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"We would love to try it's a massive turn on for us" Happy to oblige | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event?" Awesome!!! | |||
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"Yes we're always looking out for a good man. Not easy living where we do" You need to pop over to Inverness for a weekend | |||
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"We were the opposite, i had to find chemistry before playing with another guy and my husband, and yes you must be able to separate making love and just having sex to make playing work. " When it works it’s sensational this isn’t it | |||
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"My wife and I have been doing this for a couple of years now. I feel absolutely no jealousy at all when I see her with another guy. The more she she's enjoying herself the more turned on I get. And afterwards we have our best sex. " This!! | |||
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"I find it a huge turn on watching my wife with another man. My favourite is when I am laid back and she is giving me head while being taken from behind. The view is amazing. If you can separate sex and love you will feel just fine afterwards, if not you may feel jealous The very same thing with us At the risk of being flamed we only see other men as kinda toys we play with together, we don’t want or expect any connection. We don’t pick men on looks, we are happy to play with almost anyone as it’s just sex, nothing more. Completely agree with this. When my wife is sucking me and I'm looking into her eyes and she is being penetrated by the other guy, and I can feel him thrusting into her, she is moaning loudly, it is just amazing! And for weeks afterwards it continues to make us feel very horny." | |||
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"I find it a huge turn on watching my wife with another man. My favourite is when I am laid back and she is giving me head while being taken from behind. The view is amazing. If you can separate sex and love you will feel just fine afterwards, if not you may feel jealous. At the risk of being flamed we only see other men as kinda toys we play with together, we don’t want or expect any connection. We don’t pick men on looks, we are happy to play with almost anyone as it’s just sex, nothing more. " excellent attitude what swinging is all about for a couple. | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event?" It's absolutely incredible! We were surprised to learn that it's not just about sex either. We definitely feel an extra burst of love during and after. And seeing the boost it gives Alice just warms my cold heart! | |||
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"This is what we are after .. but all we find is time wasters or guys that just are not what we are looking for " We have been to some great club nights and found some respectable men | |||
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"This is what we are after .. but all we find is time wasters or guys that just are not what we are looking for " Try going to a club. | |||
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"My wife has a big soft spot for Richard Gere, she said one night after a few gins that he would be the only man she would be unfaithful with. She came home the other day with a grin like a Cheshire Cat, her new boss is the double of him, I noticed she started dressing sexier for work, etc so I said to her does he do it for you ? To which she replied “I’ve not been so aroused for years” Long story short, she had to go on a conference with him and a couple of others, so I gave her my blessing if one thing led to another which it did ! All I asked that she let him cum inside her, this was a huge turn on for me! I got a message on the second night saying she was sat at dinner with cum leaking into her panties ! " ^^ That does not correlate with your profile when you state you've not been able to spice things up in your marriage; hence you're on here. Hard to say if you're genuine, a fantasist or just cheating. | |||
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"Roxy prefers meets at clubs (more to choose from is her opinion as profiles can be so misleading) generally she always chooses the guys. Watching her with another guy is a whole roller coaster of emotions that never seems to hit bottom. Jealousy, pride, love, desire, arousal to name some. Just seeing her enjoy herself is such a turn on...that keeps going even after the event." | |||
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"1st time I shared a wife, the wife and I were all over each other kissing was allowed hubby watched, we met many times after always had amazing meets. Since then other wives I met kissing not allowed. Fair enough if that's between hubby and wife, I respect that. Strange thing is they don't kiss, but can suck a cock. Question is how do you feel about not being able to kiss in the moment of passion? Kiss or not to kiss. XXX" Kissing is very important to us, but each to their own. | |||
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"1st time I shared a wife, the wife and I were all over each other kissing was allowed hubby watched, we met many times after always had amazing meets. Since then other wives I met kissing not allowed. Fair enough if that's between hubby and wife, I respect that. Strange thing is they don't kiss, but can suck a cock. Question is how do you feel about not being able to kiss in the moment of passion? Kiss or not to kiss. XXX" Every couple has their own way of expressing the love they feel for one and other, things that are their connection. I agree that kissing is probably the strongest one for us, kissing is more intimate than any sexual act in our minds. Whilst I don’t object to my wife kissing another man I don’t particularly enjoy watching it but I would t stop her if that’s what she wanted. Kissing isn’t sex, kissing is something that I see as a display of my love and that’s where the boundaries start to blur. There is no love in any of our meets and kissing can twang those strings ok jealousy in my mind. | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event?" It’s the best | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event?" During - great After - indescribably fantastic reclaim sex | |||
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"So many emotions fly through your mind - envy, jealousy, possible humiliation but primarily total and utter arousal. I have watched and listened to my wife orgasm in a way she never has with me and at that moment felt deeply embarrassed at my inability to do it - yet with a firm stiff erection at the same time. Being a cuckold husband is a total mindfuck at times but it can become very addictive very quickly." Exactly this !! I went through the same feelings when my wife played, at the end of the day it’s all about fun and enjoyment! We built a rapport with our friend and hutch made it better every time ! Plus the “reclaim “ sex I had with her after was mind blowing !! | |||
