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"OP, I'm sorry but I'm not very surprised you have not had any meets. Can't give you any specific advise as you didn't ask for it but I do have to say, please look at the wording of your profile. For example, referring to women as "holes you might drill" is not going to get you many fans. On contrary, it could land you on many people block lists. Just because a woman is on Fab, it doesn't mean she's going to open her legs for just anyone. Have you tried organised socials and clubs? If not, you haven't tried every single avenue. However, if your social skills are bad, don't bother. "  | |||
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"Why did you assume joining fab would get you laid? Women here tend to be looking for experienced playmates. We are not providers of sexual favours. Your profile says you want to know who you will be drilling. And that is pretty much all we need to know about you." This | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really..." Take a step back. Breath some clean air. Maybe there are other sites that, at this moment in time would make you happier.? Keep doing the same things, will keep bringing the same outcomes. Make a change or two. | |||
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"Okay honestly have you tried “every avenue”… Have you been to any clubs? Any organised socials? In my own opinion a club would be so beneficial for you, if you’ve not been to one. You can chat and meet people there, find out if you are comfortable around others who are nude or with less clothing on (it’s not for everyone) and you might even get chance to lose it there… regardless I think it would be a good step into the world of swinging for anyone new to it all. All the best… " Socials maybe. Clubs not so sure in case he is not confident, sociable and unlikely to approach couples to start a conversation the likelihood of disappointment and augmentation of his sense of rejection will be high and disheartening. He is a young man and if it was me I would stick to bars, clubs, Tinder etc. before adventuring into the swinging scene. | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really..." A read through of your profile and it'd be an instant delete from us. If you can't see where you're going wrong then I don't think anyone here can help you. (Bry) | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really..." Read book, the rationale male and read about red pill before losing virginity. It's all about the mind game. Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer. Understand that. And for that sex, they want most males to be their worshippers which you can see around, especially in the profiles in this website. The easiest and best way to get laid and feel comfortable is to pay for sex. There are lot of sex parties and independent escorts providing service. Relationship, love, is all dreams and drama. You will understand them after sometime for sure. Look after yourself. Train. Be fit. Earn. Have some passion in life to follow. Give respect and expect same in return. If there comes a woman for some fun give the best possible. Hence most legends live in UK punting website and not here. For them this is just a testing place. This website serves women and couples really well. Just my opinion. Thank you | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really... Read book, the rationale male and read about red pill before losing virginity. It's all about the mind game. Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer. Understand that. And for that sex, they want most males to be their worshippers which you can see around, especially in the profiles in this website. The easiest and best way to get laid and feel comfortable is to pay for sex. There are lot of sex parties and independent escorts providing service. Relationship, love, is all dreams and drama. You will understand them after sometime for sure. Look after yourself. Train. Be fit. Earn. Have some passion in life to follow. Give respect and expect same in return. If there comes a woman for some fun give the best possible. Hence most legends live in UK punting website and not here. For them this is just a testing place. This website serves women and couples really well. Just my opinion. Thank you " Yeah don’t take this guys advice and certainly avoid the red pill movement! | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really... Read book, the rationale male and read about red pill before losing virginity. It's all about the mind game. Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer. Understand that. And for that sex, they want most males to be their worshippers which you can see around, especially in the profiles in this website. The easiest and best way to get laid and feel comfortable is to pay for sex. There are lot of sex parties and independent escorts providing service. Relationship, love, is all dreams and drama. You will understand them after sometime for sure. Look after yourself. Train. Be fit. Earn. Have some passion in life to follow. Give respect and expect same in return. If there comes a woman for some fun give the best possible. Hence most legends live in UK punting website and not here. For them this is just a testing place. This website serves women and couples really well. Just my opinion. Thank you Yeah don’t take this guys advice and certainly avoid the red pill movement! " Please read again. That's my opinion not advice. | |||
