FabSwingers.com forum: Am I that ugly?

By *overman79 OP Man
over a year ago

Shipdham

Good morning all. I'm sorry to post another woes is me post but I genuinely would like to know what it is I'm doing wrong. I cant get a single interest in my profile.

Thank you for any helpful advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not ugly.

Try some new photos. Most of the ones you have I'd leave for other forms of social media.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems a reasonable profile mate with some nice friendly pics and a bio that’s more than most.

You’re not ugly you’re just swamped in the Fab single guy numbers.

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By *overman79 OP Man
over a year ago

Shipdham

"You're not ugly.

Try some new photos. Most of the ones you have I'd leave for other forms of social media.

You mean more flesh photos?

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By *overman79 OP Man
over a year ago

Shipdham

"Seems a reasonable profile mate with some nice friendly pics and a bio that’s more than most.

You’re not ugly you’re just swamped in the Fab single guy numbers. "

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By *overman79 OP Man
over a year ago

Shipdham

Thank you

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By *ustintime69Man
over a year ago

london

Fab can be really hard on you as there is so much competition and then you might find as happened to me a couple of days ago starting to chat with someone, being told you have a fantastic body and asking for a face pic, sending one and then getting blocked….now that is just plain rude and makes you feel stupid, (and a little bit ugly too)!

So take it from me that after seven years of being on and off fab it’s not you, it’s them!

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By *overman79 OP Man
over a year ago

Shipdham

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good morning all. I'm sorry to post another woes is me post but I genuinely would like to know what it is I'm doing wrong. I cant get a single interest in my profile.

Thank you for any helpful advice. "

Mate, don't ever beat yourself up over anything on this site. There's a lot of entitled rude people on here and you gotta just dust yourself off.

I'm in my 30s, keep in shape, have my own successful business and have no trouble in the real world. I use this site as I'm into cougars but probably get 1 response to every 60/70 messages sent out.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Ok being honest I wouldn’t be interested as your part of a couple. Nothing wrong with your profile it’s just a number game on here. Too many men

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Your part of a couple so know your not “too ugly” to meet.

Get out in the clubs and socials and get to know people. 100’s of men on here you’ve got to stand out.

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Good morning all. I'm sorry to post another woes is me post but I genuinely would like to know what it is I'm doing wrong. I cant get a single interest in my profile.

Thank you for any helpful advice. "

Nope. You’re you, and you will float someone’s boat - you already do if you’ve got a partner!

As others have said, try getting out to socials and events/clubs. Because men are in such plentiful supply here, market forces mean it’s much harder to stand out.

I’m distinctly average for my age, and I have much more “success” away from fab where my charm and winning smile are free to shine!

One note re the profile, lots of close up cock shots can be off putting at first contact - maybe stick them in your “friends only” gallery. Similarly the one with the booby-licking. I assume that’s your partner, but as a single-guy profile, “action shots” are a bit of a problem as there’s no way of knowing who features in them and whether they consent to them being used.

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

Nah probably only as ugly as me, and I’ve had sex at least 3 times!

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By *teve_it_aloneMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"Nah probably only as ugly as me, and I’ve had sex at least 3 times!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many single women here prefer single men, not those already in a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im probably one of the ugliest guys here but I don't care

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