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By *omlikestoplay OP   Man
over a year ago

cambs

If couples open your first message but doesn't show as deleted, would it mean they may be interested in the future?

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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Probably not.

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

No,

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

I'd say probably not, best to move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know im not a couple but i dont delete after opening.. i mass delete every so often..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows? The polite thing to do is respect that they've chosen not to respond and don't message again unless they do.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

It could be that only one half of the couple has seen the message

But there could be any number of reasons for it being read and not deleted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows? The polite thing to do is respect that they've chosen not to respond and don't message again unless they do. "

It really is this simple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of us will often read a message and leave it there till the other one has seen it.

If it’s still there a week or so later I’d say it’s down to not being interested.

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

Clutching at straws.....

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By *ally_be_coolWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Who knows? The polite thing to do is respect that they've chosen not to respond and don't message again unless they do. "

Not a couple but as a single i agree with this. I delete messages I have zero interest in and only keep them in my inbox if I'm undecided or just too busy to add to my active conversations at that time. But everyone uses the site differently, so unless they message you in the future you will never know, and that just has to be okay.

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"If couples open your first message but doesn't show as deleted, would it mean they may be interested in the future?"

Take a different view to some here. If really bad/no interest we delete on spot. If really good or fits with current interest reply quickly. Lots in the middle we leave for a bit. They are probably not interested but no harm in a polite follow-up at some point particularly if in response to a status. Just don’t cut and paste same message Sometimes people are in the mood to reply and sometimes busy and not. First message may be of interest but something in second one peeks interest. We’ve replied to people second or third time around and ditto in prior single life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.. it happens a lot, I use to keep them thinking it might lead to something in the future but you guessed it.. it never did.. now if opened and not deleted it has an inbox life of less than 24 hours

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By *layTimeEssexCouple
over a year ago

Stansted


"If couples open your first message but doesn't show as deleted, would it mean they may be interested in the future?

Take a different view to some here. If really bad/no interest we delete on spot. If really good or fits with current interest reply quickly. Lots in the middle we leave for a bit. They are probably not interested but no harm in a polite follow-up at some point particularly if in response to a status. Just don’t cut and paste same message Sometimes people are in the mood to reply and sometimes busy and not. First message may be of interest but something in second one peeks interest. We’ve replied to people second or third time around and ditto in prior single life. "

*first message may NOT be of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t over think it … they’ll reply if they’re interested

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian


"If couples open your first message but doesn't show as deleted, would it mean they may be interested in the future?"

It’s the new thing to do …

Just ignore it and delete the conversation otherwise you’ll just go mad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us we rarely delete anything tbh.

It just falls down the list out of sight.

No harm in trying again sometime as we may just not have had time or the inclination to reply first time around.

Funny enough a cut and paste repeat jumps out at ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing to do once you've sent a first message is delete it from your sent folder,then you can forget about it unless they reply.

If you're the type of person that likes to look if your messages have been read/deleted,I'd say it's generally bad form to send a second message after not recieving a reply to your first one.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

No. We have hundreds of messages like that, absolutely not interested. Most of them are along the lines wanna fuck later ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If couples open your first message but doesn't show as deleted, would it mean they may be interested in the future?"

No one can answer your question bud, everyone uses their profile differently, don't look at past sent messages to see if they've been read just look forward to a message in your inbox

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By *ir-spunk-alotMan
over a year ago

Southern England

Its time to build a bridge and get over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be many reasons.

Pay it no mind, ignore your outbox and focus on your inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my experience probably not.. it happens a lot (and i mean a lot) when I've sent messages.. i honestly can't think of a single time i recieved a message after if it opened and left open are a few days... now i delete after 3 or 4 day, making a note that it was read and not deleted.. they will probably end up deleting your message after a week or so anyway

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