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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are planning a visit tonight and just wondered if we could hear from a few people who have been to clubs in terms of how people interact.

Obviously quite nervous as we have only ever met individual couples at a pub after messaging and chatting...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just treat it as a normal night out at the pub or wherever,smile and say hello to people,be polite and respectful,same as you would in any other social setting really.Also don't be afraid to say "No thanks" when required.Go with no expectations and you'll have a blast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be surprised at how normal it all feels - honestly!

We were so nervous the first time we went to a club but within the first 30 mins it was fine.

Socialising with likeminded people is great.

Don’t go with expectations and you won’t be disappointed.

Do discuss boundaries and what’s acceptable to you both if you are going to play.

Have a great time!

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are planning a visit tonight and just wondered if we could hear from a few people who have been to clubs in terms of how people interact.

Obviously quite nervous as we have only ever met individual couples at a pub after messaging and chatting... "

Just treat it like any other night out

No expectations

Smile, be friendly and interact with others if you can

Clubs can be intimidating and we’ve been in situations where we have gone and just kept ourselves to ourselves, still manage to have a good night though

Good luck

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By *ixenandhoundCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

Go with the mindset that you'll have a great time together no matter what... go with the flow, don't feel pressured and you'll have a great time. Anything else is a bonus but only if you both fancy it.

Most importantly, be safe and have fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope the visit went OK but the fact the OP has left the site after suggests it maybe didn't.

KJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey! Makes me wonder what happened now

Viv

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I hope the visit went OK but the fact the OP has left the site after suggests it maybe didn't.

KJ x "

Maybe just another fantasist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one night wonder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure the OP was a verified couples profile.

Guess we’ll never know if they ever went now

Viv

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