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Need to gain Verifications to be taken Seriously

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By *r kinky OP   Man
over a year ago

kettering

Hi pep Anyone got any tips on how to gain verifications as it doesn’t seem to be easy for myself.

I’ve asked a lot of advice on here And it just seems to be criticism rather than help so I’m hoping this post will be a bit different thanks Dave

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

To get a meet veri you've got to meet somebody who is verified:

1. Use your charm to meet somebody even for a social, female or couple.

2 Go to an organised social locally - some advertise on here or talk to people who have organised before

3.Go to a club

Really no other options or Fab magic wand.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

It's not necessarily verifications that stop people taking others seriously, are the quality of your messages and the quality of your profile and pictures, something that people can easily take seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a social or a club and be well groomed and sociable and pleasant.

Our top tip would be to make up some slips of paper or card with your fab name on to give to people you chat with and if at a club have a pen and small notebook to write down peoples names (you can’t use your phone at a club)

A few days ago a local guy asked us to meet him for a coffee just to verify him.

Against our better judgement and because we had a free hour we agreed.

He stood us up….for a social. FFS.

Last time.

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By *akie32Man
over a year ago

winchester

ive had as many idiots who are verified as idiots who arent, so pay verifications no notice, im sure many are the same, as long as you are photo verified, thats all that counts really

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"It's not necessarily verifications that stop people taking others seriously, are the quality of your messages and the quality of your profile and pictures, something that people can easily take seriously?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it doesnt appear to matter whether you have one or hundreds.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market


"Hi pep Anyone got any tips on how to gain verifications as it doesn’t seem to be easy for myself.

I’ve asked a lot of advice on here And it just seems to be criticism rather than help so I’m hoping this post will be a bit different thanks Dave "

You've got one verification yet you're not showing it for some reason.....

(Bry)

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Have a look for local social events, maybe display the verification you've already got, update some pics.

Have a look at the men's profiles with lots of verifications and see what they are like.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a verification, that hasn't helped lead you to more.

I've not looked properly so no criticism from me, it comes down to how you put yourself out there.

Eye catching pictures, interesting bio and a reasonable message.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Go to an organised social

Or try and arrange one yourself in your local area

Some people myself included will meet unverified people, it's about the person and how they come across not them being verified

Verified people mess people about just as much as non verified in fact my last no show was very well verified

You've mentioned you've asked for help before but have received critisism, read those comments again as my guess is they probably are helpful you've just taken them the wrong way

I've not read your full profile but a quick look has shown me three red flags, your bio is where you sell yourself, I've approached several different guys where their bios or a photo has made me laugh or think I want to meet them

it's amazing what a bit of rewording or the removal/addition of a couple of photos can do

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