FabSwingers.com forum: New Single male (hetro…Iknow yuck) Looking for advice from men and women on this

By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Hey guys how’s things I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to break into the swinging world on fab specifically in Ireland. I find that being a guy looking for a woman/ social events/swing events is always kinda just ignored (Iknow cry me a river and all that) but i really enjoy this site and was wondering if anyone could help

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"Hey guys how’s things I was just wondering if anyone had any advice on how to break into the swinging world on fab specifically in Ireland. I find that being a guy looking for a woman/ social events/swing events is always kinda just ignored (Iknow cry me a river and all that) but i really enjoy this site and was wondering if anyone could help "

I think you will find people suggest you go to a club x

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Iknow right..but I genuinely don’t even know where when or what clubs there are in Dublin or Ireland and fuck me it’s hard to find on this, maybe I just need a pair of glasses because I ain’t having much luck lol, thanks you so much for the response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember that your profile is the first place to sell yourself!

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Remember that your profile is the first place to sell yourself! "

Noted maybe I need to shake up my profile description a bit a improve it thanks so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think if you were a woman would you meet you based on your profile and your pictures

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

"Remember that your profile is the first place to sell yourself!

Noted maybe I need to shake up my profile description a bit a improve it thanks so much "

There is no maybe about it. Your profile is terrible. There are many threads about how to write a good profile. Read and learn.

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Hello OP,

As a couple that only meet single men of your age we would ignore any message you sent us. The reason? it's taken you three months to photo verify yourself, you only have one pic, your profile is bland and uninteresting, and it comes across that you really don't care who you have sex with you just want the sex, not the person.

How you use the site is up to you, but you should be aware that it's a cut throat site and people will dismiss any approach you make for very simple reasons and the main one is because a persons profile is poorly written or doesn't appeal.

Good luck

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Saying you're not picky, would definitely put me right off.

I would start again with your profile.

Pretty sure there's an Irish section to the forum too.

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Thanks very much for the help! I said that as a way of trying not to come across as a dick but obviously from a different persons perspective it makes more sense

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Thanks for the reply, yep hear ya loud and clear lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It takes minutes to add photos and write something on a bio and yet it’s been 3 days since you asked for advice and nothing has changed apart from your status update.

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

No need for a salty comment I’m only after updating my page.. thanks have a good day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No need for a salty comment I’m only after updating my page.. thanks have a good day "

And yet you have taken not one piece of the offered advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll just get torn to bits by the edgey retorts of the fabswingers elite on here mate. As long as your profile is true to you and respectful and genuine, leave it at that. Some people who have been on this site for decades profiles are awful, pages of ranty dos and dont's....

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Go to an organised social if you can , loads posted around the UK ...not sure about Ireland ...save you years of messages on here

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I would alter your second line and first paragraph to read;

“My name is Luke, a 25 year old single guy living in Dublin, returning to Fab after a little break.”

Then tab on;

“Also very interested in attending a group social event” after the sentence about kinks and fantasies.

It’s your profile ultimately, but I think that would read better. Good luck fella

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Look on the Ireland section of the forums and you may find socials or others that live near you.

I'd work on your profile too as doesn't stand out or appeal in my opinion

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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago

somerset

also remember you are one of many who are looking for the so few in comparison men outnumber women and couples by a large number .. it's a case of there is not someone one for everyone on this scene

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

You’ve hardly given any help or advice just criticism of my lack of change to my profile, as I said I’m working on it and if the fact that it’s not as quick or efficient for you there’s a big oul block button if you didn’t know, great way to make a toxic environment for a person looking for advice …keep it

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Thanks very much mate noted and I’ll change

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Appreciate the boost of confidence haha thanks mate

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

If you press the +Quote button people will know who you are responding too.

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"If you press the +Quote button people will know who you are responding too."

Thanks lol only caught on now

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"You'll just get torn to bits by the edgey retorts of the fabswingers elite on here mate. As long as your profile is true to you and respectful and genuine, leave it at that. Some people who have been on this site for decades profiles are awful, pages of ranty dos and dont's.... "

Sorry mate I replied but posted to the form

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"No need for a salty comment I’m only after updating my page.. thanks have a good day

And yet you have taken not one piece of the offered advice. "

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By *ukel OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"also remember you are one of many who are looking for the so few in comparison men outnumber women and couples by a large number .. it's a case of there is not someone one for everyone on this scene"

Thanks for the reply ! Definitely agree

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over a year ago

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