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By *ellies OP   Couple
over a year ago

hull

Just wondered what peoples thoughts are on greedy girls ?

Is it just take all or can be selective ?

Our local club is organising one and I like the idea !

Xx

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By *man91Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Just wondered what peoples thoughts are on greedy girls ?

Is it just take all or can be selective ?

Our local club is organising one and I like the idea !

Xx"

I believe in most clubs you can be as selective as you like with who you play with. By near clubs if you are referring to Quest or Pandoras then I am sure it can be arranged e.g. highlighting it if playing in open area or choosing a private room.

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By *ellies OP   Couple
over a year ago

hull

I didn’t know if there was more expectation if a lady attends that type of event ! Xx

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By *abluesbabyMan
over a year ago

Gibraltar/Cheshire/London

The lady (or ladies) control it and - as always - No Means NO

Easy as that

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By *omerset tvTV/TS
over a year ago

Weston-super-Mare

See loads of greedy girls stuffing their face everytime i go in mcdonalds lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I encourage the guys I'm interested in, to approach. And deter those I'm not, as many will edge in. Guys there will help you out, to police it, if asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d assume that being selective would be expected. I mean if a lady wants to take on all comers then fill your boots. But I’d hope the gentleman would still expect some form of consent.

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I'm still selective

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

IMO, just treat it the exact same as every other event.

No expectations as usual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wondered what peoples thoughts are on greedy girls ?

Is it just take all or can be selective ?

Our local club is organising one and I like the idea !

Xx"

Of course, you can be selective. A greedy girls' night does not mean you have to fuck any guy who wants to fuck you. You get to choose what guys you have sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn’t know if there was more expectation if a lady attends that type of event ! Xx"

Sadly you will get some (not all) who think a greedy girls' night = women will guck any guy who asks.

Idiots like that quickly get proved wrong.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"I didn’t know if there was more expectation if a lady attends that type of event ! Xx"
nope there is never any expectations... a lady can pick or choose just like any other night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends where you go too.

Yes of course I'm regularly at a greedy girl event and rarely some guys try to push set boundaries but they're there for a reason

In the main, the greedy girls take on all comers but obviously any greedy girl can say no.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

First of all no is always no and consent is king.

As to the gang bangs side of things at greedy girls it's fun to watch but not something that turns me on or I'm generally impelled to join in. Personally I find it all a bit impersonal and almost degrading to the men involved, like their value is just as a dick. I don't want to feel like a sex toy or spare tool. I don't want to just be used, cum and go. I like a more personal connection.

Now before I caused outcry I know people who love gang bangs and greedy girls will say its not like that. I am sure from their prospective it's not like that, it just feels like that to me. Having said that I've seen in my time some beautiful, tender and caring moments in gang bangs even between strangers. So I know it's not always so impersonal. But I also get that some people like it because of the impersonal aspect. Some people like it that way, which is fine.

Would I ever take part? I like a good orgy where the energy and chemistry flows. Orgies are just more fun for me because there a far better mix/ratio of men and women and the vibe tends to be better. I've been in a small more personal one women a few guys thing that just happened naturally and was lovely. So despite all that, yes maybe if the chemistry and vibe was right I could enjoy it. I just don't find pleasure in something cool, impersonal or where I feel I'm just veiwed as another cock. So maybe prove me wrong one day

That's my veiws anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all no is always no and consent is king.

As to the gang bangs side of things at greedy girls it's fun to watch but not something that turns me on or I'm generally impelled to join in. Personally I find it all a bit impersonal and almost degrading to the men involved, like their value is just as a dick. I don't want to feel like a sex toy or spare tool. I don't want to just be used, cum and go. I like a more personal connection.

Now before I caused outcry I know people who love gang bangs and greedy girls will say its not like that. I am sure from their prospective it's not like that, it just feels like that to me. Having said that I've seen in my time some beautiful, tender and caring moments in gang bangs even between strangers. So I know it's not always so impersonal. But I also get that some people like it because of the impersonal aspect. Some people like it that way, which is fine.

