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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey everyone,

I've visited clubs before however never on my own. What should I anticipate being a single female? Is it any different?

Thanks

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

The difference is you'll likely to be more desired than couples or men.

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By *s Lola Wand - SocketWoman
over a year ago

leicester

"Hey everyone,

I've visited clubs before however never on my own. What should I anticipate being a single female? Is it any different?

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I’d say that it depends which club or night at the club you choose to go too .

I find flying solo is an easier night to navigate , unless your club buddy ( male or female ) has a really similar outlook and you’re both good at reading each other’s responses to others

Nothing worse than one of you wanting to dive in and the other thinking nooooo not for me

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Just make sure you let the club know your a single female and ask if they will keep an eye on you. But make sure you have fun

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

All depends on the club and who is there. In some clubs (normally ones that have loads of single men in), you might feel like you can't move anywhere as you're being followed by hordes of sex-starved men who suddenly lost the power of speech but who believe you are there to entertain them. If you're a greedy girl, you might like it.

Some people in clubs might treat you as "fresh meat", but most clubs would look after you as a single female.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Hey everyone,

I've visited clubs before however never on my own. What should I anticipate being a single female? Is it any different?

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I’d say that it depends which club or night at the club you choose to go too .

I find flying solo is an easier night to navigate , unless your club buddy ( male or female ) has a really similar outlook and you’re both good at reading each other’s responses to others

Nothing worse than one of you wanting to dive in and the other thinking nooooo not for me

Totally agree with this! We are wondering about the dynamics of either arriving seperately or going seperately as often guys seem intimidated to come and say hi

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only difference is you haven't got that other person to talk to if the club is quiet or no other talent there yet.

You get to know people there though and can talk to them and enjoy the night

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

It’s great fun, much better IMO.

I attend totally on my own or we have a group of single women on kik who party all over the country. You tend to find someone is going somewhere you are and link up

always someone to say hi to xx

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

"All depends on the club and who is there. In some clubs (normally ones that have loads of single men in), you might feel like you can't move anywhere as you're being followed by hordes of sex-starved men who suddenly lost the power of speech but who believe you are there to entertain them. If you're a greedy girl, you might like it.

Some people in clubs might treat you as "fresh meat", but most clubs would look after you as a single female. "

Just to add to this, I only attend clubs where hosts control a guest list/ it’s ticketed. It’s the clubs job to ensure there isn’t the men mentioned above.

Never had an issue with an imbalance of single men and clubbed for 6 years at all different clubs/ events x

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