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"I find it a huge turn on watching my wife with another man. My favourite is when I am laid back and she is giving me head while being taken from behind. The view is amazing. If you can separate sex and love you will feel just fine afterwards, if not you may feel jealous. At the risk of being flamed we only see other men as kinda toys we play with together, we don’t want or expect any connection. We don’t pick men on looks, we are happy to play with almost anyone as it’s just sex, nothing more. " this | |||
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"1st time I shared a wife, the wife and I were all over each other kissing was allowed hubby watched, we met many times after always had amazing meets. Since then other wives I met kissing not allowed. Fair enough if that's between hubby and wife, I respect that. Strange thing is they don't kiss, but can suck a cock. Question is how do you feel about not being able to kiss in the moment of passion? Kiss or not to kiss. XXX" I've played with wives where kissing was not allowed/desired, and others where it was, and even encouraged... ....I'd suggest kissing is the most common thing that some couples like to 'reserve' as an act that only occurs between them... | |||
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"I find it a huge turn on watching my wife with another man. My favourite is when I am laid back and she is giving me head while being taken from behind. The view is amazing. If you can separate sex and love you will feel just fine afterwards, if not you may feel jealous. At the risk of being flamed we only see other men as kinda toys we play with together, we don’t want or expect any connection. We don’t pick men on looks, we are happy to play with almost anyone as it’s just sex, nothing more. " It’s been a while, but this states it perfectly | |||
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"Cant beat the feeling, when your wife is having sex with another man and really enjoying it. Especially when he is a regular guy and we have built up friendship and trust with him." This comment above, nails it personally!! | |||
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"Thanks everyone, any regrets anyone since sharing wife?" none what so ever | |||
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"Thanks everyone, any regrets anyone since sharing wife?" Only that we can’t find the time to enjoy it more often. Real life gets in the way | |||
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"the best sex is with your partner after the other guy has left" This is so true | |||
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"We have doing it mid blowing and really increases our sex drive for weeks although ours have always been with other couples. Reliving after the fact during sex is really hot x" This is something we agree | |||
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"I find it a huge turn on watching my wife with another man. My favourite is when I am laid back and she is giving me head while being taken from behind. The view is amazing. If you can separate sex and love you will feel just fine afterwards, if not you may feel jealous. At the risk of being flamed we only see other men as kinda toys we play with together, we don’t want or expect any connection. We don’t pick men on looks, we are happy to play with almost anyone as it’s just sex, nothing more. It’s been a while, but this states it perfectly " We had our first meet Saturday, this comment sums it up perfectly for us, personality & ability to connect within a conversation is sometimes more important. I was worried beforehand that I'd be feeling jealous or some kind of regret afterwards, but nothing other than a stronger love for eachother | |||
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"I find it a huge turn on watching my wife with another man. My favourite is when I am laid back and she is giving me head while being taken from behind. The view is amazing. If you can separate sex and love you will feel just fine afterwards, if not you may feel jealous. At the risk of being flamed we only see other men as kinda toys we play with together, we don’t want or expect any connection. We don’t pick men on looks, we are happy to play with almost anyone as it’s just sex, nothing more. It’s been a while, but this states it perfectly We had our first meet Saturday, this comment sums it up perfectly for us, personality & ability to connect within a conversation is sometimes more important. I was worried beforehand that I'd be feeling jealous or some kind of regret afterwards, but nothing other than a stronger love for eachother" Fantastic news! The first of many hopefully, with many more great meets to come. | |||
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"i love to share mine--nothimng better than see another guy or guys slip into her then reclaim after Love to share experiences " Helps that she is gorgeous. | |||
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"The build up when we meet in a public place, lou dressed to impress, and the flirting begins, is as much fun as the meet. Watching the connection and mind fuckin is amazing. " Oh yes have to agree that the build up is so exciting also. | |||
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"This is what we are after .. but all we find is time wasters or guys that just are not what we are looking for " | |||
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"It is very hot but also can be friendly too. " It's fun if there is mutual respect trust and boundaries have been set | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event?" Massive turn on. Seeing her letting go and screaming as she orgasms off him fucking her hard makes me horny and proud,but i been busy shagging his mrs also | |||
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"Hi Fire here I love watching Smoke with other guys. For me, she’s the sexiest woman in the world, the woman I love, and we have the most amazing sex together. It’s hot to see others getting to enjoy what I get to enjoy all the time, and I love seeing her being comfortable being the sexual person she is, showing the trust in our relationship that I fully support it and it wouldn’t cause issues between us. And the absolute best part….knowing we’re going home together and that the best sex of the night will be just the two of us together, because of the emotional bond we have." isn't this exactly what swinging is about - a great couple who have a great sex life and love each other to bits but love to include others in that journey | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event?" . I love watching Mrs enjoying playing with other men in the club | |||
