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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I am mainly straight but have in the past also had light bi fun with the man from a couple. Never and not really keen to play with man on his own. I like recieving oral, anal play, and would shag a guy in the right situation.

I'm not into sucking guys off or being shagged by a man.. Does this make me selfish? Have changed profile back to straight as didn't want to appear selfish, or give wrong idea....

Love to hear _iews!!

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No but I'd leave it as bi and explain your preferences in your profile x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes but I am not saying that is a bad thing...

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

its always a tricky one and a subject that does come up quite frequently as everyones interpretation of bi seems to differ. Some guys are quite comfortable to meet a couple and maybe a blow job or two aint gonna trip them out but opt not to put bi on their profile and this seems to attract single fellas messaging them for one on ones .. do wot eva works for u i guess it the way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes but I am not saying that is a bad thing..."

+1

Wolf

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Whatever you like doing is your choice, just be open about it on any meeting and all will be fine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey thanks for the replies....

Still not sure though...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep, you've hit the nail on the head... Yes, will do what works for me I think.. Thanks...

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Haha, is Malvern too far from Bristol??? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it doesn't it makes it a preference, so long as you explain it to someone you play with it should be fine, if they don't like it tough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the opposite. I prefer to be more passive with guys, I don't particularly want to shag them but I do like them to shag me.

For me, it's the flip side of my sexuality, going from the dominant male role who gives, to the passive who receives.

This could also be perceived as selfish but I list myself as bisexual, as that's the most honest way to describe me, but I do make it clear what I'm looking for when I chat to people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I am mainly straight but have in the past also had light bi fun with the man from a couple. Never and not really keen to play with man on his own. I like recieving oral, anal play, and would shag a guy in the right situation.

I'm not into sucking guys off or being shagged by a man.. Does this make me selfish? Have changed profile back to straight as didn't want to appear selfish, or give wrong idea....

Love to hear _iews!!"

i get were ur coming from i like to give guys oral anal and wank them in right situation but i love to be sucked and played with just dont like taking anal so my _iews are ur not selfish its just wat u prefer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there not an option to put urself as bicurious?

I think men get confused over the word bi

Bi doesn't mean u will have full on sex with another guy or that u fancy them.

I like the term hetexible - meaning u primarily fancy and enjoy sex with the opposite sex and would only go into a relationship with the opposite sex but u do enjoy sexual activity with the same sex to some degree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops no idea why I got a smiley face in the middle of h e t r o f l e x I b l e

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"No but I'd leave it as bi and explain your preferences in your profile x "

Especially as you say you'd be happy to shag a guy.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm struggling to understand how you can be straight but happy to shag a man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not straight.. Have you read the question? Put myself as straight for now as wasn't sure if I was being selfish or not.... And didn't want to give the wrong idea as bi action is very much take it or leave it for me

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have been described as bi-selfish. It's not in the tick box options and as I wouldn't meet women alone I put that I am straight. If asked I clarify.

Perhaps you could put something in the text on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hahaha, love that... Yep.. I'm sometimes bi-selfish

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for that. It's pretty much exactly me. Heteexible! Or perhaps a dirty sod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fine for me. In a way I'd prefer that as it's the kink of sucking cock before having sex with a woman I like.

Aren't we here to go with our own desires?

Have fun.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"No but I'd leave it as bi and explain your preferences in your profile x

Especially as you say you'd be happy to shag a guy."

My thoughts exactly, I think if your prepared to anything sexual with members of the opposite sex be it giving or receiving then bi or bi curious is the way to go x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

And am I being selfish??

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over a year ago

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