Would I ever take part? I like a good orgy where the energy and chemistry flows. Orgies are just more fun for me because there a far better mix/ratio of men and women and the vibe tends to be better. I've been in a small more personal one women a few guys thing that just happened naturally and was lovely. So despite all that, yes maybe if the chemistry and vibe was right I could enjoy it. I just don't find pleasure in something cool, impersonal or where I feel I'm just veiwed as another cock. So maybe prove me wrong one day

That's my veiws anyway"

Well it's a good job 99% don't think like you. A greedy girl is exactly that..guys love it and they can get to watch and play with one of the greedy girls of their choice.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"First of all no is always no and consent is king.

As to the gang bangs side of things at greedy girls it's fun to watch but not something that turns me on or I'm generally impelled to join in. Personally I find it all a bit impersonal and almost degrading to the men involved, like their value is just as a dick. I don't want to feel like a sex toy or spare tool. I don't want to just be used, cum and go. I like a more personal connection.

Now before I caused outcry I know people who love gang bangs and greedy girls will say its not like that. I am sure from their prospective it's not like that, it just feels like that to me. Having said that I've seen in my time some beautiful, tender and caring moments in gang bangs even between strangers. So I know it's not always so impersonal. But I also get that some people like it because of the impersonal aspect. Some people like it that way, which is fine.

Would I ever take part? I like a good orgy where the energy and chemistry flows. Orgies are just more fun for me because there a far better mix/ratio of men and women and the vibe tends to be better. I've been in a small more personal one women a few guys thing that just happened naturally and was lovely. So despite all that, yes maybe if the chemistry and vibe was right I could enjoy it. I just don't find pleasure in something cool, impersonal or where I feel I'm just veiwed as another cock. So maybe prove me wrong one day

That's my veiws anyway

Well it's a good job 99% don't think like you. A greedy girl is exactly that..guys love it and they can get to watch and play with one of the greedy girls of their choice.

"

Its not 99% and from a male perspective have sympathies with his view and agree generally prefer a more mix at least 60/40. Lots and lots feel the same way. From female perspective sometimes love it but also feels impersonal at times. It’s easy though - if not your thing don’t go to a greedy girls night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all no is always no and consent is king.

As to the gang bangs side of things at greedy girls it's fun to watch but not something that turns me on or I'm generally impelled to join in. Personally I find it all a bit impersonal and almost degrading to the men involved, like their value is just as a dick. I don't want to feel like a sex toy or spare tool. I don't want to just be used, cum and go. I like a more personal connection.

Now before I caused outcry I know people who love gang bangs and greedy girls will say its not like that. I am sure from their prospective it's not like that, it just feels like that to me. Having said that I've seen in my time some beautiful, tender and caring moments in gang bangs even between strangers. So I know it's not always so impersonal. But I also get that some people like it because of the impersonal aspect. Some people like it that way, which is fine.

Would I ever take part? I like a good orgy where the energy and chemistry flows. Orgies are just more fun for me because there a far better mix/ratio of men and women and the vibe tends to be better. I've been in a small more personal one women a few guys thing that just happened naturally and was lovely. So despite all that, yes maybe if the chemistry and vibe was right I could enjoy it. I just don't find pleasure in something cool, impersonal or where I feel I'm just veiwed as another cock. So maybe prove me wrong one day

That's my veiws anyway

Well it's a good job 99% don't think like you. A greedy girl is exactly that..guys love it and they can get to watch and play with one of the greedy girls of their choice.

Its not 99% and from a male perspective have sympathies with his view and agree generally prefer a more mix at least 60/40. Lots and lots feel the same way. From female perspective sometimes love it but also feels impersonal at times. It’s easy though - if not your thing don’t go to a greedy girls night "

Very true. As a greedy girl and seeing it from my perspective, the guys who do come love it.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

Sausage fest - but not always necessarily the sausage that you fancy

But no, going to a GG night does not mean you have to take every cock that’s pointing in your direction. Mrs and I went to one last month. She slept with just one guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sausage fest - but not always necessarily the sausage that you fancy

But no, going to a GG night does not mean you have to take every cock that’s pointing in your direction. Mrs and I went to one last month. She slept with just one guy. "

I once slept with one guy but the others kept me awake very much

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

I'll happily take all comers

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"Sausage fest - but not always necessarily the sausage that you fancy

But no, going to a GG night does not mean you have to take every cock that’s pointing in your direction. Mrs and I went to one last month. She slept with just one guy.

