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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi me and my hubby want to try Pandora's tomorrow. Is it a good day to go? We have never been to a club or brought anyone into the bedroom before. Any advice? He's straight and I'm bi x

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over a year ago

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Make sure you talk lots about what you'd both like to do and know your boundaries. We've never been to Pandoras but have been on many club nights. Don't go in thinking you're walking into a mass orgy, they're not like that. There's a social area and playrooms for extra fun. Put a status up that you're going to the club, others who are going may message you. It's natural to be nervous, but club nights are great and every night is different. We only played with each other on our first night and we're not the only ones. Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make sure you talk lots about what you'd both like to do and know your boundaries. We've never been to Pandoras but have been on many club nights. Don't go in thinking you're walking into a mass orgy, they're not like that. There's a social area and playrooms for extra fun. Put a status up that you're going to the club, others who are going may message you. It's natural to be nervous, but club nights are great and every night is different. We only played with each other on our first night and we're not the only ones. Have fun "

Hi thanks for replying. I've read a few posts and think we would probably stick to the social areas on the first night. It's a bi night uit I'm the only bi one, he's straight. Do you think that would still be on to attend? Only free night off from the kids so it's not really been planned!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Make sure you talk lots about what you'd both like to do and know your boundaries. We've never been to Pandoras but have been on many club nights. Don't go in thinking you're walking into a mass orgy, they're not like that. There's a social area and playrooms for extra fun. Put a status up that you're going to the club, others who are going may message you. It's natural to be nervous, but club nights are great and every night is different. We only played with each other on our first night and we're not the only ones. Have fun

Hi thanks for replying. I've read a few posts and think we would probably stick to the social areas on the first night. It's a bi night uit I'm the only bi one, he's straight. Do you think that would still be on to attend? Only free night off from the kids so it's not really been planned!"

We don't know about Pandoras Bi night. You could start a thread in the Club Discussion forum titled "Pandoras Bi night" asking for info. When you're there you could ask the club owner to verify you, it'll make your profile look better. Have fun, it looks like a good club and one we've thought of attending.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally, for your first time I would recommend Quest rather than Pandora's. Much smaller and therefore more manageable for a first club visit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally, for your first time I would recommend Quest rather than Pandora's. Much smaller and therefore more manageable for a first club visit. "

It's our first free night without the kids for a long time and request looks like it is shut tonight so it seems this was the only choice. But advice noted thank you ??

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Make sure you talk lots about what you'd both like to do and know your boundaries. We've never been to Pandoras but have been on many club nights. Don't go in thinking you're walking into a mass orgy, they're not like that. There's a social area and playrooms for extra fun. Put a status up that you're going to the club, others who are going may message you. It's natural to be nervous, but club nights are great and every night is different. We only played with each other on our first night and we're not the only ones. Have fun

Hi thanks for replying. I've read a few posts and think we would probably stick to the social areas on the first night. It's a bi night uit I'm the only bi one, he's straight. Do you think that would still be on to attend? Only free night off from the kids so it's not really been planned!

We don't know about Pandoras Bi night. You could start a thread in the Club Discussion forum titled "Pandoras Bi night" asking for info. When you're there you could ask the club owner to verify you, it'll make your profile look better. Have fun, it looks like a good club and one we've thought of attending. "

Thanks, I've found the club profile and messaged them directly ??

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorry I didn't realise Quest is shut the first Thursday evening of the month. I hope you have a great evening at Pandora's. You can stay fully clothed in the bar but if you want to have a look around the playrooms upstairs you need to dress down to towels or underwear.

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By *nked_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Hey guys, pandora is our most frequented club and it was also our first. We've never been on a bi night though but do think it's a great club. We preferred it as our first because it's so big, if things get a little to much you can easily find a quiet place to chill out and regroup. You'll find once you're there though you will relax into it very quickly. Same as you guys we didn't play the first time we went, we just took it all in, we did dress down and explore upstairs but just enjoyed watching and getting turned on.

Feel free to pm if you have any questions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry I didn't realise Quest is shut the first Thursday evening of the month. I hope you have a great evening at Pandora's. You can stay fully clothed in the bar but if you want to have a look around the playrooms upstairs you need to dress down to towels or underwear. "

Yes I did look at quest first to be honest. Thanks for the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys, pandora is our most frequented club and it was also our first. We've never been on a bi night though but do think it's a great club. We preferred it as our first because it's so big, if things get a little to much you can easily find a quiet place to chill out and regroup. You'll find once you're there though you will relax into it very quickly. Same as you guys we didn't play the first time we went, we just took it all in, we did dress down and explore upstairs but just enjoyed watching and getting turned on.

Feel free to pm if you have any questions. "

Thank you do, does it get quite busy then most nights? X

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By *nked_coupleCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Hey guys, pandora is our most frequented club and it was also our first. We've never been on a bi night though but do think it's a great club. We preferred it as our first because it's so big, if things get a little to much you can easily find a quiet place to chill out and regroup. You'll find once you're there though you will relax into it very quickly. Same as you guys we didn't play the first time we went, we just took it all in, we did dress down and explore upstairs but just enjoyed watching and getting turned on.

Feel free to pm if you have any questions.

Thank you do, does it get quite busy then most nights? X"

To be honest, if there's no event night on then it's usually pretty quiet, but like I've said not sure what the bi nights are like. Even if it is busy though it's so big it doesn't feel really busy so won't feel overwhelming if that makes sense. Only on the big party nights does it's feel really busy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys, pandora is our most frequented club and it was also our first. We've never been on a bi night though but do think it's a great club. We preferred it as our first because it's so big, if things get a little to much you can easily find a quiet place to chill out and regroup. You'll find once you're there though you will relax into it very quickly. Same as you guys we didn't play the first time we went, we just took it all in, we did dress down and explore upstairs but just enjoyed watching and getting turned on.

Feel free to pm if you have any questions.

Thank you do, does it get quite busy then most nights? X

To be honest, if there's no event night on then it's usually pretty quiet, but like I've said not sure what the bi nights are like. Even if it is busy though it's so big it doesn't feel really busy so won't feel overwhelming if that makes sense. Only on the big party nights does it's feel really busy. "

Thank you x

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