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"So we have Mr “hole driller” & Mr “women have nothing to offer but sex” Apart from being a little bit sick in my mouth… " How cunningly you left the word " MOST" . and trying to take the course differently and name me misogynistic. Lol. You failed. | |||
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"Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer." This man is not going to help you lose your virginity. Or find happiness. Most women I know are fucking wonderful. They are funny, kind, insightful and incessantly generous with almost every aspect of their lives. Most women I know make the world a brighter place. I have to wonder if someone thinks 'most women' have nothing to offer apart from sex, how come they are so bad at meeting decent human beings? | |||
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"Okay honestly have you tried “every avenue”… Have you been to any clubs? Any organised socials? In my own opinion a club would be so beneficial for you, if you’ve not been to one. You can chat and meet people there, find out if you are comfortable around others who are nude or with less clothing on (it’s not for everyone) and you might even get chance to lose it there… regardless I think it would be a good step into the world of swinging for anyone new to it all. All the best… - Socials maybe. Clubs not so sure in case he is not confident, sociable and unlikely to approach couples to start a conversation the likelihood of disappointment and augmentation of his sense of rejection will be high and disheartening. He is a young man and if it was me I would stick to bars, clubs, Tinder etc. before adventuring into the swinging scene. " I don’t get your logic… You aren’t sure on clubs as he might not be confident and sociable, yet you suggest socials… There should be no disappointment going to a club. If rejection is disheartening then swinging really isn’t your best route… You go to a club would be far easier than going to a social in my eyes. Treat it like a night out in a bar if anything happens it’s a bonus… Don’t go there thinking that’s where you’ll definitely have sex because you will be disheartened. | |||
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"I know that and I know it's not easy, I actually do prefer to have a conversation beforehand and even try and get to know anyone local if possible (if I make a mistake in not sending a face pic first), but I just get ignored or even blocked when intentions are friendly..." "I prefer to have a conversation beforehand but that's after I see your holes so I can see if I want to drill them" Such a conversationalist. 
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really..." Reads like a profile cobbled together by a 13 year old in his bedroom ???? | |||
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"Okay honestly have you tried “every avenue”… Have you been to any clubs? Any organised socials? In my own opinion a club would be so beneficial for you, if you’ve not been to one. You can chat and meet people there, find out if you are comfortable around others who are nude or with less clothing on (it’s not for everyone) and you might even get chance to lose it there… regardless I think it would be a good step into the world of swinging for anyone new to it all. All the best… - Socials maybe. Clubs not so sure in case he is not confident, sociable and unlikely to approach couples to start a conversation the likelihood of disappointment and augmentation of his sense of rejection will be high and disheartening. He is a young man and if it was me I would stick to bars, clubs, Tinder etc. before adventuring into the swinging scene. I don’t get your logic… You aren’t sure on clubs as he might not be confident and sociable, yet you suggest socials… There should be no disappointment going to a club. If rejection is disheartening then swinging really isn’t your best route… You go to a club would be far easier than going to a social in my eyes. Treat it like a night out in a bar if anything happens it’s a bonus… Don’t go there thinking that’s where you’ll definitely have sex because you will be disheartened. " On my view is the opposite. The socials I have attended there were ice breakers activities, games, introduce yourself etc. If he goes to a club he will be alone, plus he might not understand the no expectations behaviour. I fear on his case, he might treat as a shortcut to get laid, resulting in huge disappointment. | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really... Read book, the rationale male and read about red pill before losing virginity. It's all about the mind game. Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer. Understand that. And for that sex, they want most males to be their worshippers which you can see around, especially in the profiles in this website. The easiest and best way to get laid and feel comfortable is to pay for sex. There are lot of sex parties and independent escorts providing service. Relationship, love, is all dreams and drama. You will understand them after sometime for sure. Look after yourself. Train. Be fit. Earn. Have some passion in life to follow. Give respect and expect same in return. If there comes a woman for some fun give the best possible. Hence most legends live in UK punting website and not here. For them this is just a testing place. This website serves women and couples really well. Just my opinion. Thank you " What a load of shite. | |||
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"He's now taken to begging in his status and his profile says its closing in December. Is he expecting a rush of bargain hunters?
