one!

Wolf

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews


"Don't assume the hotel will by default furnish the basic hospitality essentials (towels, tea coffee, soaps, hairdryer etc...) as they might be out of stock/in laundry or completely broken by the last room occupants that day and the hotel could leave you high and dry without them. We had this with one hotel in Notts a few years back and were seething by the time we left, vowing never to return!!!!

Allow for Murphy and you'll be fine

Have a good one!

Wolf

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Great, thanks. I'll be getting there early to check things out and stock up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plus remember not everyone will turn up as they say so over invite or you may end up not having enough people

I'd had that thought too. At the moment it's mainly single blokes that are replying, and we really want some ladies too. Bit concerned I'll end up being the only female!

try inviting some couples, single ladies are unlikely to go if they dont know who they are meeting

I have, only had a couple maybes, nothing concrete yet "

Silly thought but you have advertised this and who you want in the 'Meets' section haven't you? Just checking!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

And remember to be there yourself...What if you don't turn up at your own party???

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews


"Plus remember not everyone will turn up as they say so over invite or you may end up not having enough people

I'd had that thought too. At the moment it's mainly single blokes that are replying, and we really want some ladies too. Bit concerned I'll end up being the only female!

try inviting some couples, single ladies are unlikely to go if they dont know who they are meeting

I have, only had a couple maybes, nothing concrete yet

Silly thought but you have advertised this and who you want in the 'Meets' section haven't you? Just checking!"

Lol, yes, I have

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews


"And remember to be there yourself...What if you don't turn up at your own party??? "

Good point, well made

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews

This is probably a daft question, but music suggestions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it were me I'd take a cheap (pound shop) shower curtain and put it under the bedsheet... But I can get a bit drenched :-S

Last thing that appeals is a family resting in that bed next time and the mattress scented of fucking and gushes...

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews


"If it were me I'd take a cheap (pound shop) shower curtain and put it under the bedsheet... But I can get a bit drenched :-S

Last thing that appeals is a family resting in that bed next time and the mattress scented of fucking and gushes..."

That's actually a great idea, not something I had considered!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on your female contingent...some of us make a mess and others don't.

If I could come I would have loved to, its great you're putting so much consideration in Xx

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews


"I guess it depends on your female contingent...some of us make a mess and others don't.

If I could come I would have loved to, its great you're putting so much consideration in Xx "

Really nervous! It's a 1 bed flat, so I'm worried about having enough space, but also worried about no one turning up, lol!

Being our first party, I want to be sure I've got everything covered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It'll be a blast and you'll end up being a greedy girl if no couples come! The less room the better in my mind...no point having a party with everyone in private rooms!

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By *oobsandballs OP   Man
over a year ago

st andrews


"It'll be a blast and you'll end up being a greedy girl if no couples come! The less room the better in my mind...no point having a party with everyone in private rooms! "

I want my man to have some fun too, and I'm hoping for my first girl on girl

You're the second person to say that about the space so I guess I should stop worrying about it, lol!

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