FabSwingers.com forum: Rules of Dogging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I recently tried dogging for the 1st time. Sat in local spot known for it. There is several cars but nothing happening. As I drove out I noticed 2 cars had couples in them.

Am I correct that the couple must invite you over by flashing there lights of have I been missinformed?

Any other tips would also be appreciated.

Thanks

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Perhaps they were new and waitiing for you to approach them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is flashing your lights the way to make contact, then see if they flash back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the issue with flashing the lights is if they're not they're for that and flash back for another reason there could be issues.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Best to get out to say hello, a polite hello can go a long way and you soon get the feel of what they are there for.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There is no manual; there are no rules set in concrete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flashing headlights at each other is a signal that you’re an intelligence officer ready to hand over the documents I believe.

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By *ralextacyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Flashing lights could also be Hugh Grant having a Devine Brown moment... (showing my age now lol)

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By *rank speakerMan
over a year ago

Worcester

I haven't been but have often wondered what the protocol was. I recently read a very informative profile which gave a few ideas. Are they right? If you flash the brake lights twice you're interested in playing. A return flash of headlights and interior light going on is an invite to watch? Any other recognised signals?

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By *apperleymanMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

There is no protocol, flashing headlights/ brake lights/ interior lights went out with the dinosaurs..

However if someone is running around naked shouting COME FUCK ME - that might be an indication..

Other than that say hello, if they’re not there for ‘that’ they will let you know..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been in years but the times I did the only sure sign I remember was interior light going on and being waved over.

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By *8v3nCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

If it is raining people may be in cars just waiting for rain to stop.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

A couple I know take a flask of tea and some biscuits to offer round. A hot cuppa is very welcome on a cold night

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By *topthepressMan
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Why not just go to a club dogging is dying out and it's cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience I find it best to slowly approach the car and if the side window goes down and a conversation ensues, the rest is up to you...

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Just walk up to a random car furiously masturbating and see what happens. NB best not to use this approach in Tesco’s car park like I did…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Etiquette for doggers

Be polite and courteous at all times.

Flashing headlights or brake lights – are there any other doggers nearby?

Interior light on – we want to be watched.

Window half down – oral sex is on offer.

Window fully down – touching and fondling is allowed.

Door open – full sex is on offer.

If you see someone you recognise, do not address them by name!

It is extremely rare for the police to turn up, but if they do, do not ask them if they want to join in.

Do not to take any valuables with you.

Filming is normally allowed, but put your camera away if you are asked to do so.

Do not wander around looking into people's cars unless their headlights have been flashed or their interior light is on.

Etiquette for watchers

Hygiene is paramount. Make sure you’re clean and fresh as if you’re dirty and smelly there aren’t too many people who will let you watch.

Take a condom or two in case you decide to join in.

If you want to join in, it is essential you ask first.

Make sure you understand the dogging signals. So you can watch if the interior light is switched on, you can watch, chat and have a grope and and a fondle in if the windows are rolled down, or you can join in if the car door has been opened from the inside.

Take all your belongings with you afterwards, as no one likes to see used condoms lying around in a public place.

Etiquette for participants

Make sure you and your partner know each other's limits. Discuss what you want to do, what to expect and if you will invite others to join in.

Be clean – if you want others to join in, you will need to be clean and hygienic too.

Always practise safe sex. Bring plenty of condoms, and lubrication if you need it.

Give clear signals to other doggers. The normal dogging signal is to flash your lights and turn the interior light on to let others come and watch you; wind your window down to give them a closer look and let them have a fondle, and to open a door if you’d like them to join in.

Another dogging signal that people commonly use is to turning the interior light on and off a couple of times and then leaving it on, to let people know you are ready and want to be watched.

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By *mambaMan
over a year ago

gosforth

Walking out and talking makes better chances of having fun

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I walk up and down the parked cars, if someone is interested they will let you know.

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Etiquette for doggers

Be polite and courteous at all times.

Flashing headlights or brake lights – are there any other doggers nearby?

Interior light on – we want to be watched.

Window half down – oral sex is on offer.

Window fully down – touching and fondling is allowed.

Door open – full sex is on offer.

If you see someone you recognise, do not address them by name!

It is extremely rare for the police to turn up, but if they do, do not ask them if they want to join in.

Do not to take any valuables with you.

Filming is normally allowed, but put your camera away if you are asked to do so.

Do not wander around looking into people's cars unless their headlights have been flashed or their interior light is on.

Etiquette for watchers

Hygiene is paramount. Make sure you’re clean and fresh as if you’re dirty and smelly there aren’t too many people who will let you watch.

Take a condom or two in case you decide to join in.

If you want to join in, it is essential you ask first.

Take all your belongings with you afterwards, as no one likes to see used condoms lying around in a public place.

Etiquette for participants

Make sure you and your partner know each other's limits. Discuss what you want to do, what to expect and if you will invite others to join in.

Be clean – if you want others to join in, you will need to be clean and hygienic too.

Always practise safe sex. Bring plenty of condoms, and lubrication if you need it.

Another dogging signal that people commonly use is to turning the interior light on and off a couple of times and then leaving it on, to let people know you are ready and want to be watched.

We’d never allow filming.

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By *igtone2310Man
over a year ago

Beverley

Etiquette for doggers

Be polite and courteous at all times.

Flashing headlights or brake lights – are there any other doggers nearby?

Interior light on – we want to be watched.

Window half down – oral sex is on offer.

Window fully down – touching and fondling is allowed.

Door open – full sex is on offer.

If you see someone you recognise, do not address them by name!

It is extremely rare for the police to turn up, but if they do, do not ask them if they want to join in.

Do not to take any valuables with you.

Filming is normally allowed, but put your camera away if you are asked to do so.

Do not wander around looking into people's cars unless their headlights have been flashed or their interior light is on.

Etiquette for watchers

Hygiene is paramount. Make sure you’re clean and fresh as if you’re dirty and smelly there aren’t too many people who will let you watch.

Take a condom or two in case you decide to join in.

If you want to join in, it is essential you ask first.

Take all your belongings with you afterwards, as no one likes to see used condoms lying around in a public place.

Etiquette for participants

Make sure you and your partner know each other's limits. Discuss what you want to do, what to expect and if you will invite others to join in.

Be clean – if you want others to join in, you will need to be clean and hygienic too.

Always practise safe sex. Bring plenty of condoms, and lubrication if you need it.

Another dogging signal that people commonly use is to turning the interior light on and off a couple of times and then leaving it on, to let people know you are ready and want to be watched.

We’d never allow filming. "
I thought exactly the same, i'd never take pics or film without being asked to x

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Etiquette for doggers

...Filming is normally allowed, but put your camera away if you are asked to do so."

Most of this is spot on, though I'm not sure how many people abide by the 'rules' these days. However, I would say it is extremely risky to presume fiming is allowed.

Ask first, or wait to be invited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes best to walk by and say good afternoon evening , maybe a smile .

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By *ingle w3t femaleWoman
over a year ago

yorkshire

"Why not just go to a club dogging is dying out and it's cold"

Never too cold for dogging...

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"Why not just go to a club dogging is dying out and it's cold

Never too cold for dogging...

Just need a big coat and a flask with hot cocoa...

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

"Why not just go to a club dogging is dying out and it's cold

Never too cold for dogging...

No it is never too cold. Some of our best nights have been when snow was on the ground

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By *ristinapinkWoman
over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

When I go, I’m fine with people approaching the car and watch. If I’m not interested I’ll politely let them know

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