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"Okay honestly have you tried “every avenue”… Have you been to any clubs? Any organised socials? In my own opinion a club would be so beneficial for you, if you’ve not been to one. You can chat and meet people there, find out if you are comfortable around others who are nude or with less clothing on (it’s not for everyone) and you might even get chance to lose it there… regardless I think it would be a good step into the world of swinging for anyone new to it all. All the best… - Socials maybe. Clubs not so sure in case he is not confident, sociable and unlikely to approach couples to start a conversation the likelihood of disappointment and augmentation of his sense of rejection will be high and disheartening. He is a young man and if it was me I would stick to bars, clubs, Tinder etc. before adventuring into the swinging scene. I don’t get your logic… You aren’t sure on clubs as he might not be confident and sociable, yet you suggest socials… There should be no disappointment going to a club. If rejection is disheartening then swinging really isn’t your best route… You go to a club would be far easier than going to a social in my eyes. Treat it like a night out in a bar if anything happens it’s a bonus… Don’t go there thinking that’s where you’ll definitely have sex because you will be disheartened. " The difference is in a club others will be having sex and lots of men joining in one way or another. Easy to feel embarrassed and rejected in that situation. At an organised group social, a real social in a pub or somewhere, nobody is having sex. Maybe some might after but the social is a social. Also more likely to find relatively inexperienced people. But if going to used language like drilling probably neither option will work | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really... Read book, the rationale male and read about red pill before losing virginity. It's all about the mind game. Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer. Understand that. And for that sex, they want most males to be their worshippers which you can see around, especially in the profiles in this website. The easiest and best way to get laid and feel comfortable is to pay for sex. There are lot of sex parties and independent escorts providing service. Relationship, love, is all dreams and drama. You will understand them after sometime for sure. Look after yourself. Train. Be fit. Earn. Have some passion in life to follow. Give respect and expect same in return. If there comes a woman for some fun give the best possible. Hence most legends live in UK punting website and not here. For them this is just a testing place. This website serves women and couples really well. Just my opinion. Thank you What a load of shite." Good summary there at the end. Pissing myself laughing at most legends live on punting website. That is just a collection of men who pay for sex as their only option | |||
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"I know that and I know it's not easy, I actually do prefer to have a conversation beforehand and even try and get to know anyone local if possible (if I make a mistake in not sending a face pic first), but I just get ignored or even blocked when intentions are friendly..." I wouldn’t over judge yourself To much Is a lot of rude and ignorant out there . Many have more pleasure using button “ block “ then actually explore and know others … How U doing on fabs babes ? I blocked 220 twats today … Oh … I blocked 264 Ouh .. u bitch … —— Know what I mean ? Dating apps is the same … Ignorants …. Tho … is in they free will … I find frustrating . Tho I’m trying to learn how to don’t get to me to much … Happy fabs . | |||
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"OP, I'm sorry but I'm not very surprised you have not had any meets. Can't give you any specific advise as you didn't ask for it but I do have to say, please look at the wording of your profile. For example, referring to women as "holes you might drill" is not going to get you many fans. On contrary, it could land you on many people block lists. Just because a woman is on Fab, it doesn't mean she's going to open her legs for just anyone. Have you tried organised socials and clubs? If not, you haven't tried every single avenue. However, if your social skills are bad, don't bother. " Dude … that’s very bad poetry . I don’t like men who miss respect women … Maybe u need to explore better figures or speech . Damn . I’m not a good flirt … I don’t know how to flirt … but I would never call a lady something like that … not anywhere near . . . Mind your language . Respect . Jesus and a donkey , fuck in hell … Holes to drill ? See ? Well spotted this lady here is helping you . Mind your lyrics . Respect | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really... Read book, the rationale male and read about red pill before losing virginity. It's all about the mind game. Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer. Understand that. And for that sex, they want most males to be their worshippers which you can see around, especially in the profiles in this website. The easiest and best way to get laid and feel comfortable is to pay for sex. There are lot of sex parties and independent escorts providing service. Relationship, love, is all dreams and drama. You will understand them after sometime for sure. Look after yourself. Train. Be fit. Earn. Have some passion in life to follow. Give respect and expect same in return. If there comes a woman for some fun give the best possible. Hence most legends live in UK punting website and not here. For them this is just a testing place. This website serves women and couples really well. Just my opinion. Thank you What a load of shite." | |||
