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By *ickie68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

2nd time on here left due to work commitments ut now ready new job plenty of time on my hands ut being a single guy on here looks like we get a raw deal how do you get accepted

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By *ustamanMan
over a year ago

weymouth

Time, don't be a dick, patience - bit like life really

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By *ickie68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

OK

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"Time, don't be a dick, patience - bit like life really "

Lol. What if your name is Dick??? Lol.

Anyway, OP, if you're seriously thinking of trying the lifestyle, then clubs and organised socials are your answer. Yes, it's not easy for single men in clubs- you may have to jump through some hoops to even get a membership, then some would charge you premium to enter. Then, once inside, you could realise there were not enough women and/or couples, or the place wasn't even for you. Or your social skills weren't good enough to even secure a conversation with anyone, not to mention anything else.

Then some organised socials only allow very limited numbers of single men (if at all), and sometimes you need to jump through some hoops, too. On contrary to clubs, they usually don't charge entry fee or it's considerably smaller, but they are social opportunities only, no play, unless your social skills get you an invite to a private meet with someone.

Relying purely on Fab might get you some success but there is a lot of men on here and not that many women or couples.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"2nd time on here left due to work commitments ut now ready new job plenty of time on my hands ut being a single guy on here looks like we get a raw deal how do you get accepted "

You have been on here a year. Have you not ventured to clubs etc

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By *ickie68 OP   Man
over a year ago

Bristol

No came off due to work was told local club in Bristol don't let single guys in

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By *weetsmellingtreatsWoman
over a year ago

Gloucester


"No came off due to work was told local club in Bristol don't let single guys in "

Go further afield x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Politeness is always good karma and I personally find it annoying this instant sex talk, especially in detail about what we're going to do together when we haven't exchanged words or seen eachothers faces. Auto delete and sometimes block from me. Accept many times over disappointments and timewasters.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Time, don't be a dick, patience - bit like life really

Lol. What if your name is Dick??? Lol.

Anyway, OP, if you're seriously thinking of trying the lifestyle, then clubs and organised socials are your answer. Yes, it's not easy for single men in clubs- you may have to jump through some hoops to even get a membership, then some would charge you premium to enter. Then, once inside, you could realise there were not enough women and/or couples, or the place wasn't even for you. Or your social skills weren't good enough to even secure a conversation with anyone, not to mention anything else.

Then some organised socials only allow very limited numbers of single men (if at all), and sometimes you need to jump through some hoops, too. On contrary to clubs, they usually don't charge entry fee or it's considerably smaller, but they are social opportunities only, no play, unless your social skills get you an invite to a private meet with someone.

Relying purely on Fab might get you some success but there is a lot of men on here and not that many women or couples. "

How do I find organised socials as I find clubs overwhelming and none of the men I met and saw had any social skills

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


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How do I find organised socials as I find clubs overwhelming and none of the men I met and saw had any social skills "

They are usually advertised in "meets and events" section on the forum, just under clubs section. Sometimes they could be advertised in local updates. There are a few that seem to be very regular, like Northampton one or the Secret Tea Parties.

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford


"

How do I find organised socials as I find clubs overwhelming and none of the men I met and saw had any social skills

They are usually advertised in "meets and events" section on the forum, just under clubs section. Sometimes they could be advertised in local updates. There are a few that seem to be very regular, like Northampton one or the Secret Tea Parties. "

It's actually "meet requests and parties"

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Definitely go to an organised social don't waste your time messaging ...if your normal you will do surprisingly well on here

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