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"I don’t see it as sharing my partner but rather us sharing other people with each other." I like that phrasing. | |||
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"We love all kinds of sharing and swapping but we both get turned on the most when watching the other have fun with someone else, for me ( Mr ) I get instantly hard when my wife says she wants to play with a man,women or couple and then when she does and I sit there watching how much she is enjoying it and even better when she looks over to me while she is mid orgasm is the best feeling. And then we both enjoy the reclaim " Absolutely this. | |||
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"We love all kinds of sharing and swapping but we both get turned on the most when watching the other have fun with someone else, for me ( Mr ) I get instantly hard when my wife says she wants to play with a man,women or couple and then when she does and I sit there watching how much she is enjoying it and even better when she looks over to me while she is mid orgasm is the best feeling. And then we both enjoy the reclaim Absolutely this. " Completely agree | |||
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"Haven't experienced yet but am hoping to very soon! For me the arousal comes from knowing another guy is desiring her in the same way I do and I get the added bonus of enjoying the view from a different perspective than I normally would. Fingers crossed less than two weeks now until our first meet!" Hopefully it all goes well and it's only the start of great fun times to come! | |||
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"I find it a huge turn on watching my wife with another man. My favourite is when I am laid back and she is giving me head while being taken from behind. The view is amazing. If you can separate sex and love you will feel just fine afterwards, if not you may feel jealous. At the risk of being flamed we only see other men as kinda toys we play with together, we don’t want or expect any connection. We don’t pick men on looks, we are happy to play with almost anyone as it’s just sex, nothing more. " This 100% | |||
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"I love being invited to share someones wife! It's such a turn on! " Same here. It’s lovely to play with liberated, friendly couples. | |||
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"It's incredible to watch each other with other people. Personally, it always reminds me how lucky I am to be going home with Z. The most amazing part of it is the reclaim sex for days after." | |||
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"It's incredible to watch each other with other people. Personally, it always reminds me how lucky I am to be going home with Z. The most amazing part of it is the reclaim sex for days after." Absolutely! Is exactly the same for us too. | |||
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"Love it especially when she plays alone and send pics " I had the pleasure one afternoon of playing with a wife who was taking pics on her phone and sending them to her hubby, who was away at the time - our liaison was at his instigation, so it was only fair that she kept him updated! | |||
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"I had the pleasure one afternoon of playing with a wife who was taking pics on her phone and sending them to her hubby, who was away at the time - our liaison was at his instigation, so it was only fair that she kept him updated! " That's exactly how I found out the wife does anal | |||
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"My husband doesn't see it as sharing me, because he doesn't think he owns me. We both see it as sharing each other's enjoyment, and I certainly enjoy threesomes and moresomes. " correct .. always nice to share the fun Lol | |||
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"Haven't experienced yet but am hoping to very soon! For me the arousal comes from knowing another guy is desiring her in the same way I do and I get the added bonus of enjoying the view from a different perspective than I normally would. Fingers crossed less than two weeks now until our first meet!" We'll, after being stood up initially tonight we managed to find a great guy to step up and help us out. Had an amazing session and was so horny watching and joining in. | |||
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"It's incredible to watch each other with other people. Personally, it always reminds me how lucky I am to be going home with Z. The most amazing part of it is the reclaim sex for days after." Exactly this. | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event?" More importantly how would your wife feel about being shared? | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event? More importantly how would your wife feel about being shared?" | |||
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"Would like to hear from other guys what it feels like to share your wife both during and after the event?" Awesome and even more awesome. Simple | |||
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"I find it a huge turn on watching my wife with another man. My favourite is when I am laid back and she is giving me head while being taken from behind. The view is amazing. If you can separate sex and love you will feel just fine afterwards, if not you may feel jealous. At the risk of being flamed we only see other men as kinda toys we play with together, we don’t want or expect any connection. We don’t pick men on looks, we are happy to play with almost anyone as it’s just sex, nothing more. " Little monkeys.... Love the glory hole pics. My fav on fab x | |||
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"We have been swinging for a long time and have found that the lifestyle has enhanced our marriage. We get that it doesn’t work for everyone but swinging should also not be used to try to fix a failing relationship. When we are playing, it is amazing to watch each other enjoying themselves and to see Mrs Lpool lost In pleasure, it is a huge turn on. We also ensure that we cuddle after a meet and the infamous ‘reclaim’ sex is always the best. It’s also a big turn on to see the affect she can have on others watching. " Totally agree about reclaim sex mmmmmm | |||
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