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"Why did you assume joining fab would get you laid? Women here tend to be looking for experienced playmates. We are not providers of sexual favours. Your profile says you want to know who you will be drilling. And that is pretty much all we need to know about you." I swear majority of the single male that message me think I'm a call girl who be one level up from their right or left hand. Sorry op but I feel you come to the wrong site. You're better off just going clubbing and meeting women the more natural way. Like actually try to strike up a conversation and rapport with someone naturally and see where it leads. If you're going to tell me you're too shy then take confidence building classes or do self help videos. Fab isn't the place to lose virginity | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really... Read book, the rationale male and read about red pill before losing virginity. It's all about the mind game. Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer. Understand that. And for that sex, they want most males to be their worshippers which you can see around, especially in the profiles in this website. The easiest and best way to get laid and feel comfortable is to pay for sex. There are lot of sex parties and independent escorts providing service. Relationship, love, is all dreams and drama. You will understand them after sometime for sure. Look after yourself. Train. Be fit. Earn. Have some passion in life to follow. Give respect and expect same in return. If there comes a woman for some fun give the best possible. Hence most legends live in UK punting website and not here. For them this is just a testing place. This website serves women and couples really well. Just my opinion. Thank you Yeah don’t take this guys advice and certainly avoid the red pill movement! Please read again. That's my opinion not advice. " Ouch sounds like you're coming from a place of hatred. We all been scorned but to tell a virgin your version of the world is what he has to look forward isn't fair. Good luck to you.maybe you get lucky and someone from fab is willing to fulfil your wish. There's people with fantasies that enjoy being someone's first lover. Hope you find them soon. | |||
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"So we have Mr “hole driller” & Mr “women have nothing to offer but sex” Apart from being a little bit sick in my mouth… How cunningly you left the word " MOST" . and trying to take the course differently and name me misogynistic. Lol. You failed. " Women know what you mean, thanks for saying it. | |||
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"Yep, as the title says, I'm still a Virgin at 27 years old...I know, I've joined this site over a couple of years ago after being asked to do so just to see if I have any luck, but unfortunately it's just not turned out that way, I know it's on me to fix it, but I tried every and any avenue I can to try and myself more appealing, I don't know what else to do really... Read book, the rationale male and read about red pill before losing virginity. It's all about the mind game. Most women have nothing apart from sex to offer. Understand that. And for that sex, they want most males to be their worshippers which you can see around, especially in the profiles in this website. The easiest and best way to get laid and feel comfortable is to pay for sex. There are lot of sex parties and independent escorts providing service. Relationship, love, is all dreams and drama. You will understand them after sometime for sure. Look after yourself. Train. Be fit. Earn. Have some passion in life to follow. Give respect and expect same in return. If there comes a woman for some fun give the best possible. Hence most legends live in UK punting website and not here. For them this is just a testing place. This website serves women and couples really well. Just my opinion. Thank you What a load of shite." Couldn’t believe what I was reading. Just vile….
OP…. Work on yourself, your confidence and finding out your preferences. Maybes try tinder, going to the gym, ‘normal’ pubs bars and clubs, gigs etc and maybes chat to women there. I don’t think fab is the place - the site is not for getting laid - it’s a swinging site. If you want to stay on here, work on your pics and bio, but I would also be honest in your bio that you are a virgin, as that is definitely a niche that most women won’t go for on here. Good luck | |||
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"Why did you assume joining fab would get you laid? Women here tend to be looking for experienced playmates. We are not providers of sexual favours. Your profile says you want to know who you will be drilling. And that is pretty much all we need to know about you. I swear majority of the single male that message me think I'm a call girl who be one level up from their right or left hand. Sorry op but I feel you come to the wrong site. You're better off just going clubbing and meeting women the more natural way. Like actually try to strike up a conversation and rapport with someone naturally and see where it leads. If you're going to tell me you're too shy then take confidence building classes or do self help videos. Fab isn't the place to lose virginity " If someone is 27 and still a virgin I suspect striking up a conversation and building up a rapport is part of the problem. Winston | |||
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Op the majority of women on here will not want to meet a virgin.It is definitely not the easiest place for one to get a meet. And just because it's a swingers site does not mean every woman is gagging for sex all the time and will be any less fussy about who they fuck on here than in life outside of fab.
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