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"So we have little issue in that our nearly adult children keep asking where we are going. We are running out of "friends" to visit till 1am on a Sunday ![]() mum & dad are going out for a "date night" with out the kids | |||
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"Tell them you are serial killers and that late at night is the best time to pick up victims…." Lol | |||
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"So we have little issue in that our nearly adult children keep asking where we are going. We are running out of "friends" to visit till 1am on a Sunday ![]() We just say we're going to friends and our son is early 20s. | |||
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"Ours are still young ,but once rhay are old enough and start asking then we will tell them the truth as we are a very open family " They probably won't thank you for telling them about your sexual shenanigans | |||
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""a friends party" if it's evening and for daytime events "we're going to a spa" - neither are lies if you pretend that the hot tub is a spa ![]() Too much detail! Imagine oh mum n dad go to a spa every month they can recommend it, mum can you get Nan gift vouchers when you go tomorrow so she can go for her birthday. Then when Nan goes to the apparent regular spa with the daughter they don’t know her etc | |||
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" Too much detail! Imagine oh mum n dad go to a spa every month they can recommend it, mum can you get Nan gift vouchers when you go tomorrow so she can go for her birthday. Then when Nan goes to the apparent regular spa with the daughter they don’t know her etc " Nah, it works well for us as K likes a shower after a club visit so we say we went to a spa with a pool so she has a reason to get clean after, if not it's way weirder to have "gone out" to always need to shower when you come home. Our kids are not going to talk about spa visits. | |||
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"Ours are still young ,but once rhay are old enough and start asking then we will tell them the truth as we are a very open family " I wouldn't. | |||
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"So we have little issue in that our nearly adult children keep asking where we are going. We are running out of "friends" to visit till 1am on a Sunday ![]() You are the parents why do you need an exscuse. Just say you are going out. | |||
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"So we have little issue in that our nearly adult children keep asking where we are going. We are running out of "friends" to visit till 1am on a Sunday ![]() Exactly our thoughts. Especially as our 14 and 15 year old HATE us knowing where THEY are going or have been lol. ![]() | |||
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"Tell them you are serial killers and that late at night is the best time to pick up victims…." Also the best time to dispose of the bodies ![]() | |||
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"So we have little issue in that our nearly adult children keep asking where we are going. We are running out of "friends" to visit till 1am on a Sunday ![]() That's exactly what we say too - we tend to stay over at an apartment we rent for meets | |||
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"We tell them we're going out, we're adults and don't have to account for our whereabouts. Mobile phones are there in the event of an emergency. " Thats the other problem. in a club we dont have our phones on us....when we come out 15 missed calls later.....lmao | |||
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"Tell them you are serial killers and that late at night is the best time to pick up victims…." This is my favourite answer but my daughter would probably be up for tagging along!! lmao | |||
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"Just say you’re going dogging and laugh. I guarantee they won’t believe you and won’t ask any further questions because they’ll be disgusted at your response." Hahaha that might work!! | |||
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"Ours are still young ,but once rhay are old enough and start asking then we will tell them the truth as we are a very open family They probably won't thank you for telling them about your sexual shenanigans " I was thinking the same thing | |||
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"We tell them we're going out, we're adults and don't have to account for our whereabouts. Mobile phones are there in the event of an emergency. Thats the other problem. in a club we dont have our phones on us....when we come out 15 missed calls later.....lmao" Honestly, if your teens are ringing multiple times when you're out for a few hours, have a word, you're entitled to your own time, set the boundary. Give them an emergency number for another trusted adult. | |||
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"We tell them we're going out, we're adults and don't have to account for our whereabouts. Mobile phones are there in the event of an emergency. Thats the other problem. in a club we dont have our phones on us....when we come out 15 missed calls later.....lmao" You can buy a smart watch and link to your phone. It looks like a watch, but you can read your texts on it. | |||
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"So we have little issue in that our nearly adult children keep asking where we are going. We are running out of "friends" to visit till 1am on a Sunday ![]() Agreed! Our line is we’re out parting, no further explanation required | |||
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"So we have little issue in that our nearly adult children keep asking where we are going. We are running out of "friends" to visit till 1am on a Sunday ![]() Tell them the truth. At best they'll get uncomfortable and move out. | |||
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"Tell them you are serial killers and that late at night is the best time to pick up victims…." This absolutely destroyed me | |||
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"So we have little issue in that our nearly adult children keep asking where we are going. We are running out of "friends" to visit till 1am on a Sunday ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Theres plenty of studies or their suggesting that genz's take less risks, have less sex (relatively for their age when compared to past generations at that age) and drink less. | |||
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"I got my kid to help me with a costume for a fettish event. Just told them dress up party. Eventually it came back to bite me and I told them the truth. Went to cos play event and dressed up in leather. They told group that i was a Domatrix. No explaining or anymore questions. If do i remind them I'm the parent not their friend " Honestly. What the hell ![]() | |||
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"This thread is brilliant… something your kids will tell a therapist when they’re older. Imagine finding your parents on fab… mortified!!! ![]() I shared a taxie back from an fab event with a guy who discovered his step parents were swingers. | |||
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