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Breaking up with my gf, want to swing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here

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By *lutandhubbyCouple
over a year ago

west midlands

just ask her, what difference does it make if you're splitting up anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well your on here so whats the difference in her fuvking someone else

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Not sure how this is stories or fantasies (I suppose the girlfriend could be make believe) but presuming she's real, talk to her ask her if swinging or having a threesome has every appealed, have you discussed fantasies etc

Ask her if there's a guy at the gym she'd like to join you both in bed

Honestly questions like this baffle me as swinging as a couple requires so much trust and communication yet people don't even seem able to have that initial conversation to know if it's even a fantasy of their partners

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't think swinging is right for you if you're already having issues in your relationship.

You do need to be pretty secure with your partner I think to involve others.

You already think she's cheating & I'm not sure if she knows you're on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Listen to the ladies, all of them make sense

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

I have always looked upon swinging as an extension of our relationship, not something that is discrete from it; something that we both want.

When now meeting couples if I feel that there is any pressure on either party I back off.

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By *portbilly1976Man
over a year ago

manchester


"So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here "

Would you like to watch her with one of them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask but to be fair if u Splitting up u got to have a real Strong bond as there is always beautiful people come along that one of u could end up with as u find with this site its fun play no hassle if you get it right hope that helps.

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By *elshcouple18Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

But isn't that why you're on here, to find people? Pot and kettle if you ask us..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're clearly not emotionally invested in her if you are on here as a single guy

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow

Just be honest with her and tell her you love male bodies

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"just ask her, what difference does it make if you're splitting up anyway. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would love that

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

It is rare that a failing relationship can be fixed by involving someone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here "

If you're seriously asking that question you do not understand swinging....or relationships!

My best advice would be work to repair the relationship or leave. Do not bring swinging into it, it has no place there right now.

Tabitha

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here "

Doesn't sound like a great start to a swinging relationship. Lots of good advice on here. Take it.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Really!?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Swinging is for couples with strong relationships not one's that are breaking down.

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By *humper.Man
over a year ago

northumberland/scotland

Mate, me and my ex gave it a go at the end of our relationship. Never gonna work. You need a level of trust and respect that you two clearly don't have.

Welcome to the vast ocean of single men on here.

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By *randMrsNorthernCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Needs to be moved to the stories section by the sounds of things

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

It can be whatever you both want it to be. There’s no rule book. I had a few fun nights with my ex husband as we were getting divorced.

We had fun. No desire to save or rekindle our relationship, just had fun sex for a bit. It’s how he met his partner that he lives with now. We all met at a club. I was delighted for him

V x

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"Well your on here so whats the difference in her fuvking someone else "

Agreed!

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray


"So our relationship is breaking down. Pretty sure shes fucking body builders. How can I get her to swing with me before we split, maybe even get her on here "

If your relationship is breaking down, what makes you think swinging will fix that? It will most likely do the complete opposite, but as others have said, why is it OK for you to be fucking about..assuming that's what your on here for..but its not ok for her?

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Since you're both doing different things and breaking up just continue because you're here enjoying yourself and she maybe enjoying herself seems like a done deal

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By *iner69erMan
over a year ago

inverness

Maybe best to try and keep her. Don't forget, your chances on here of getting somebody are microscopic ,the same as in real life, so if your having regular fun with her and then you break up,it could be years before the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her you were curious about adding another person / watching her/ or open, and see the response. Nobody can tell you what to do, only you know what is right

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

No surprise your relationship has broken down when you've been on here behind her back.

Trying to use her for you own satisfactory gain is a bit if a dick move to be honest.

Just bin it off and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your relationship is breaking down and you’re ‘pretty sure’ she is cheating on you and fucking meatheads from the gym..walk away would be my advice

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By *un and Frolics 1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

You need to be in a strong trustng relationship to play with others, guys or couples , if things are already wrong playing is not going to fix it

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England


"So your relationship is breaking down and you’re ‘pretty sure’ she is cheating on you and fucking meatheads from the gym..walk away would be my advice "

But the OP has been on this site for over a year!

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