I once slept with one guy but the others kept me awake very much "

I was wondering too. Sounded very romantic for a greedy girls night

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"First of all no is always no and consent is king.

As to the gang bangs side of things at greedy girls it's fun to watch but not something that turns me on or I'm generally impelled to join in. Personally I find it all a bit impersonal and almost degrading to the men involved, like their value is just as a dick. I don't want to feel like a sex toy or spare tool. I don't want to just be used, cum and go. I like a more personal connection.

Now before I caused outcry I know people who love gang bangs and greedy girls will say its not like that. I am sure from their prospective it's not like that, it just feels like that to me. Having said that I've seen in my time some beautiful, tender and caring moments in gang bangs even between strangers. So I know it's not always so impersonal. But I also get that some people like it because of the impersonal aspect. Some people like it that way, which is fine.

Would I ever take part? I like a good orgy where the energy and chemistry flows. Orgies are just more fun for me because there a far better mix/ratio of men and women and the vibe tends to be better. I've been in a small more personal one women a few guys thing that just happened naturally and was lovely. So despite all that, yes maybe if the chemistry and vibe was right I could enjoy it. I just don't find pleasure in something cool, impersonal or where I feel I'm just veiwed as another cock. So maybe prove me wrong one day

That's my veiws anyway"

Sooo.

In my experience, the guys at GG type events choose whether to objectify themselves or not. There are those who come, eat shoots, and leave, and those who stick around til the bitter end, have a hug afterwards and we generally end up friends.

Orgies are fun, but men who take part in GG type stuff are giving me a huge gift and it is appreciated whether I know who they are or not.

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By *uckslut and MCouple
over a year ago

Poole

Us greedy girls, meeting at swinging greedy girl events are swingers, not sex workers. We have a choice! We can, and I have said no some at GG events. It's our body, our choice. It's not a free for all and take one for the team.

We attended a swingers club a few weeks back. We'd arrived, walked in, walked up to a very good female freind of ours who I bent over to kiss. We'd arranged to meet there. A random chap, bear hugged me grabbing my tit. He was told to back off by myself. He was told off by my female freind. Then banned from the club for his effort. Respect and boundries are simple rules some need to learn. It's not a free for all.

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Id love to watch something like this

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Whenever I've seen it, the woman has come with a trusted man who acts as gatekeeper. That way she can relax and enjoy without worrying.

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By *JohnMan
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

With the GG/GB things I've been a part of, the women have been people I already know and like. I don't feel objectified. The opposite in fact - it's good to see them enjoying themselves, and good to play a part in providing that pleasure.

It's never a free-for-all, unless that's been arranged in advance. Men, always ask if you can join in. If they say no, take it gracefully. And always make sure you have a condom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First of all no is always no and consent is king.

As to the gang bangs side of things at greedy girls it's fun to watch but not something that turns me on or I'm generally impelled to join in. Personally I find it all a bit impersonal and almost degrading to the men involved, like their value is just as a dick. I don't want to feel like a sex toy or spare tool. I don't want to just be used, cum and go. I like a more personal connection.

Now before I caused outcry I know people who love gang bangs and greedy girls will say its not like that. I am sure from their prospective it's not like that, it just feels like that to me. Having said that I've seen in my time some beautiful, tender and caring moments in gang bangs even between strangers. So I know it's not always so impersonal. But I also get that some people like it because of the impersonal aspect. Some people like it that way, which is fine.

Would I ever take part? I like a good orgy where the energy and chemistry flows. Orgies are just more fun for me because there a far better mix/ratio of men and women and the vibe tends to be better. I've been in a small more personal one women a few guys thing that just happened naturally and was lovely. So despite all that, yes maybe if the chemistry and vibe was right I could enjoy it. I just don't find pleasure in something cool, impersonal or where I feel I'm just veiwed as another cock. So maybe prove me wrong one day

That's my veiws anyway

Sooo.

