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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello, so I’m new to the world of swinging after coming out of a long marriage a year ago. Trying to meet people and have fun, however I seem to be struggling on here as I don’t get any messages back. Always respectful with my messages so, I’m looking for some tips/advice if possible?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You and a million guys chatting to a much smaller pool of woman. It’s long haul so don’t expect a quick fix

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"You and a million guys chatting to a much smaller pool of woman. It’s long haul so don’t expect a quick fix "

This!

Plus, there aren't that many women on here within your age range.

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By *r FunFrolicks86Man
over a year ago

close to Peterborough


"Hello, so I’m new to the world of swinging after coming out of a long marriage a year ago. Trying to meet people and have fun, however I seem to be struggling on here as I don’t get any messages back. Always respectful with my messages so, I’m looking for some tips/advice if possible?"

Have a good look at other guys profiles who have verifications and see what sort of pictures they have then work to make your own profile the best it can be you need to sell yourself really well to get anywhere on her also try and find some social events local to you and possibly try out a swingers club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have one fairly poor picture, a very short bio and sadly no verifications.

What is it in particular that you want or expect from the swinging world?

What can you offer apart from “stamina”?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

Welcome to the site and the forums, whilst being polite and respectful is only one key to being successful. Your profile and bio as well as photos are another part and finding those whom are compatible is another. Going to social events held at clubs is another way to meet folk. Besides that put out social meets yourself with no expectations is another way forward. It's not always the case the number of guys compared to women on the site, but finding a connection as well as chemistry....

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahh okay, good shout, thanks for replying.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for that. "

If you use “reply+quote” button people will know who you’re replying to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks for that.

If you use “reply+quote” button people will know who you’re replying to. "

Okay, got it, thank you.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

OP....on the face of it, you might be the type that Char would like. However unless your initial message had us in fits of laughter, we'd probably not reply based on the lack of pics and info in your profile.

(Bry)

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By * lolita xWoman
over a year ago

North

Ok well your profile needs a lot of work if you want to stand out against the thousands of men on here

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