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Updated my profile - quite long now!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I decide to re-write my profile and try to explain who I am and what I want from this site. I’d love feedback on whether it is rubbish or not!

I’m aware it’s long. But short and medium have been tried before, so I went the other way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pictures but ngl couldn’t face all that text.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

You'll never please everyone

For me it's way to long, & life's to short

I can't comment on the content of it as the length just put me off even attempting to read it

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By *..WillowCouple
over a year ago

East Lincs

A brilliant cure for insomnia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

JK Rowling eat your heart out.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Great to see smiling photos.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted

Don't think it is too long for us....."that's what she said".....but is this a cunning ploy to hide the bareback reference down near the end?

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By *airyGodmotherWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I decide to re-write my profile and try to explain who I am and what I want from this site. I’d love feedback on whether it is rubbish or not!

I’m aware it’s long. But short and medium have been tried before, so I went the other way! "

OK, I read it, allll of it.

It's good to have lots of info, but I do feel that some of it is surplus to requirements - like, I know what 6'1" is, you don't need to delve into the nitty gritty of what your measurements mean.

I also find the 'example' scenarios are also overly wordy, and I'd find it a bit off-putting that you seem to want VERY specific things...and maybe a very specific kind of person. Someone who is intelligent, wears slutty little dresses, is gagging for it at a moment's notice etc...

It's good to know what you want, but unless your requirements really are THAT prescriptive, I fear it will put a lot of people off.

Pics are good! But sorry to say...and this is just my opinion...you DO look 43. No older, no younger. You'd appear next to 43 in the dictionary.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

My personal opinion is that if you've taken the trouble to write a profile that you feel reflects you, your requirements and personality you should leave it and not be too concerned how it comes across to others. How would you change it if it was suggested that you did?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the inputs everyone, I really appreciate it.

I’ve refined it a little to take some of the clumsier edges off, but have kept what I feel is important to describing myself. It was and probably still is a bit overly-long, but that’s pretty much a hallmark of me being me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a thing wrong with your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d prefer your love of bareback to be near the top so I can just stop reading.

Do we really need to know your body fat?

And it comes across as a list of what you want and very little about what you offer?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Don't think it is too long for us....."that's what she said".....but is this a cunning ploy to hide the bareback reference down near the end? "

I think the fact his interests don't state safe indicate that, especially as some guys state safe but then messsge saying happy to play bare.

I think he's got it the right way around

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

We wouldn't say it's too long (our's is just as long!) and it gets over who you are and what you're looking for. Only issue we have is that it seems you're looking for a girlfriend or partner, as it reads a little like a dating site ad.

Overall, if you matched our criteria physically then we'd certainly reply to a message from you after reading the profile.

(Bry)

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