In my experience, the guys at GG type events choose whether to objectify themselves or not. There are those who come, eat shoots, and leave, and those who stick around til the bitter end, have a hug afterwards and we generally end up friends.

Orgies are fun, but men who take part in GG type stuff are giving me a huge gift and it is appreciated whether I know who they are or not. "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us greedy girls, meeting at swinging greedy girl events are swingers, not sex workers. We have a choice! We can, and I have said no some at GG events. It's our body, our choice. It's not a free for all and take one for the team.

We attended a swingers club a few weeks back. We'd arrived, walked in, walked up to a very good female freind of ours who I bent over to kiss. We'd arranged to meet there. A random chap, bear hugged me grabbing my tit. He was told to back off by myself. He was told off by my female freind. Then banned from the club for his effort. Respect and boundries are simple rules some need to learn. It's not a free for all. "

Absolutely spot on and well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I've seen it, the woman has come with a trusted man who acts as gatekeeper. That way she can relax and enjoy without worrying. "

Tbf, most the greedy girls at the Gatehouse are not accompanied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With the GG/GB things I've been a part of, the women have been people I already know and like. I don't feel objectified. The opposite in fact - it's good to see them enjoying themselves, and good to play a part in providing that pleasure.

It's never a free-for-all, unless that's been arranged in advance. Men, always ask if you can join in. If they say no, take it gracefully. And always make sure you have a condom."

That is absolutely perfect

Well said

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Whenever I've seen it, the woman has come with a trusted man who acts as gatekeeper. That way she can relax and enjoy without worrying. "
or have a member of staff or another greedy girl look out for them.

I am to be fair after the end result. Its not for all as I am expecting guys to be up for it with little or no foreplay.. and it is so about what I want

. The fact that Most of them have q good time and a laugh is just an added bonus.. when I am going to be a greedy girl it really is all about me getting my wants satisfied... although I've yet to be told I made anyone feel objectified in a bad way as yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there ever ang gg meets at clubs in north east daytime?

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We are going to Xtasia & Flirts on 23/9, its a Greedy Girls night. However, our intention is to be a bit more selective than ‘cum one and all’ But who knows, it sort of depends on the vibe and who’s there. We are going for a nice night out, hoping to meet people we fancy & have a bit of fun. Say hinif you’re going

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By *ountryfansCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon

Would love to go to a greedy girl night. But nicky is unsure

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By *reedy JamesMan
over a year ago

South Yorkshire


"Just wondered what peoples thoughts are on greedy girls ?"

My thoughts? Jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't mean that the women there are under any obligation to play with anyone.

No, always means no.

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham


"Are there ever ang gg meets at clubs in north east daytime?"

Sorry I didn’t see this earlier. Tease Tuesday, first Tuesday of the month, is the one Djohn and I both go to at club F. Good day, lovely gentlemen, spotters to watch my back (and yours) - get yourself along next month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish i had seen this todayx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would love to go to a greedy girl night. But nicky is unsure"

Well just go along and see the situation. No necessity to play but if she fancies, pick one or a few out and go from there. It becomes addictive

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth


"Whenever I've seen it, the woman has come with a trusted man who acts as gatekeeper. That way she can relax and enjoy without worrying. "

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By *elsbells2011Couple
over a year ago

fife

We are looking to attend our first greedy girl party this month with the view to it being a complete free for all. It’s been a long standing fantasy of both ours for me to be in a proper gangbang situation while blindfolded. For me this must be a free for all and I know I’m probably going to involve me being fucked by some guys I’d usually turn down in any other situation but as I will be blindfolded I won’t know. Very hard to explain but if I was to pick and choose it would almost spoil the buzz of removing the blindfold after and walking through the club and not knowing who or how many times anyone particular fucked me. Although hubby and i will be very much in communication that he will be watching making sure everyone behaves and if for any reason I don’t feel I’m enjoying a particular guy then I will let hubby know and he can intervene.

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